Yintoni i-avareji yobude bendoda nge-16 yobudala?

Umxholo

• Ukufikisa kubuchaphazela njani ubungakanani bepenisi?
• Iyeka nini ipipi ukukhula?
• Uyilinganisela njani ipenisi yakho
• Umzimba womzimba
• Ufuna nini uncedo
• Ukuthatha

Umndilili wobungakanani bepenisi

Ukuba uneminyaka eli-16 kwaye ugqiba ukufikisa, incanca yakho iphantse ilingane iya kuhlala ikhulile. Kwabaninzi kubudala beminyaka eli-16, loo nto ngumndilili we-flaccid (ongamiswanga) ubude obumalunga nee-intshi ezingama-3.75 kunye nobude obumiselweyo obuphakathi ko-5 no-7 intshi.

Ububanzi (isazinge) sepenisi eneflaccid kunye nomndilili wepenisi omileyo malunga ngokulandelelana.

Ubude kunye ne-girth ye-flaccid penis itshintsha rhoqo, ikakhulu isekwe kubushushu. Ipenisi engalukanga engalukanga esenayo ijwabi layo linokubonakala likhulu kancinci kunelungu lobudoda elalukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ijwabi libuyela umva ngexesha lokwakhiwa, ke kukho umahluko omncinci kwindlela enkulu ngayo ilungu lobudoda elibonakalayo nokuba alolukanga okanye cha.

Ukufikisa kubuchaphazela njani ubungakanani bepenisi?

Ukufikisa lelona xesha lesibini ebomini bakho xa ipeni yakho ihamba ngokukhula ngokukhawuleza. Ngexesha lonyaka wokuqala wobomi, ubude bepenisi kunye nesibeleko sikhula ngokubonakalayo. Ke kukho ukukhula okucothayo, okuzinzileyo kude kufike ixesha lokufikisa. Xa ufikisa, incanca kunye namasende akhula ngokukhawuleza.

Ixesha lokufikisa lahlukile kuye wonke umntu. Ukufikisa kuyaqala ukwahluka. Inokuqala xa uneminyaka eli-9 okanye eli-10 ubudala, okanye kamva, xa uneminyaka eli-13 okanye eli-14 ubudala.

Kwakhona, ngexesha lokufikisa, uya ukhula kwaye ubanzi. Ubunzima bakho bemisipha buyakhula kwaye nelizwi lakho liyaya lisiba nzulu. Uqala nokukhulisa iinwele ezijikeleze amalungu akho obuni, phantsi kweengalo zakho, esifubeni, nasebusweni.

Iyeka nini ipipi ukukhula?

Ilungu lakho lobudoda likhula de kube sekupheleni kokufikisa. Ngeli-16, usenokufikisa, ngoko ke incanca yakho isenokukhula.

Ngokomndilili, ukufikisa kuyaphela phakathi kweminyaka eyi-16 kunye ne-18. Ukuba uqale ukufikisa kwiminyaka elandelayo, nangona kunjalo, usenokukhula kwaye utshintshe ube kwi-20 yakho yokuqala. Oko kukhula kubandakanya ipeni yakho.

Nangona ezinye zeenguqu ezicacileyo ezibangelwa ukufikisa zinganciphisa kwaye ziyeke malunga ne-18 ubudala, ipenis yakho ingaqhubeka ikhula kude kube yiminyaka engama-21.

Uyilinganisela njani ipenisi yakho

Khumbula ukuba ubungakanani bendoda engacacanga buyahluka kakhulu. Ukufumana olona manyano luchanekileyo, linganisa ipeni yakho xa usakhiwa. Xa ulinganisa, linganisa kwicala eliphezulu ukusuka kwincam ukuya ezantsi.

Umzimba womzimba

Kwisifundo esapapashwa kwi, abaphandi baxoxa nodade abangama-290 malunga nomzimba kunye nokuhlekisa abaye banyamezela okanye babona kwigumbi lokutshixa. Malunga neepesenti ezili-10 yamadoda avumile ukuhlekiswa malunga nembonakalo yelungu labo lobudoda, ngelixa iipesenti ezingama-47 zikhumbula ukungqina ukungcikivwa ngabanye.

