Uncancisa njani ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Umxholo
Xa owasetyhini osancancisayo umntwana ekhulelwa, angaqhubeka nokuncancisa umntwana wakhe omdala, nangona kunjalo ukuveliswa kobisi kuncitshisiwe kwaye incasa yobisi iyatshintshwa ngenxa yotshintsho lwehomoni uphawu lokukhulelwa, olunokwenza nomntwana omdala ukuyeka ukuncancisa ngokwendalo.
Umfazi unokufumana ukubambeka ngelixa encancisa umntwana omdala, okuyindlela eqhelekileyo yokuphendula kwesibeleko kwaye ayisosizathu senkxalabo, kuba ayiphazamisi ukukhula komntwana.
Uncancisa njani xa ukhulelwe
Ukuncancisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa kufuneka kwenziwe ngesiqhelo, kwaye owasetyhini kufuneka abe nokutya okusempilweni kunye nokutya okunesondlo, kuba ukondla abantwana bakhe ababini ukongeza kuye. Jonga ukuba kufuneka ondle njani umama ngexesha lokuncancisa.
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana wesibini, umfazi angancancisa abantwana ababini bobudala obahlukeneyo ngaxeshanye, nangona oku kunokuba nzima, ukongeza ekwenzeni umona phakathi kwabantwana. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba noncedo oluvela kumalungu osapho ukunqanda lo msebenzi ukuba ungapheli.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba eyona nto iphambili ekuncanciseni inikwe usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, njengoko eneemfuno zesondlo, esancanciswa nanini na xa efuna njalo. Umntakwenu omdala kufuneka ancancise kuphela emva kokutya kwabo nasemva kokuba umntwana encancisile, njengoko ibele liza kuba neemvakalelo ezingaphaya komzimba kuye.
Kuqhelekile, nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana okhulileyo ayeke ukuncancisa kancinci kancinci, oku kungenxa yokuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa incasa yotshintsho lobisi, ibangela ukuba umntwana angaphindi afune ubisi kwangexesha elifanayo. Funda nokuba ungayeka njani ukuncancisa kwaye nini.
Ukungqinelana nokuncancisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Ukuncancisa ngexa lokukhulelwa akubonisi bungozi kumama okanye kusana oluzayo, nangona kunjalo kubalulekile ukuba ugqirha obelekisayo axelelwe ukuba ukuncancisa kusaqhubeka.
Ukuba ukukhulelwa kuthathwa ngugqirha ukuba semngciphekweni, ngamathuba okuphuma kwesisu okanye ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha okanye ukuba kukho ukopha ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukuncancisa kufuneka kuyekwe.