Yhu - usana lwam lubetha iintloko zazo! Ngaba Ndifanele Ndibe Nexhala?

Umxholo

• Ungalufumana nini uncedo lwezonyango olungxamisekileyo emva kokuba usana lwakho luthe lwangqubeka entloko
• Kutheni iintsana zingqubeka entloko
• Iindidi kunye neempawu zokulimala kwentloko okunxulumene nokuwa
• Ukulimala entloko
• Ukumodareyitha ukuya kwenzakala entloko
• Njani-kwaye nini- 'ukubukela ulinde'
• Nini ukubiza ugqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho
• Ukunyanga ukonzakala kwentloko yosana
• Umbono wokonzakala kwentloko yabantwana
• Iingcebiso zokuthintela ukungqubeka kwentloko kunye nokulimala
• Ukuthatha

Ubona umntwana eqhula, emva koko uyashukuma, emva koko- kumzuzu ofana ne "Matrix" othi ngandlel 'ithile uvele ngokucothayo nangokuqhwanyaza kweliso- bayawa. Owu, isikhalo. Iinyembezi. Kwaye iqanda elikhulu lerhanisi elikhula ngowesibini.

Siyazi ukuba kunokoyikisa njani xa umntwana wakho oxabisekileyo engqubeka entloko. Kwaye ukuba uhlala ngoku ngoku-icing iqhina lomncinci wakho ngelixa ukhangela into oza kuyenza ngokulandelayo-ukwindawo elungileyo.

Okokuqala, thatha umoya kwaye uzame ukuhlala uzolile. Uninzi lwexesha, amaqhuma ahambelana nokuwa entloko amancinci kwaye awadingi kugqirha.

Ngapha koko, oku kwaqukumbela ukuba ukwenzakala kwentloko okunxulumene nokuwa kubantwana abancinci akuqhelekanga kubangele ingozi embi.

Kwangelo xesha, amazwe athi ukuwa ngoyena nobangela uphambili wesigulo esibuhlungu esinxulumene nokulimala kwengqondo kutyelelo lwabantwana ukuya kuthi ga kwi-4 yeminyaka. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba oku kunqabile.

Ke kwimeko enqabileyo, kukho iindlela ezimbalwa ekufuneka zikuqaphele ukuba ufune uncedo olukhawulezileyo lonyango.

Ungalufumana nini uncedo lwezonyango olungxamisekileyo emva kokuba usana lwakho luthe lwangqubeka entloko

Okokuqala, ezinye izibalo eziqinisekisayo: Ngokokuwa okufutshane kubantwana abancinci, kuphela malunga neepesenti ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3 zokuwa ezikhokelela ekuqhekekeni kolukakayi olulula, kwaye uninzi lwezi alubangeli ngxaki kwimithambo-luvo. Kuphela yipesenti enye kuphela yokophuka kokakayi okunxulumene nokuwa ngengozi kubangela ukulimala okuphakathi ukuya kwingozi ebuchotsheni.

Oko kwathiwa, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele iimpawu zokulimala kwengqondo, kuquka ukuxubana, okuhlala kubakho kwiiyure ezingama-24 ukuya kuma-48 zengozi.

Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalisa nayiphi na kwezi mpawu emva kokufumana ukwenzakala entlokweni yakhe, tsalela umnxeba ku-911 okanye ubazise kwigumbi likaxakeka elikufutshane kwangoko:

• Ukopha okungalawulwayo kunqunyulwa
• isifotho okanye indawo ethambileyo ecekece ukakayi
• ukugruzuka okugqithisileyo kunye / okanye ukudumba
• ukugabha ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye
• ukulala okungaqhelekanga kunye / okanye ubunzima bokuhlala uphaphile
• ukulahleka kwengqondo okanye ukungaphenduli kwilizwi / kumnxeba
• igazi okanye ulwelo olukhupha empumlweni okanye ezindlebeni
• ukuxhuzula
• ukonzakala kwentamo / umnqonqo
• ingxaki yokuphefumla

Kutheni iintsana zingqubeka entloko

Amaqhuma ngengozi entloko yenye yezona ngozi zixhaphakileyo kwiintsana nakwiintsana. Kodwa le nyaniso iyodwa ayinakukuthintela ekuqhubekeni ukuphinda ubuyekeze imeko entlokweni yakho ngelixa ucinga ngendlela oza kuphinda usibhale ngayo isiphelo.