Ubungakanani yayiyeyona nto yayijolise kuyo ekuhlekiseni, nangona ukubonakala kwepenisi engalukanga okanye ipenisi ebonakala yahlukile kwezinye iindlela ikwavelise uninzi lwezimvo.

Ipeni nganye yahlukile, ke eyakho ayizukufana ncam neyabanye abafana. Kuqhelekile ukuba i-penises ibe ne-bends encinci, kwaye ezinye i-flaccid penises zibukeka zikhulu kunezinye i-flaccid. Ilungu lakho lobudoda linokuxhonywa ngokwendalo kwelinye icala okanye kwelinye.

Njengoko uhamba ngexesha lokufikisa, kunokuba lula ukuziva uzicingela kwaye uzibuze ukuba ngaba utshintsho olufumanayo lolo luhlobo olufanayo nabanye. Amathuba kukuba, abanye abantu bayazibuza into efanayo.

Iingcebiso ezimbini zokujongana nokukhathazeka komzimba:

• Hlala kude kwimidiya yoluntu kangangoko. Izimvo, imifanekiso, kunye nolwazi olungelulo olwenziweyo ngaphandle kunokwenza ukuba nabani na azoyike.
• Gcina ukomelela kunye nempilo engqondweni. Ukuhlala usempilweni kunokukwenza uzive ungcono kwaye ukhululeke emzimbeni wakho.

Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukhathazekile ngomzimba wakho, thetha nomcebisi, umzali, okanye ugqirha.

Abacebisi besikolo banokunika indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuthetha ngezi zinto zixhalabisayo, kwaye ngekhe babelane ngento oyithethayo noontanga bakho. Banokukunceda ukunxibelelana nengcali yezempilo yengqondo, ukuba iyafuneka, okanye bakuncede ufumane iindlela zokuthetha ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo nabazali bakho okanye ugqirha.

Ufuna nini uncedo

Ukuba uziva ngathi incanca yakho incinci kune-avareji yobudala be-16, ungabelana ngeenkxalabo zakho nogqirha wakho. Kukho iimeko apho incanca encinci yenye yeempawu.

I-Klinefelter's syndrome, umzekelo, yimeko apho indoda izalwa ine-X eyongezelelweyo ye-chromosome. Ngenxa yoko, banokuba nepenisi encinci kunye neesende, kunye neempawu zabasetyhini, ezinje ngokukhula kwethishu yamabele.

Unyango lwe-Klinefelter's syndrome kunye nezinye iingxaki ezinxulumene nehomoni ezichaphazela ubungakanani bepenisi kunye nokukhula kwendoda kuhlala kubandakanya unyango lwe testosterone.

Ukuba ubude okanye ukubonakala kwelungu lakho lobudoda kuyakukhathaza, gcina engqondweni ukuba amalungu akho esini awuchazi ubudoda bakho okanye ezinye iimpawu zakho. Kwakhona khumbula ukuba unomdla ngakumbi kubungakanani bakho kunaye nawuphi na umntu. Kukwabalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba isikolo esiphakathi, isikolo esiphakamileyo, kunye nokufikisa ngokwazo zizahluko ezifutshane ebomini bakho.

Ukuba igumbi elitshixwayo alibi mnandi, unokujonga iindlela zokunciphisa amava akho:

• Guqula kwivenkile yokuhlambela.
• Zisongele ngetawuli, nokuba abanye abathobekanga.
• Unokwazi ukufumana ukuyekiswa kwiklasi yokuzivocavoca. Fumana utitshala, umlawuli, okanye umcebisi ngendlebe evumayo ukwabelana ngeenkxalabo zakho.

Ukuthatha

Ngeli-16, zikhona ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo onokuthi ugxile kuzo kunokuba ubude bepenisi yakho. Lonwabele ixesha lakho nosapho kunye nabahlobo kwaye wenze uninzi lwezifundo zakho zamabanga aphakamileyo.

Kodwa ukuba ukhathazeke ngokwenyani okanye unomdla malunga nobude kunye nokubonakala kwepenisi yakho, zama ukuthetha nomzali okanye mhlawumbi ilungu losapho elidala. Ukuba olu khetho alunakwenzeka, thetha nogqirha wakho. Awuyi kuba ngowokuqala kwishumi elivisayo ukubuza ezi ntlobo zemibuzo kwaye awuyi kuba ngowokugqibela.