Ukuthatha okushushu: Ukusila Sesona senzo sesondo singaphantsi

Umxholo

• Ewe, Uthetha Ntoni Ngokusila?
• Kutheni usila iiRock zoSondo
• Uyenza njani into yokuba ukugaya isondo uzive ungcono
• 1. Nxiba umsitho.
• 2. Yongeza lube.
• 3. Bop kwiplagi yempundu.
• 4. Ngenisa umhlobo onobuhlobo.
• 5. Zama ukuma ngesondo.
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Kwiveki ephelileyo ngexesha lomsitho wokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa, ndandisembindini wokuvuma uthando lwam ngesenzo sokungqubeka nokugaya xa ndabona ukujika kwempumlo kusenzeka kwiscreen. Abahlobo bam bebengagwebi, ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa uninzi lwaluthathe uhlobo lwesithukuthezi endiligcineleyo nanini na ISidanga I-franchise ivela kwingxoxo. Kuyabonakala ukuba, uninzi lwabalingane bam lushiye ukusila ngasemva kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kunye namashiya amancinci, iintsimbi zempama, kunye neeCD zediski.

Nangona wonke umntu ofuna ukuzonwabisa wamkelekile kwiimbono zabo kunye nezinto abazithandayo, (* faka ilizwi likaCarrie Bradshaw*) Andizange ndikwazi ukuzibuza: "Ngaba abantu basebenza ngokukhawuleza-ukutshintsha ukuzonwabisa kwabo ngokushiya ukugaya ngaphambili?"

Ngokucacileyo, bendine-hunch impendulo yayityebile enkulu EWE. Kodwa ndiyintatheli yezesondo eqeqeshiweyo, ndiye ndathatha indlela yophando ndathetha noTaylor Sparks, umfundisi-ntsapho ovuselela inkanuko kunye nomseki we-Organic Loven, kunye nabanye abathanda ulonwabo abaye basigcina isenzo kwiincwadi zabo zezesondo ixesha elide emva kokuba. Ndiqale ndafunda Umbambisi kwi-Rye.

Ewe, Uthetha Ntoni Ngokusila?

Ngaphambi kokuba singene kwisiteyitimenti sam (ukuba ukugaya yeyona nto iphambili kwaye iphantsi kakhulu ngokwesini), masifike kwiphepha elinye malunga nokuguba nokuba kukuthini. Ngokwenyani, ukugaya nasiphi na isenzo sesondo apho ubuncinci umntu omnye evuselela amalungu abo esini angaphandle kwinto ethile okanye komnye umntu.

Ungayonwabela wedwa usebenzisa umqamelo, ingalo yesingqengqelo, amaqhina akho, okanye isilwanyana esistixiweyo, utshilo uSpark. Okanye, inokonwatyiswa neqabane. Ngexesha lokudlala ngokubambisana, ukucola kunokujongeka njengokukhuhla amalungu angasese, kunye okanye ngaphandle kwempahla. Kodwa, isenokubonakala ngathi yi-genital-on-thangeni, i-genital-on-hip, njl., ukuhlikihla, utsho.

Ukusila kukwakwaziwa ngokuba yi outercourse, coital alignment, tribadism (vulva-on-vulva grinding), okanye ukupetwa kakhulu. Xa onke amaqela abandakanyekayo enxibe ngokupheleleyo, ikwabizwa ngokuba yi-humping eyomileyo, ngelixa xa onke amaqela enqunu ngokupheleleyo kwaye ehlikihla amalungu awo angasese, kwaziwa ngokuba sisikere. Kukweliphi ilizwe apho isini esingafanelekanga esinokuba neziqhulo ezingaka? (Ngekhe!)

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Amagama amabini: Ukonyusa imeko. Ngaba ubusazi iipesenti ezingama-73 zabanini be-vulva nokuba isidingo ukuvuselela i-clitoral kwi-orgasm okanye i-orgasms engcono ngokuvuselela amandla? Ukuguba kunika abanini bomntu obhinqileyo ezona ntshukumo zifuna i-orgasm, uyavuma uSpark.

Ngokwam, ndiyakonwabela ukugaya kuba ndiyakonwabela ukukhuthazeka, kodwa i-glans clitoris yam (leyo yinxalenye yangaphandle) inovakalelo kakhulu. Ukuba i-bud encinci ivuselelwe kakhulu, ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza yonke imeko iba ngumdaniso obuthathaka wokuphepha i-clit yam. Ayimnandanga ncam. Nangona kunjalo, ukugaya-ngokukodwa, ukugaya okunxibileyo - kunika i-hum engaguqukiyo yoxinzelelo oluvakalelwa kukuba oh-so-good against my clit kwaye uyakwazi ukwenza oko ngaphandle. ngaphayaukuyivuselela.

