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Umxholo

• Liyeke ityala
• Beka izinto eziza kuqala
• Gcina umkhondo weqela lakho lenkxaso
• Tshatisa loo mntu nomsebenzi
• Yicacise into oyifunayo
• Nika imiyalelo
• Musa ukubila izinto ezincinci
• Hlela izicelo zakho zoncedo kwi-intanethi

Ukuba uhlala nomhlaza wamabele, uyazi ukuba ukugcina unyango ngumsebenzi osisigxina. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, ubunokukwazi ukukhathalela usapho lwakho, usebenze iiyure ezininzi, kwaye ugcine ubomi obudlamkileyo ekuhlaleni. Kodwa ngomhlaza wamabele ohambele phambili, kuya kufuneka wenze utshintsho oluthile. Ukuba uzama ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho, inokunyusa uxinzelelo lwakho kwaye iphazamise ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo. Olona khetho lwakho lubalaseleyo? Cela uncedo!

Ukucela uncedo kunokukwenza uzive ungaphumeleli kwaye uxhomekeke ngakumbi, kodwa okwahlukileyo kuyinyani. Ukuba uyakwazi ukucela uncedo, oko kuthetha ukuba uyazazi kwaye uyaziqonda iintsilelo zakho. Nje ukuba uvume ukuba ufuna uncedo, Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso zokuba ungayifumana njani.

Liyeke ityala

Ukucela uncedo ayikokungaphumeleli komlinganiswa okanye uphawu lokuba awenzi konke onako. Kule meko, kuthetha ukuba uyabamkela ubunyani bemeko okuyo. Uninzi lwabahlobo bakho kunye nabathandekayo bakho mhlawumbi bafuna ukukunceda kodwa abazi ukuba njani. Banokoyika ukukucaphukisa ngokubonakala ngathi bayatyhala. Ukucela uncedo lwabo kunokubanika ukuqonda injongo kunye nokukunceda.

Beka izinto eziza kuqala

Thatha isigqibo sokuba zeziphi na iimfuno kwaye zeziphi izinto eziwela kudidi "olunokuba mnandi". Cela uncedo lwangaphambili kwaye ubeke owokugqibela emkhenkceni.

Gcina umkhondo weqela lakho lenkxaso

Yenza uluhlu lwabo bonke abantu abathe bacela ukunceda, kunye nabo bonke abo ucele uncedo kubo. Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba awuxhomekekanga kakhulu kubantu abambalwa ngelixa usilela ukubandakanya abanye.

Tshatisa loo mntu nomsebenzi

Xa kunokwenzeka, cela abantu ukuba bancede ngemisebenzi efanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo amandla abo, umdla wabo kunye neshedyuli. Ngokuqinisekileyo awulindelanga ukuba umhlobo aphoswe ngumsebenzi ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuqhuba abantwana bakho ukuya nokubuya esikolweni. Umntakwenu oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala angayintlekele yokwenza isidlo sangokuhlwa kodwa angagqibelela ekuhambeni izinja kwaye athabathe imimiselo yakho.

Yicacise into oyifunayo

Nokuba oyena mhlobo uneenjongo ezintle unokwenza izibonelelo ezingacacanga zoncedo kwaye asilele ukulandela. Musa ukucinga ukuba isithembiso besinganyanisekanga. Amaxesha amaninzi, abayazi into oyifunayo okanye indlela yokubonelela ngayo. Banokulinda isicelo esithile esivela kuwe.

Ukuba umntu ubuza ukuba bangenza ntoni ukunceda, mxelele! Yiba ngqo kangangoko. Umzekelo, "Nceda uncede uthathe uLauren kwiklasi ye-ballet ngoLwesibini nangooLwezine ngo-4: 30 emva kwemini?" Unokufuna inkxaso yemvakalelo okanye yomzimba ngeentsuku zonyango. Babuze ukuba bangathanda na ukuchitha ubusuku kunye nawe kwiintsuku zonyango.

Nika imiyalelo

Ukuba umhlobo wakho osenyongweni unikezela ngokunyamekela abantwana ngorhatya ezimbini ngeveki, sukucinga ukuba bayazi ukuba zisebenza njani izinto endlwini yakho. Bazise ukuba abantwana badla isidlo sangokuhlwa ngentsimbi yesi-7. kwaye sebhedini ngentsimbi ye-9. Ukubonelela ngemiyalelo ecacileyo necacileyo kunokunciphisa ezinye iinkxalabo zabo kunye nokuthintela ukunganxibelelani kakuhle okanye ukudideka.

Musa ukubila izinto ezincinci

Mhlawumbi ayisiyiyo indlela obuya kusonga ngayo ukuhlamba okanye ukupheka isidlo sangokuhlwa, kodwa kusaqhubeka ukwenziwa. Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ufumane uncedo oludingayo kwaye iqela lakho lenkxaso liyazi ukuba ulixabise kangakanani.

Hlela izicelo zakho zoncedo kwi-intanethi

Ukwenza indawo yabucala, ekwi-intanethi ukulungiselela abahlobo, usapho, kunye noogxa bakho kungabunciphisa ubunzima bokucela ngokuthe ngqo uncedo. Ezinye iiwebhusayithi zokuxhasa umhlaza njengeCaringBridge.org yenza kube lula ukulungelelanisa imisebenzi kunye nokulawula amavolontiya. Ungasebenzisa le ndawo ukuthumela izicelo zokutya zosapho, ukukhwela ukuya kwiindawo zonyango, okanye utyelelo lomhlobo.

Izandla zokunceda uLotsa zinekhalenda yokwabela ukuhanjiswa kwesidlo kunye nokulungelelanisa ukukhwela ukuya kwiindawo zokuqeshwa. Indawo iyakuthumela izikhumbuzo kwaye incede ukulungelelanisa izinto ezizenzekelayo ukuze kungabikho nto iwela ngokuqhekeka.

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