Kodwa ukunkqonkqoza okunxulumene nokuwa kwi-noggin kuhlala ikakhulu kubangelwa kukukhula komzimba kosana kunye nokukhula - hayi ukukhulisa kwakho. Iintloko zeentsana zihlala zikhulu ngokulinganayo kunemizimba yazo, zisenza ukuba kubelula kubo ukuphulukana nokulingana.

Ukongeza, amandla omzimba weentsana kunye nobuchule zihlala ziguquka, ezichaphazela uzinzo kunye nolungelelwaniso. Ukuhamba okuthandekayo okufanayo kunokuzibeka engozini xa udibana nomhlaba omtsha, ongalinganiyo okanye into emnandi obalekela kuyo.

Oku, kudityaniswa notyekelo losana lokuzibandakanya kwizenzo ezinobuganga ezenza ukuba banyuke, bagxume, okanye bazame ukubhabha nje ngenxa yovuyo, kunokuba yinto elungileyo yokulinganisa. Ngapha koko, iintsana ziyaziwa ngezi zizathu zokulimala kwentloko:

• ukutyibilika ebhafini
• ukuwa ngomva
• ukuwa ebhedini okanye ukutshintsha itafile
• ukuwa emva kokukhwela kwifenitshala okanye phezulu ezincwadini
• ukuwela ngaphakathi okanye ukuphuma ebhedini
• ukukhubeka phezu kweeraga okanye izinto phantsi
• ukuwa phantsi kwezitepsi okanye kwizinyuko
• ukuwa ngelixa usebenzisa umntwana ohambahambayo (esinye sezizathu zokuba abo bahambayo babonwa bengakhuselekanga)
• ukuwa kwiindawo zokudlala

Ukuphakama apho umntwana ewa khona kuhambelana nobunzima bokwenzakala, ke ukuba umntwana wakho wawa kumgama ophakamileyo (njengakwisibhedlele okanye kwi-countertop) basengozini enkulu yokwenzakala kakhulu.

Iindidi kunye neempawu zokulimala kwentloko okunxulumene nokuwa

Igama elithi "ukwenzakala entloko" libandakanya lonke uluhlu lokulimala, ukusuka kwibunzi elincinci ukuya kwingozi yokwenzakala kwengqondo. Uninzi lokulimala okufutshane okunxulumene nokuwa phakathi kweentsana ziwela phantsi kodidi "oluthambileyo".

Ukulimala entloko

Ukulimala entloko okuthambileyo kuthathwa njengokuvaliwe, oko kuthetha ukuba azibandakanyi nakuphi na ukwaphuka kokakayi okanye ukwenzakala kwengqondo okukhoyo. Kwezi meko, ukudumba kunye ne "bump" enkulu okanye ukugruzuka kolusu kunokubonakala ngaphandle kwempawu ezongezelelekileyo.

Ukuba ukuwa komntwana wakho kubangele ukusikwa okanye ukusikwa, kusenokubakho ukopha okuphawulekayo okufuna ukuba unyango lucoce kwaye luthungule inxeba, nokuba akukho buchopho okanye ukakonzakala kukakayi.

Emva kokungqubeka entloko, iintsana zinokufumana intloko ebuhlungu kunye nokungonwabi. Nangona kunjalo, kule minyaka, kunzima ukuba banxibelelane ngale mvakalelo. Inokubonakala njengokunyuka kobunzima okanye ubunzima bokulala.

