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Ukudlala ngothando kwaye sivavanye abo bafuna ukuthandana, akusafuneki ukuba sinikele ngee jean zethu eziqinileyo kwaye sihambise indlela yethu ngaphandle apho abantu babulela khona kwii-smartphones zethu, ngoku sinokudlala ngothando kwintuthuzelo yeepijama zethu ngexesha lekhefu lezorhwebo IIsidanga kunye neglasi yewayini ngesandla. Kwaye ngee -apps ezintsha zokuthandana njengeSweatt, sinokufumana umntu ongena kwi-burpees njengathi. Liliphi ixesha lokuphila.

Kubo bonke ubunzulu, ukubeka ukomelela njengento ephambili yokuthandana akuthethi ukuba awukho nzulu okanye emva nje kwepakethi emithandathu. Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba izibini ezibila kunye zinolwalamano olonwabileyo. Kwaye ukuba usetyenziso lokuqina komzimba lusinceda ukuba sifumane iqabane kwiskat ngokulula kunokunyathela ngokulula ibha yejusi ye-Equinox, yintoni ongayithandiyo?

Ngalo lonke uncedo lwayo, nangona kunjalo, ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kuza neengxaki zazo. Ngaba iyoga okanye ifoto yomdyarho iza njengeqhayiya okanye iyathandeka? Kwaye ngaba kupholile ukuvuma i-Versa Climber obsession kwi-bio yakho, okanye kufuneka ilinde de kube ngumhla wesibini? Ukuhlalutya iprofayile yakho yokuthandana kunokufunxa ixesha elingakumbi elizama ukubala amaxesha akho okwahlukana kwe-10K.

Kwilizwe leelfies kunye ne-selfie yokuzivocavoca, sifuna inyani lokwenyani. Ke sicele iingcali ezimbini zokuthandana kwaye (ukungqinisisa) umfana wezemidlalo ukuba asixelele ukuba yintoni esebenzayo nengasebenziyo ekwenzeni intombazana efanelekileyo ukuthandana iprofayile. (Nd... Funda ezi zinto zine kwi-Intanethi ezithi Akangomntu othandana naye.)

Cacisa

"Okuncinci kuninzi kwiprofayili yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi," utshilo u-Andrea Syrtash, ingcali yokuthandana kunye nolwalamano. "Ukuba wabelana kakhulu, amathuba awayi kufundwa. Ngokuchasene noko, awufuni ukukhawulela iimpendulo zakho kubude be-tweet. Fumana i-medium evuyayo phakathi kwenkcazo ende kunye ne-line-line. "

Nokuba lingakanani na inani lamagama, kubalulekile ukunyaniseka kwaye unikele ngezinto ezaneleyo zokuqalisa incoko.

"Ukubeka izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe yeyona ndlela yokufumana okona kulungileyo kuwe," utshilo u-Alexandra Chong, umongameli wase-Badoo, inethiwekhi yokuthandana nabantu. "Ukuba uthanda ukutya okunempilo okanye umdlalo othile, kungcono ukuba unyaniseke ngokwenene ngaloo nto." Umzekelo, ukuba ubune vegan kwaye ungakhululekanga ngokuthandana nomntu otya inyama, unokufuna ukuzisa oko phambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa esingathandekiyo IRL. Kodwa ukuba ayinamsebenzi kangako kuwe, musa ukubila. "Amathuba kukuba, kuya kuvela kwincoko ngokukhawuleza ... ngakumbi ukuba wabelana ngokutya!" utsho uSirtash. (Fumanisa ukuba ucinga ntoni ngeProfayili yakho yokuDibana kwi-Intanethi.)

KuJohn Levya, umnini weHoboken Fitness kunye nomsebenzisi we-app yomsebenzisi, eyona nto ibalulekileyo, "Ndiyayithiya xa abantu basetyhini besebenzisa iinkcazo ngokubanzi, ezinje 'ngendlela efanelekileyo yokuphila' okanye ukuba umdla ubandakanya 'ukufaneleka,' ukanti yonke imifanekiso ibandakanya ukusela, ukutya ipitsa, njl."

Xa usenza iprofayili yakho, yabelana ngezinto kunye namava ongathanda ukwabelana ngawo neqabane lakho, u-Levya ucebisa. Ukuba uchitha iintsuku ezintandathu ngeveki kwibhokisi yakho ye-CrossFit yasekhaya okanye ungakhathazeki ngokukhuphela i-yoga eyongezelelekileyo yokubaleka, yazisa ukuthanda kwakho ekubhaleni kwakho okanye ngefoto. Iya kunceda ukunciphisa iizitshisi zakho ebantwini ngokwenene yabelana ngeminqweno yakho ethile (kuba loo bhuti weCrossFit usenokungabi phantsi nenja esezantsi).

Nyaniseka

Cinga ngento ethethwa yi-selfie yokuzilolonga ngawe. "Ngokomntu, ndicinga ukuba kukho iindlela ezinamandla zokubonisa ukuba ungumdlali wezemidlalo. Kungcono ukuba nomfanekiso wakho obonisa umdlalo, kunokuba uguqule imisipha oyifumanayo kulo mdlalo, "kusho uChong.

U-Levya uyayivuma i-selfie yokuzivocavoca, ukuba nje inyanisekile. “Xa iifoto zentloko kuphela, ndicinga eyona nto imbi,” utshilo uLevya. "Amadoda zizidalwa ezibonakalayo kwaye akakwazi ukubona umzimba uphela kungalahlekisa."

Enye into malunga neeselfies: zilula. Njengokuba ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kuye kwanda (ukusetyenziswa kukhule ngepesenti eli-15 kule minyaka ili-10 idlulileyo, ngokweZiko loPhando lwePew), uChong uthi kubaluleke ngakumbi ukufumana iindlela zokuyila. "Kubalulekile ukuba ucace malunga nohlobo lwengqwalaselo oyifunayo. Ukubonisa umfanekiso emva komdyarho okanye i-yoga pose enomdla yindlela yokubonisa ukuba ungubani kwaye uzahlule." Okukhona, kungcono.

Lilonke, uChong uthi cinga ngeprofayile yakho njengentengiso yakho. "Iprofayile yakho ibonisa indlela ofuna ukujongwa ngayo, ukusuka kwiindidi zeefoto owabelana ngazo kwizinto ozithethayo kwi-bio yakho. Qwalasela uhlobo lwabaphulaphuli obatsalayo ngentengiso yakho."

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