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• Iintombi ezilahlekileyo
• I-Adoptee ebhengeziweyo
• Ukuvuma koMntu ongaKhathalelwanga
• Ngamehlo Omntwana Okhulisiweyo
• Ibhlog Yabantu Abamkelweyo
• Ndiyamkelwa
• Ukubuyiselwa kwabaNtu
• Ukwamkelwa kweBlog
• Ukwamkela ekubuyiseni
• AmaNdiya aseMelika
• Izimvu eziMnyama Amaphupha amnandi
• UDaniel Drennan EIAwar
• EMpuma-Ntshona yoMthi weBodhi
• Inkawu kaHarlow
• Ubomi obamkelweyo
• Akukho Cela uxolo ngokuba ndim
• Ukutyhala ngentambo
• Idayari yeAnot-So-Angry Asia Adoptee
• Bonke kwiNtsapho yoKwamkelwa
• Umntwana olungileyo: Iidayari zabantwana abamkelekileyo

Sizikhethe ngononophelo ezi bhlog kuba zisebenza ngenkuthalo ukufundisa, ukukhuthaza, kunye nokuxhobisa abafundi babo ngohlaziyo oluqhubekayo kunye nolwazi oluphezulu. Ukuba ungathanda ukusixelela malunga nebhlog, batyumbe ngokubathumelela i-imeyile [email protected]!

Umbuso waseMassachusetts wapasisa umthetho wokuqala wesizwe ngowama-1851. Ukusukela ngoko, imigaqo nemimiselo - ndingasathethi ke ngokubaluleka kwenkcubeko - ukuthathwa komntwana kuye kwatshintsha kakhulu eMelika.

Namhlanje, bamalunga ne-135,000 abantwana abamkelwa eMelika minyaka le. Nangona igama elithi "ukwamkelwa komntwana" lingahlazeki kunokuba lalinjalo kwiminyaka engama-40 okanye engama-50 eyadlulayo, abantwana abaninzi abakhuliswa ngabanye abantu bathwala iimvakalelo ezininzi ngenxa yoko. Ngelixa ingenguye wonke umntu owamkelekileyo oziva ngale ndlela, uninzi lujamelana neemvakalelo zokulahlwa kunye nokungafaneleki ezinokuqhubeka iminyaka, ukuba ayingobomi bonke.

Rhoqo ingxelo yenkcubeko yokwamkelwa ixelelwa phantse kuphela kwicala lomzali owamkele umntwana wabangowomnye umntu - hayi ngabamkeli ngokwabo. Iiblogi esele sizidwelisile ziyayitshintsha loo nto. Babandakanya uluhlu olwahlukeneyo lwamazwi akhanyisa imiba, inkxalabo kunye namava oluntu olwamkelwayo.

Iintombi ezilahlekileyo

Kwaqala ngo-2011, iiNtombi ezilahlekileyo yintsebenziswano ezimeleyo yabasetyhini ababhala ngamava abo okwamkelwa. Umsebenzi wabo kukudala indawo ekhuselekileyo yabamkeli ukuba baphethukele kuyo xa bafuna ukuveza izimvo zabo. Ababhali bajongana nemixholo yokulahla kunye nokomelela, baphonononge amaziko abelusa kunye nokukhuthaza ukwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakhe, kunye nokukhuthaza indawo evulekileyo yencoko enemveliso malunga nokwamkelwa.

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I-Adoptee ebhengeziweyo

Le bhlog, ibhalwe nguAmanda Transue-Woolston, yeyomntu uqobo. Waqala ukubhala ngamava akhe okufumana abazali bakhe bokuzalwa. Nje ukuba awufezekise loo msebenzi, waguqula umdla wakhe waba lilungu lobutsha. Indawo yakhe ibonelela ngobutyebi bolwazi malunga nenkqubo yokwamkelwa komthetho ngokusemthethweni. Injongo yakhe kukucela umngeni kwimbono yokuba ukwamkelwa yinkqubo eyimfihlakalo, kwaye sicinga ukuba usendleleni.

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Ukuvuma koMntu ongaKhathalelwanga

Le bhlog yolwamkelo engaziwayo yindawo entle ekhuselekileyo kwabo bamkelweyo kwaye bafuna ukwabelana ngamava abo. Izithuba apha ziluhlaza. Uninzi lweenkcukacha zokungazithembi okuhlala kuza nokwamkelwa. Oku kubandakanya ukungakwazi ukuthemba, kunye neenkumbulo ezibuhlungu zokususwa kumakhaya wabazali bokuzalwa. Ukuba ungumntu owamkele ngokusemthethweni kwaye ukhe wayifumana le micimbi okanye ezinye iimvakalelo malunga nokwamkelwa kwaye ufuna indawo yokuchaza ezo zinto zixhalabisayo, le yindawo yakho.