Ukumodareyitha ukuya kwenzakala entloko

Ukumodareyitha ukuya kwingozi yokulimala kwengqondo kubonisa ubuncinci kwezo zinxulumene nokuwa kweentsana. Banokubandakanya:

• ukakayi
• Ukuphazamiseka (xa ingqondo ityumkile)
• iingxaki (xa ingqondo ishukunyiswa)
• ukopha kwingqondo okanye ujikeleze izaleko ezijikeleze ingqondo

Iingqungquthela lolona hlobo luqhelekileyo kunye nolona hlobo lubi kakhulu lokulimala kwengqondo. Ingxubusho inokuchaphazela imimandla emininzi yobuchopho, ibangele iingxaki ekusebenzeni kwengqondo. Iimpawu zempixano ebantwaneni zinokubandakanya:

• intloko ebuhlungu
• ukulahleka kwengqondo
• utshintsho kulumkiso
• isicaphucaphu nokugabha

Ngelixa kunqabile kakhulu, ukonzakala okungathethekiyo kunokubandakanya ukwaphuka kokakayi, okunokuthi kubeke uxinzelelo kwingqondo kwaye kubangele nokudumba, ukugruzuka, okanye ukopha ujikeleze okanye ngaphakathi kwengqondo. Ezi zezona meko zinzima ezifuna unyango olukhawulezileyo.

Kubalulekile ukuba unyango lonyango lwenziwe ngokukhawuleza ukunciphisa amandla okonakala kwengqondo kwexesha elide kunye nelahleko yokusebenza komzimba kunye nokuqonda.

Njani-kwaye nini- 'ukubukela ulinde'

Kwiimeko ezininzi, "jonga ulinde" (kunye ne-TLC eninzi) yeyona khosi ifanelekileyo emva kwentsana encinci intloko bump.

Gcina iimpawu zokulimala kwentloko ngakumbi engqondweni, ujonge naluphi na utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha okanye ukusilela kwe-neurological ngaphakathi kweeyure ezingama-48 zengozi.

Ezinye iindlela zokukhathalela umntwana wakho owonzakeleyo ngexesha lokulinda kunye nexesha lokulinda:

• sebenzisa umkhenkce njengoko unyamezelwe lusana lwakho
• zicoce kwaye uzibophe ngebhandeji nakuphi na ukusika okuncinci okanye ukukrwada eluswini
• jonga utshintsho / ukungqinelana kubungakanani babafundi bomntwana wakho
• jonga umntwana wakho ngelixa belele ngexesha lokulala kunye nasebusuku
• biza umntwana wabantwana bakho ukuba akukhokele ukuba unomdla

Nini ukubiza ugqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho

Uyazi kakuhle umntwana wakho, ngoko ke ukuba unokude ukhathazeke, unganqikazi ukubiza ugqirha wabantwana wengane yakho ufumane ingcebiso yeengcali malunga nento omele uyenze ngokulandelayo. Banokufuna ukuvavanya umntwana wakho ngaphandle kokukhusela kunye nokubhala ukonzakala kwirekhodi labo lonyango.

Ukuvavanya ukulimala kwentloko, ugqirha wabantwana okanye igumbi likaxakeka kuya kukubuza malunga nokuba kwenzeke njani ukwenzakala, ukuba wenzani umntwana wakho ngaphambi kokulimala, kwaye zeziphi iimpawu umntwana wakho azifumene emva kokulimala.

Banokwenza uthotho lweemviwo zemithambo-bajonge amehlo omntwana wakho kunye neempendulo kwilizwi nakwichukumisa-kunye novavanyo lomzimba ngokubanzi, nazo.

Ukuba kukho into kolu vavanyo ebangela inkxalabo yokwenzakala kwengqondo okukhulu, ugqirha unokuyalela uvavanyo lokucinga njenge-CT scan. Izikena ze-CT zihlala zenziwa kuphela xa kukho ubungqina bokulimala kakhulu kwengqondo.

Nangona kunqabile, ugqirha unokukucebisa ukuba uye kwigumbi likaxakeka elikufutshane ukuze kuvavanywe kwangoko, ukuxilongwa, okanye ukhathalelo olunzima. Okanye, banokufuna ukugcina umntwana wakho iiyure ezimbalwa ngexesha lokugadwa "lokulinda nokulinda".