Iintlantsi zongeza ukuba i-G-spot nayo inokuthi (ngokungathanga ngqo) ivuselelwe ngokusila. "I-G-spot ihlala kanye ngaphantsi nangasemva kwe-pubic bone, ngoko ukubeka uxinzelelo kwi-pubic mound kunokuvuselela loo ndawo kwaye inike imvakalelo evuselela ngokwenene."

Ukurekhoda: Ukusila kunokuziva kulungile kubantu abaneepenise, nabo.Kuyavakala ukuba ucinga ngako oku: Umsebenzi wezandla, iintlobano zesini emlonyeni, neentlobano zesini phakathi kwabantu zifana ngantoni? Zonke zibandakanya ukuvuselela inxalenye yangaphandle ye-penis. “Ngenxa yokuba ukuhlikihla kunye nokusila kubandakanya ukuvuselela inxalenye yangaphandle yelungu lobudoda, nazo zinokuvuselela kakhulu kumnikazi welungu lobudoda,” utsho uSparks. Ukuba abanikazi belungu lobudoda abakhange boluke, "intshukumo yangasemva naphambili yokusila inokuphinda inyuse ijwabu lihle linyuse ilungu lobudoda ngendlela enokuvuselela ngokumangalisayo."

Ukongeza kokuziva ulungile, ukugaya yiloo nto uTheo, i-26, indoda edlulayo ibiza ngokuba "ubungqina bexesha lokwabelana ngesondo," yingakho ethanda isikhundla kakhulu. "Ixesha lam linika idysphoria yesini," ucacisa. (Isini sedysphoria kuxa umntu efumana uxinzelelo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo ngokwendalo okanye amalungu esini akufani nobuni bawo.) Kananjalo, akakuthandi ukuzibandakanya nakweziphi na izinto zesondo ezingavalwanga xa esexesheni. "Ukugaya isondo kundivumela ukuba ndizigcine zonke iimpahla zam ngeli xesha lenyanga, kwaye ndisazuza ulonwabo," utshilo. "Ngaphezu koko, ndihlala ndifumana i-orgasm."

UDawson, oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala, ongumfazi othandana nesini naye ubeka esi sikhundla njengobungqina kuye. "Ukusila ngeempahla kundivumela ukuba ndibelane ngesondo nomntu othile (umzekelo, ukuma kobusuku obunye) ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba nencoko esondeleyo malunga namalungu esini sam, into endiyithandayo ibizwa njalo, njl."

Okwangoku, i-Courtney, i-32, ibhinqa le-cisgender elonwabisayo liyonwabele ngenxa yokuba ngumngcipheko ophantsi. Une-herpes, kwaye andikho kwii-antiretrovirals, utshilo. "Xa ndicinga ukuba ndinokuba nokuqhambuka, ukugaya ngeempahla zethu zangaphantsi yenye yeendlela endithandana ngayo nesoka lam."

Likhona: Ukusila ngu umsebenzi wesondo ongaphantsi komngcipheko - kodwa i-FTR, kwiimeko ezithile, kusekho umngcipheko wokudluliselwa kwe-STI kunye nokukhulelwa. Ukuba nobabini ninxibile, umngcipheko wosasazo lwe-STI nguziro. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, kukho ukunxibelelana ngokwesini ukuya kwisini kunokwenzeka ukuba ii-STIs zisasazeke kunxibelelwano lolusu nolusu (HPV, herpes, syphilis, trichomoniasis) okanye ulwelo ngokwesondo (HPV, HSV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV). (Idibeneyo: Ngaba ii-STD zihamba ngokwazo?)

Ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha umntu onamasende kunye nomntu onesibeleko kunye nesibeleko esabelana ngesondo kwilungu lobufazi. Ngelixa ukugaya kuhlala kungahambelani ne-P-in-V, akukho mapolisa okusila, ke, ukuba ufuna ukwenza ubungakanani be-P-in-V njengokugaya-okanye sebenzisa ukugaya njenge-precursor ye-P-in-V - Andizukuthanda yum yakho. Qaphela nje ukuba ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ezi mfuno zikhankanywe ngasentla ziyafezekiswa.

Uyenza njani into yokuba ukugaya isondo uzive ungcono

Thembela, ezi ngcebiso zintlanu zokugaya ziya kukuguqula- kunye neqabane (ama) lakho-kubalandeli, nabo.