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Ngamehlo Omntwana Okhulisiweyo

Kule bhlog yakhe, u-Becky ubhala uhambo lwakhe lokufumana abazali bakhe bemvelo. Wabelana nabafundi ngeengcinga zakhe zangaphakathi kwaye uyasokola xa kufikwa kumava akhe okwamkelwa. Ezinye zezithuba zakhe ezinomdla zibandakanya ukwaphuka kweendleko ezinxulumene nokwamkelwa kwakhe, kwaye kwakunjani ukuva ukuba utata wakhe wokuzalwa wayenengxaki yemicimbi yezempilo.

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Ibhlog Yabantu Abamkelweyo

Le bhlog inikezela ngezibalo ezininzi malunga nenkqubo yokwamkelwa, kunye nomninimzi weakhawunti yomntu wokuqala. Iimbono kunye nezimvo ziyahluka. Umzekelo, iposti malunga neenzuzo kunye neengozi zokubhiyozela usuku lomntwana owamkelweyo ngokuchasene nosuku lwabo lokuzalwa, unika iingxoxo zawo omabini amacala. Ezinye zezithuba zezomntu, ngelixa ezinye zibonisa amabali kwinqanaba likazwelonke. Kodwa zonke zibonelela ngombono onomdla kunye nomdla kwihlabathi lokwamkelwa.

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Ndiyamkelwa

UJessenia Arias akazibambi xa kufikwa ekuthetheni ngoxinzelelo abantwana abahlala bejongana nalo ngexesha nasemva kokutholwa. Izixhobo ziyafumaneka kubafundi ezibandakanya amaqela enkxaso yokwamkelwa kwabantu abanemibala. Uyakufumana kwakhona izithuba kwimpembelelo yexesha elide yokwamkelwa. Kwaye ingcebiso ngendlela yokuxolela abazali bakho bokuzalwa kunye nezixhobo zokufumana izifundi zemfundo zabantwana abamkelweyo.

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Ukubuyiselwa kwabaNtu

Le bhlog ilungele abantu abafuna ukuqonda okungcono ngokwamkelwa kumbono woluntu lwamaKristu. Inzulu ngokomoya, umbhali webhlog uDeanna Doss Shrode ubhale iincwadi ezingekho ngaphantsi kwezine ngokwamkelwa. Njengomphathiswa, isithethi esidlangalaleni, kunye nokwamkelwa, uDoss Shrode uzisa etafileni umbono okhethekileyo. Ukholo lwakhe lubeka isiseko sokuba nesibindi sokuthetha ngamava akhe.

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Ukwamkelwa kweBlog

V.L. UBrunskill ngumntu owamkelweyo kunye nombhali owaziwayo owafumana abazali bakhe bokuzalwa kwiminyaka engama-25 eyadlulayo. Imibhalo yakhe malunga nendlela imeko yezopolitiko yangoku echaphazela ngayo ukwamkelwa inomgangatho wokubhala. Enye yezona zithuba zakhe zazichukumisa zazivela kuSuku loMama. Ubhale isiqwenga eshukumayo apho athetha ngothando ngonyoko kunye nonina wokuzalwa.

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Ukwamkela ekubuyiseni

U-Pamela A. Karanova wafumanisa ukuba wamkelwe xa wayeneminyaka emi-5 ubudala. Uchithe iminyaka engama-20 ekhangela abazali bakhe bemvelo. Iposi yakhe yokuqala yileta evulekileyo eya kumama wakhe wokuzalwa, apho achaza ukuphupha ngokudibana kwabo kamnandi kunye nendlela eyahluke ngayo kwinyani. Le post-baring post ibeka isiseko somnye umxholo kwibhlog yakhe.

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AmaNdiya aseMelika

Le bhlog bubutyebi bolwazi kubantu boMthonyama baseMelika abaye bamkelwa. Iincwadi, amatyala enkundla, amaphepha ophando, kunye neeakhawunti zomntu wokuqala- konke kulapho. Bukela iividiyo ezichaza ubunzima abajamelene nabo baseMelika yaseMelika malunga nokwamkelwa komntwana, funda malunga neendaba zomthetho zamva nje ezinxulumene namalungelo omamkeli, kunye nokunye.

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Izimvu eziMnyama Amaphupha amnandi

Umbhali weeMnyama eziMnyama eziMnandi amaphupha yi-Afrika-yaseMelika kwaye yamkelwa kusapho olumgangatho ophakathi omhlophe. Wenza umsebenzi omangalisayo wokusebenzisa imultimedia ukubonelela ngolwazi oluxabisekileyo malunga nokwamkelwa komntwana. Indawo yakhe imalunga nokuxhasa abanye abafuna ukufumana abazali babo bendalo, kunye nendlela yokwenza ngokufezekisa loo njongo.

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UDaniel Drennan EIAwar

UDaniel uzibiza ngokuba ngumntu omdala owamkelweyo. Ukholelwa ukuba ukwamkelwa kuthengiswa njengenkqubo efakwe iilekese ebonakala ngathi ayixakekanga malunga neyona ntsapho kunye nabantwana. Kwesinye sezithuba zakhe, uthetha ngeProjekti yokuNyaniseka kokuKhulisa abantwana, intshukumo ayimisileyo ngenjongo "yokubuyisa" igama lokwamkelwa kwiintsingiselo ezimbi ezihlala zinxulunyaniswa nazo, ngakumbi kwimidiya yoluntu.

