Isinxibo salo mzobi sibonisa izinto ezikhohlakeleyo (kunye nezintle) Izinto ezithethwa ngabantu ngomfanekiso womzimba

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Igcisa elizinze eLondon lithatha i-Intanethi emva kokudala isinxibo sokwenza ingxelo esigqunywe kumagqabaza awenziwe ngabantu ngomzimba wakhe.

"Esi siqwenga asiyiyo [...] iprojekthi yamampunge, okanye iqela elinosizi," kubhala uJoJo Oldham kwiwebhusayithi yakhe. “Andizami ukwenza abantu bandisizele ngenxa yokuba kukho umntu owakha wandixelela ukuba ndinemathanga endudumo, amadolo angaqhelekanga, iminwe yesoseji, namazinyo e- minging.

La magqabaza angalunganga nalungileyo yindlela yokuba uOldham abonakalise ngohambo lwakhe lokuzamkela. Nangona efikile indlela ende, uziva ngathi kukho inkqubela phambili ekufuneka yenziwe.

“Uthando endinalo ngomzimba wam kule mihla yinto ekufuneka ndiyifundile kwaye ifuna ukugcinwa rhoqo,” utshilo. "Uninzi lweengcinga ezingena entlokweni yam ndingamenywanga azilunganga. Ndizibetha ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ziyaqhubeka ukuza."

Ininzi indlela u-Oldham aziva ngayo ngomzimba wakhe inento yokwenza nembono yakhe yobuqu, kodwa u-Oldham wenze le lokhwe ukubonisa amagama amandla anokuba nawo kumfanekiso womzimba womntu.

"Ukuncoma okukhulu kunamandla okwenza usuku lomntu. Kodwa kutheni siziva isidingo sokwabelana ngezimvo ezikhohlakeleyo, ezingafunekiyo nezingacelwanga kwinkangeleko yabantu?" uthi. "Izinto ezimbi abantu abazithethileyo ngenkangeleko yam azisandicaphukisi, kodwa banamathele kum, kwaye bayile indlela endicinga ngayo ngam."

Injongo ka-Oldham kukunceda amadoda kunye nabasetyhini bafumane indlela yokubhiyozela imizimba yabo. Ngelixa kunokuba nzima ukunqanda amagqabantshintshi, akufuneki akwenze uzive umhle.

"Yiya lula kuwe, kwaye ube nobubele emzimbeni wakho," u-Oldham uxelele uMore. "Mhlawumbi yinto encinci kakhulu kunokuba ungathanda, kwaye mhlawumbi ayibonakali imangalisa njengoko ungathanda kwiibhulukhwe ezishushu, kodwa musa ukuchitha ubomi bakho bonke ulwa nayo. Yinkcitho enjalo kwaye yenza kuphela lusizi.

Besingenakuthetha ngcono ngokwethu.

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