1. Nxiba umsitho.

"Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zelaphu lempahla liza kuvelisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokukhuthaza," utshilo uSpark. Oko uziva kukuhle kuwe kuya kwahluka ngokusekelwe kwizinto ozikhethayo. I-Denim kunye ne-corduroy, umzekelo, baziboleka kakuhle kuxinzelelo olukhulu, njengazo naziphi na iibhotile ezizele yimithungo. Isilika, kwelinye icala, yeyona ilungele ukuziva ukonyuka ngokuchasene neebits zakho, utshilo.

Ngokomntu, ndiyathanda ukugaya ngelixa ndinxibe i-leggings eyolulayo okanye ukubila, okundivumela ukuba ndisasaze imilenze yam ngokulula, kwaye ndingene kwindawo eyenza ukuvuselela iindawo zam ezishushu zibe lula.

2. Yongeza lube.

Ungavumeli isiteketiso sayo ("i-humping eyomileyo") ikugcine ekongezini ubumanzi obuthengwe ngevenkile kumdlalo wakho! Ngokwam, ndiyathanda ukongeza i-dab encinci ye-lube phakathi kwe-labia yam ukunciphisa ukungahambi kakuhle kokungqubana phakathi kwemilebe yam esezantsi. (Jonga: Kutheni uLube esenza yonke imeko yezesondo ibengcono)

3. Bop kwiplagi yempundu.

"Ungasebenzisa iplagi yempundu phantse nakuwuphi na isenzo sesondo- nokuba ungubani na okanye iqabane lakho, isini, okanye isini," u-Alicia Sinclair, utitshala oqinisekisiweyo wesini kunye ne-CEO ye-b-Vibe, inkampani yemveliso yokudlala ezimpundu. Ubume. "[Yimveliso] yolonwabo yawo nawuphina umzimba kunye nabani na."

Ngelixa ndingakhange ndizame ukunxiba iplagi ngexesha lokusila, uCarter, 32, kunye neqabane lakhe uHana. “UHana unxiba iplagi yempundu ngalo lonke ixesha sisiya kumsitho kawonke-wonke,” utshilo uCarter. Ngaloo ndlela xa sitsibela kwi-wardrobe yengubo okanye igumbi lokuhlambela ukuze sinxibe, sinokukwenza ngazo zonke iimpahla zethu, kwaye usenokuhla, "utshilo. UHana, uthi, akanakuphuma kukhuthazo olukunye yedwa, kodwa xa enokuthi azaliswe nge-anally.

4. Ngenisa umhlobo onobuhlobo.

Ngokunyaniseka, naluphi na uhlobo lwe-vibrator lunokusetyenziswa apha, kodwa ndincoma i-wand vibrators.

Kwiveki ephelileyo ndigqibile ukutyhila iVand Wand vibrator entsha (Yithenge, $ 140, babeland.com) xa i-boo yam yafika. Ufikelele kwinto ebengezelayo kwitafile yam yegumbi lokuhlala (oh, ubomi bombhali wesini) wayivula. Ndathi ndakumncamisa, waqala wasebenzisa laa nto ingxolayo emqolo. Njengoko saqhubeka sanga, waqala warhuqa i-wand phantsi komzimba wam.

Ekugqibeleni, wabamba intambo phakathi kwemizimba yethu ngelixa sasingqubeka kwaye singqubuzana nemizimba yomnye enxibe ngokupheleleyo de, njengoko i-Trey Songz bop ihamba, ummelwane wayesazi amagama ethu omabini.

5. Zama ukuma ngesondo.

"Ukuma kunye neqabane lakho, kunye nokugaya kunye (okanye ngokuchasene) nabo, ngelixa omnye wenu encike eludongeni kunokuba yinto enomdla kwaye eyanelisayo," kusho uSparks. Ngokusisiseko, ucebisa ukuba iphinde ibuye kwindawo yokujinga ejonge ngaphambili indawo ootitshala bakho abaphakathi kunye nabaphakamileyo abangazange bayivumele.

"Ukudibanisa kwindawo e-sexy kunokukusa kwinqanaba eliphezulu lobushushu bezesondo," uyongeza. Ke, mhlawumbi ungazama ukuzama ukusila kwikhabhathi yedyasi kwiqela lakho elilandelayo. Isilumkiso esifanelekileyo: Njengoko ibali elikhankanyiweyo ngaphambili licebisa, ukugaya kunokubangela ukuncwina, ke kuya kuba kuhle ukuba ukhumbule ingxolo ukuba uphakathi koluntu.

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