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EMpuma-Ntshona yoMthi weBodhi

EMpuma-Ntshona yomthi weBodhi ubalisa ngobomi bukaBrooke, umfazi waseSri Lankan owamkelwa lusapho yi-Australia. Injongo yakhe kukwenza ukuba inkqubo yolwamkelo ibe yeyakho ngokujolisa kubantu abamkelwe ngokusemthethweni. Izithuba zakhe zigubungela imiba enjengobuhlanga, ingxoxo-mpikiswano malunga nokuba utshintshe igama lakho okanye hayi, kunye nokunye.

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Inkawu kaHarlow

Le bhlog ijongana nemicimbi edityanisiweyo yokwamkelwa kwamazwe aphesheya kunye neyohlanga. Umbhali uJaeRan Kim wazalelwa eSouth Korea kwaye wamkelwa kusapho lwaseMelika ngo-1971. UKim ulungile ekuchazeni ukutyhalwa kunye nokutsalwa kokuba ngumntu onemibala kusapho olumhlophe, ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumKorea, nokuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba WaseMelika. Nje ukuba uqalise ukufunda, awuyi kuba nakho ukuyeka.

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Ubomi obamkelweyo

Ubomi obamkelweyo buzisa umba wokwamkelwa komntu ongaphangeliyo kunye neziko. Kwaqala njengohambo lobuqu luka-Angela Tucker, ongum-Afrika-waseMelika kwaye wamkelwa kusapho olumhlophe. Namhlanje, indawo yakhe ikwalikhaya kuthotho lwevidiyo enegama elifanayo. Tucker udliwanondlebe neendwendwe ezihamba ngendlela yokwamkelwa. Iincoko ziyafudumala, zinengqiqo, kwaye ziyamangalisa.

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Akukho Cela uxolo ngokuba ndim

Ibhlog kaLynn Grubb igcwele izibonelelo kuye nakubani na oza kummiselo wokwamkelwa. Kwaye kukho amacandelo kuvavanyo lwe-DNA kunye nekamva elibambe ukwamkelwa. Ukwabonelela ngezindululo zokufunda zokujongana nefuthe leemvakalelo zokwamkelwa kunye nokusemthethweni kokufumana abazali bakho bokuzalwa. UGrubb ukwangumbhali we "Isikhokelo sokuSinda kubantwana."

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Ukutyhala ngentambo

UTerri Vanech uthatha ubomi ngebhlog enye ngexesha. Ayizizo zonke iiposti ezimalunga nokwamkelwa komntwana. Umzekelo, enye iposti emnandi imalunga nencoko phakathi kwabatywini ababesebenza kwimibhobho ecekeceke endlwini yakhe. Esinye isithuba sijongana nesihloko esinameva somthetho wokukhulisa umntwana wabantwana kunye nemfihlelo ejikeleze abantwana abaninzi. Umfundi unokuhlala iiyure ngaphezulu komxube wolonwabo kunye nomxholo obalulekileyo.

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Idayari yeAnot-So-Angry Asia Adoptee

UChristina Romo washiywa lusana eSeoul, Korea.Akalikhumbuli elo xesha, kodwa kwizithuba zakhe zebhlog, wenza ingxelo malunga neemvakalelo zakhe malunga nolo suku lumnandi. Awuyi kuba nakho ukufunda iiposti zakhe, njengeSitishi esiThandekayo seSitishi somntwana, ngaphandle kokuhanjiswa.

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Bonke kwiNtsapho yoKwamkelwa

Enye ibhlog ebaluleke kakhulu yokwamkelwa komntu, Zonke kuLwamkelo loSapho, zibhalwe nguRobin. Ibhlog yakhe iqulethe umxube womxholo-ezinye izinto ezibhaliweyo kunye nezixhobo zophando zabamkelekileyo abafuna ukufumana abazali babo bokuzalwa. URobin naye wenza umsebenzi omkhulu wokukhuthaza ezinye iiblogi ezibhalwe ngokwembono yomamkeli. Yiza apha ukuze ufunde ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo!

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Umntwana olungileyo: Iidayari zabantwana abamkelekileyo

Umbhali u-Elaine Pinkerton wamkelwa eneminyaka eyi-5. Waqala ukugcina idayari xa wayeneminyaka eyi-10, kwaye kumashumi amane eminyaka kamva wagqiba ekubeni ajike iminyaka engama-40 yeejenali azenze incwadi. Iiposti zakhe zebhlog zigubungela imisebenzi yakhe, ukuhamba kwakhe, kunye nendlela elipapasha ngayo ibali lakhe emncedileyo ukuba aphilise ekwamkelweni kwakhe.

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