Ukuhlamba Umntwana wakho omncinci

Uva izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo malunga nokuhlamba nokuzilungisa umntwana wakho omncinci omncinci. Ugqirha wakho uthi mhlambe rhoqo ngeentsuku ezimbalwa, iimagazini zokuba ngumzali zithi hlamba yonke imihla, abahlobo bakho banezimvo zabo, kwaye umama wakho, ewe, unezakhe. Ke, kuya kufuneka kangaphi ukuba uhlambe umntwana wakho omncinci?

Abantwana abadingi zihlanjwe iinwele zabo yonke imihla!

Ewe, njengoko uyazi, umntwana oneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala angangcola kakhulu ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu.

Eli lixesha lokuzama ukuzondla ngokwakho, ukudlala okuninzi ngaphandle, kunye nokuphonononga, nokuba kukumba kumdaka okanye kumgqomo wenkunkuma. Ngezinye iintsuku, ujonga ubuhle bakho obuthandekayo, obunomtsalane, kwaye ucinge, “Akukho mbuzo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ahlambe. ”

Okokuqala, iminyaka yokuhamba ikwayiminyaka apho umzimba womntwana usakhula, kubandakanya amajoni omzimba. Ukuba ziintsholongwane ezikukhathazayo, ungakhathazeki. Iintsholongwane azisoloko ziyinto embi.

Abantwana bafanele ukuba badibane neentsholongwane. Le kuphela kwendlela imizimba yabo efunda ngayo ukulwa iintsholongwane kunye neentsholongwane, ezinokubangela ukugula, ke iintsholongwane ezimbalwa ezishiyekileyo emva komdlalo wosuku ayizizo zonke ezoyikisayo.

Omnye umba wokulima ngakumbi ngumcimbi wokuhlanjwa kweenwele, endaweni yokuhlanjwa. Ukuba umntwana wakho usesikolweni okanye uhamba unonophelo lwasemini, iintwala zentloko zihlala zinokwenzeka; kwaye, kholwa okanye ungakholelwa, iintwala zentloko zikhetha iinwele ezicocekileyo ezingacacanga, njengeenwele zomntwana ezihlanjwa rhoqo ngobusuku. Ke, ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuhamba yonke imihla, akukho mfuneko yokuba uhlambe iinwele zomntwana wakho yonke imihla.

Abantwana bafanele ukuba badibane neentsholongwane!

Okokugqibela, kusoloko kukho umba wexesha kunye nomzamo kwicala lomzali, ngakumbi umzali onabantwana ababini okanye nangaphezulu.

Ukuhlamba ubusuku ngabunye akusoloko kunokwenzeka, kwaye akusoloko kunqweneleka. Kwakhona, ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba ufana nabazali abaninzi, awuziva nje. Nangona kunjalo, akufuneki uzive ungalunganga okanye unetyala. Umntwana wakho uya kulunga ngokuhlamba rhoqo ngobunye ubusuku. Abantwana bafuna ukonganyelwa ngabantu abadala kwindawo yokuhlambela kude kube ubuncinci ubuneminyaka engama-4, ke ukuba awunalo ixesha lokuba nabo ngobo busuku, inokulinda ithuba elilandelayo.

I-eczema kunye nezinye iimeko zolusu zezinye izizathu zokungahlambi yonke imihla. Uninzi lwezi meko, kunye nolusu olucacileyo, olubuthathaka, zisiba mandundu ngokuhlamba rhoqo, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho uthanda iibhafu ezinde, ezishushu. Kulungile ukuhlamba abantwana abaneemeko ezinjalo rhoqo kwiintsuku ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu, kuba ukuhlamba yonke imihla kuyomisa ulusu kwaye kwenza iingxaki zibe mandundu. Ukuba ufuna ukubahlamba yonke imihla, yenza ibhafu emfutshane, efudumeleyo ngesepha nje okanye isicoci ekugqibeleni ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe kwaye uphume ebhafini. Emva koko ubabambe bomile kwaye usebenzise ukhilimu wokuthambisa okanye olunye unyango njengoko kucetyiswa ngugqirha wabo kulusu lwabo olufumileyo.

Kwelinye icala, uninzi lwabazali luva nje ukuba kufuneka ibhafu yonke imihla - ukuba umntwana omdaka kufuneka ahlanjwe ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye oku kulungile. Ukuba ukhetha ukuhlamba umntwana wakho yonke imihla, kwaye akukho zizathu zonyango zokuba kutheni ungafaneleki, ibhafu ngaphambi kwexesha lokulala yindlela entle yokuphumla umntwana, kwaye sisiqalo esihle sisithethe esihle sokulala.