Ukunyanga ukonzakala kwentloko yosana

Unyango lokonzakala entloko luxhomekeke kubukhali. Kwiimeko ezinobumnene, umkhenkce, ukuphumla, kunye nokongeza ii-cuddles zezona ziyeza zilungileyo. (Ayilulo unyango olubi lweentloko zabantu abadala, nokuba.)

Emva kwesiphithiphithi, ukubeka iliso rhoqo kunokucetyiswa ngugqirha wabantwana, kunye nemithintelo yomsebenzi.

Ukulimala kakhulu, kubalulekile ukulandela ulwalathiso lukagqirha. Ngokwesiqhelo, kuphela kukulimala entloko kuphela okufuna ungenelelo olusekwe esibhedlele olunokubandakanya unyango kunye nonyango kunye nonyango lomzimba.

Umbono wokonzakala kwentloko yabantwana

Uninzi lwamaqhuma amancinci entloko kubantwana abancinci alubeki mngcipheko weengxaki zexesha elide, enkosi.

Kodwa kukho umzimba wophando ozisa ekukhanyeni iinkxalabo zexesha elide kunye nokwenzakala okuncinci kwengqondo. Isifundo se-2016 esalandela iqela laseSweden sagqiba unxibelelwano olunokubakho phakathi kokulimala kwengqondo (kubandakanya ukubetha okuncinci) ebuntwaneni ngomngcipheko okhulayo weengxaki zempilo yengqondo, ukukhubazeka, kunye nokufa kwabantu abadala. Njengoko unokulindela, abantwana abanokulimala entloko okuninzi babenomngcipheko omkhulu wexesha elide.

IAmerican Academy of Pediatrics iyakuvuma oku ngophando olwenziweyo kwinkomfa yelizwe ka-2018. Kuphononongo lwabantwana abafunyaniswe ukuba banokwenzakala kwengqondo ebuhlungu ukusuka kubunzulu ukuya kubukhali, iipesenti ezingama-39 ziye zaphuhlisa iimpawu ze-neuropsychiatric ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-5 emva kokonzakala, ezinje ngentloko, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo, uxinzelelo / unxunguphalo, ukubanjwa, okanye ukonakala kwengqondo.

Lo myalezo unika amandla ukunceda ukuthintela ukuwa okunzulu ngengozi okunokuchaphazela impilo yomntwana wakho, ukukhula, kunye nophuhliso.

Iingcebiso zokuthintela ukungqubeka kwentloko kunye nokulimala

Ngelixa intloko encinci encinci inyanzelekile ukuba yenzeke amaxesha ngamaxesha, Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokunceda ukugcina umntwana wakho ngaphandle kwengozi.

• Faka kwaye ukhusele amasango abantwana phezulu nasezantsi kwezinyuko.
• Bukela iindawo ezimanzi kwimigangatho elukhuni (ngakumbi kwindawo ejikeleze iphuli kunye neendawo zokuhlambela).
• Faka ii-mat ezingekho skid ebhafini kunye neerugs kumgangatho wokuhlambela.
• Qiniseka ngokuqinileyo ngefanitshala eludongeni.
• Gcina abantwana abancinci kude nezinto ezinobungozi zokunyuka.
• Musa ukuhlala okanye ushiye umntwana wakho phezulu kwiitafile.
• Kuphephe ukusebenzisa iintsana ezihamba ngamavili.
• Susa iingozi zokukhubeka.
• Lumka kwiindawo zokudlala ezingenayo indawo ethambileyo.

Ukuthatha

Akungabazeki malunga naloo nto - xa umntwana wakho ethatha i-tumble, iinyembezi zabo zinokulingana nokwesaba kunye neinyembezi zakho. Kuqhelekile ukuba nexhala, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uninzi lwamaqhuma amancinci entloko alubangeli ukwenzakala kwengqondo okanye kufuna unyango olukhawulezileyo.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezinqabileyo apho ukwenzakala kwengqondo ebuhlungu kakhulu kunokubangela. Kule meko, yazi iimpawu oza kuzijonga kwaye usoloko ubiza ugqirha wabantwana bakho okanye ufune ukhathalelo lonyango olungxamisekileyo ukuba uziva kuyimfuneko.