Yintoni i-asexuality kwaye unjani ubudlelwane be-asexual

Umxholo

• Yintoni ebangela ubungqingili
• Lunjani ulwalamano lwe-asexual
• Indlela yokwahlulahlula ubundlobongela nokungabikho komnqweno wesini
• Umahluko phakathi kwe-asexuality kunye ne-celibacy

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngabantu besini esinye kungqamana nokuqhelana nokwabelana ngesondo okubonakaliswa kukungabikho komdla kwezokwabelana ngesondo, ngaphandle kokonwabela ukusondelelana, ke ngoko, umntu o-asexual uyakwazi ukuthanda nokuzibandakanya ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane, ukugcina ukuthandana ngaphambi komtshato okanye nokutshata ngaphandle kokudibana ngesondo, uninzi yexesha, nangona ukuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo kunokwenzeka.

Olu hlobo lobudlelwane obungenasondo lunokwenziwa nabantu besini esifanayo okanye hayi kwaye kulula xa bobabini abantu abatshatileyo be-asexual. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngabantu abathandanayo ngokwesini esifanayo nobungqingili, ubufanasini okanye isini, kwaye, ke, umntu akufuneki agwebe okanye aphathe kakubi aba bantu, kuba bonke kufanelekile ukuphathwa ngentlonipho nangesidima.

Yintoni ebangela ubungqingili

Ngelixa ukuphazamiseka kwezesondo kunye nokuphazamiseka kunokubakho izinto ezichaphazelekayo ezinje ngoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, ukungqubana kwezenkolo, ukusetyenziswa kwamayeza anciphisa i-libido, kunye nezifo zehomoni ezinje nge-hypothyroidism kunye ne-hypogonadism, kwi-asexuality unobangela awunakuchazwa kuba azikho izizathu eziphilayo. okanye imiba yengqondo ebandakanyekayo.

Ingcali yezesondo yezonyango yeyona ingcali yezempilo ifanelekileyo yokunyanga ukuphazamiseka okunxulumene nokwabelana ngesondo kwaye, ke, ukuba umntu uziva ukuba unohlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka olufuna unyango, kuya kufuneka akhangele kulo msebenzi ukuze afezekise impilo yomzimba, yeemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. isini.

Lunjani ulwalamano lwe-asexual

Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye banokuba nobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo, apho kukho uthando, umdla, ukubandakanyeka kunye nokusondelelana, kubandakanya ukulala ngokungaqhelekanga kunye nokungena, ukuphulula amalungu esini okanye isondo lomlomo, nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, abafowunelwa ngokwesondo abafane. Kungenxa yokuba i-asexuals ikholelwa ukuba uthando alunyanzelekanga ukuba lunxulunyaniswe nesondo, kwaye, ke, abaziva sidingo sokuziva betsala ngokwesondo ukuze babe kubudlelwane.

Nangona ukungena ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kunqabile ukwenzeka kwi-asexuality, ngenxa yokunqongophala komdla, ukuphulula amalungu esini kunokusetyenziswa ngamadoda ukuze kupheliswe isidoda esigqithileyo, njengoko umzimba uqhubeka nale mveliso kubomi bendoda. Ke, ukuphulula amalungu esini kunokwenzeka phakathi kwabantu abathandanayo ngaphandle komnqweno wesini obandakanyekayo kwaye ngaphandle kweengcinga ezinxulumene nezesondo, sisenzo nje somatshini.

Indlela yokwahlulahlula ubundlobongela nokungabikho komnqweno wesini

Ukuphazamiseka kweminqweno yesondo sisifo esibonakaliswa kukungabikho kweminqweno yesondo kunye nokungafuni ukuba nolwalamano olusondeleyo, oludala uxinzelelo kunye nokubandezeleka. Kule meko, umntu wayenomnqweno wesini kodwa ngaxa lithile, yehla okanye yaphela ukubakho. Kwezi meko, inkanuko yesini inokwandiswa ngokunyanga, apho kunokubonakala isizathu esinciphisayo se-libido, ukongeza kumanyathelo endalo. Jonga ezinye iindlela zonyango lwasekhaya ukonyusa inkanuko yesini.

Kwimeko ye-asexuality, onke amalungu kunye neenkqubo zisebenza kakuhle, kodwa umntu akanamnqweno okanye akukho mfuneko yokuba abelane ngesondo, kwaye akayikhathalelanga loo nto, ngenxa yoko akukho buhlungu okanye ukubandezeleka okubandakanyekileyo. Xa kukho iimpawu ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye nokubandezeleka, olu phawu lunokubonisa ukungahambi kakuhle komnqweno wesini, isifo esinezizathu ezininzi ezinokunyangwa ngamanyathelo alula.

Umahluko phakathi kwe-asexuality kunye ne-celibacy

Ukungatshati kukukhetha apho umntu engenalo unxibelelwano olusenyongweni kodwa akukho kuthandana okanye ukutshata kwaye yiyo loo nto umntu engenalo naluphi na uhlobo lokusondela okanye ulwalamano, ehlala engatshatanga ubomi bakhe bonke. Umzekelo oqhelekileyo ngababingeleli kunye noonongendi abagqiba ngezizathu zonqulo ukuba bangabinalo naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane bezothando, nangona kunjalo banokugcina umnqweno wesini kwaye balwe nalo mnqweno, bewucinezela.

Kwimeko ye-asexuality, umntu akanalo naluphi na uhlobo lomnqweno kwaye ngenxa yoko akufuneki ukuba alwe nokuqhubela phambili, kuba azikho. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-asexual kwaye le yimeko esisigxina ehlala ihlala ixesha lokuphila, kodwa kunokubakho ukuthandana kunye nomtshato, kodwa hayi rhoqo ngesondo.