I-Orgasms edityanisiweyo: Ziyintoni kunye nendlela yokuzifumana

Umxholo

• Yintoni i-orgasm edibeneyo?
• Uziva njani?
• Uyiphumeza njani i-orgasm edibeneyo
• Ndedwa
• Bahlulelane
• Ezona zikhundla zesini zibalaseleyo kwi-orgasms edibeneyo:
  
• Thembela isisu sakho ngezibakala

Ngaba ukulungele ukuba ne-orgasms ezininzi ngaxeshanye?

I-orgasm yelungu lobufazi ihlala ingenakwenzeka, kodwa abantu abane-clitorises kunye ne-vaginas basikelelwe kakhulu. Amaqhinga kunye nezinto zokudlala zinokukunceda uyiqonde kakuhle (inqaku: iqhinga lokuqala kukunyamezela), kwaye kunokwenzeka ukufezekisa iinguqulelo ezininzi ze-orgasm-ngaxeshanye. Sithetha ngobufazi, i-clitoral, i-anal, kunye ne-erogenous.

Kodwa mva nje uhlobo olwahlukileyo lwe-orgasm lwenza indlela eya kulwimi lwesini: i-orgasm edibeneyo.

Yintoni i-orgasm edibeneyo?

I-orgasm edibeneyo ichazwa njenge-clitoral kunye ne-vaginal orgasm eyenzeka ngaxeshanye. Ke, ewe, zi-orgasms ezimbini ngaxeshanye ezihlala zikhokelela kwimpendulo yomzimba ogcwele ngakumbi.

Oku kuthetha inyathelo lokuqala lokuba ne-orgasm edibeneyo kukuba ikwazi ukukhuthaza zombini i-clitoris kunye nelungu lobufazi ngexesha elinye, elingenzima njengoko livakala.

Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba zisebenza njani ezesini kunye nokuhlangana kwento.

Ii-orgasms zangasese zihlala zibandakanya ukubetha indawo ye-G, ebekwe kudonga lwangaphakathi lobufazi. Ukukhuthaza indawo ye-G ngoxinzelelo oluqhelekileyo kunokukhokelela kwi-orgasm.

Ndifumene nge-ultrasound ukuba indawo ye-G inokuba bucayi kakhulu kuba iyinxalenye yenethiwekhi ye-clitoral: ingcambu ye-clitoral ibekwe kanye emva kodonga lwangaphambili lobufazi. Ke, ukubetha indawo ye-G kunokubangela nenxalenye ye-clitoris.

Kwi-clitoral orgasm, ii-orgasms zenzeka xa uxinzelelo kunye nokuphindaphinda intshukumo kusetyenziswa kumanzi (kuhlala kufezekiswa nge-lube) clitoris. I-clitoris lilungu elizaliswe yimithambo-luvo ebekwe phezulu kwilungu lobufazi eliyehla liye ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwelebia. Inkulu kunokuba kucingelwa.

Ukuphindaphinda phezulu kunye nokuhla okanye isindululo sokujikeleza ukufezekisa i-orgasm kunokwenziwa kusetyenziswa (imanzi) iminwe, isundu, okanye ulwimi, kuxhomekeke kwinto ethandwa liqabane lakho.

Uziva njani?

I-orgasm edibeneyo inokushwankathelwa njenge-ah-mazing- kwaye yomelele ngakumbi kunesini sangasese okanye i-orgasms yodwa.

Kuba zombini ubufazi kunye ne-clitoris zombini ziyakhuthazeka, i-orgasm edityanisiweyo inokubangela nantoni na ekuhambeni okungazenzisiyo okulingisa ukuxhuzula kwi-ejaculation yabasetyhini kwezinye iimeko. (Oku kuyenzeka xa indawo ye-G ivuselelwa, ibangela amadlala eSkene ngapha nangapha kwe-urethra ukuba ivuselelwe.)

Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba yeyiphi i-clitoral kunye ne-vaginal orgasms enokubonakala okanye ivakale ngathi iyodwa:

• Unobumba ii-orgasms zihlala zivakala ebusweni bomzimba, njengemvakalelo yokunxiba esikhumbeni sakho nakwingqondo yakho.
• Ubufazi ii-orgasms zinzulu emzimbeni kwaye zinokuviwa ngumntu ongena kwilungu lobufazi kuba iindonga zangasese ziya kubetha.

Akukho orgasm efanayo, nangona. Umzimba wakho uvumela njani ukuba uhambe ukusuka kwisincwina esithambileyo ukuya kukhululo olunamandla. Xa kuziwa ekusukeleni ii-orgasms, kungcono ukuba ungabelani ngesondo nenjongo yokuphela engqondweni.

Kodwa ukuba uziva ukhululekile kunye neqabane lakho kwaye ufuna ukuya kwi-orgasm edibeneyo, funda ezinye iingcebiso.

Uyiphumeza njani i-orgasm edibeneyo

Nokuba uyazi indlela yokuzikhupha kuzo zombini iindlela, i-orgasm edibeneyo iya kusebenza. Ezinye iingcebiso? Hlaziya kwaye ungene ngenjongo yokufezekisa ulonwabo kwaye hayi ngokuthe ngqo uhlobo lwe-orgasm.

Ungaziva ngathi kufuneka uqale ngokukhuthaza zombini indawo ye-G kunye ne-clitoris ngaxeshanye, nokuba. Ukuba elinye icandelo lithatha ixesha elide ukuya phezulu, jonga phaya kuqala. Kwaye kwimeko yamaxesha okuqala, ixesha ikwangumhlobo wakho (sukucwangcisela ukungxamela ukusebenza emva!).

Ndedwa

Ukufezekisa i-orgasm edibeneyo ngokwakho, qala ngesini ngokufumana indawo ye-G:

1. Usebenzisa iminwe yakho okanye into yokudlala ngesondo, phakamisa phezulu uye kwiqhosha lesisu sakho kwisindululo esithi "yiza apha".
2. Phinda isindululo njengoko uvakalelo lusakha, kwaye- endaweni yokungena ngaphakathi nangaphandle- uyakufuna ukugcina ujolise kule ndawo.
3. Ngesinye isandla sakho, qalisa ukusebenza kwi-clitoris. Ukuba ufuna ukongeza i-lube, yiya kuyo!
4. Faka isicelo soxinzelelo olukhawulezayo kunye nobunzima ngokuhamba okuphindaphindayo usebenzisa iminwe okanye isundu, usiya ngapha nangapha okanye setyhula.

Vibrators zikwayindlela elungileyo yokuvuselela indawo yakho ye-G kunye ne-clitoris, ngakumbi ukuba ukufikelela kuzo zombini kubonakala ngathi ngumsebenzi omninzi.

Bahlulelane

Ukuba uneqabane, unokubaxelela eyona ndlela yokufikelela kwi-G-spot yakho zizandla kuqala. Mimic ethi "yiza apha" ishukuma uye kwiqhosha lesisu ngaphambi kokuba naluphi na uhlobo lokungena luqale.

Umlingane wakho unokusebenzisa umlomo nolwimi ukukhuthaza i-clitoris. Banokuqala ukubanga indawo, emva koko basebenzise incam yolwimi lwabo ukukhotha, ukuqala kancinci kunye nokunyusa isantya kunye noxinzelelo kunye nokuhamba, njengokuhla nokuhla okanye isetyhula.

Ngexesha lokungena, enye yezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zokufezekisa ukuvuselelwa kwamanqwanqwa kuthiwa yindawo "yokukhwela phezulu".

Ukuzama oku, lala ngomqolo. Umlingane wakho kufuneka ajonge i-penis okanye i-toy yakhe yesondo ukuze i-shaft ephezulu igubungele i-clitoris yakho njengoko iqhubela. Imeko nganye kufuneka isilayishe i-hood yakho phezulu naphantsi, okanye ibonelele ngoxinzelelo olwaneleyo ngaphezulu kwehood ukuvuselela i-clitoris yakho.

Ezona zikhundla zesini zibalaseleyo kwi-orgasms edibeneyo:

• cowgirl okanye reverse cowgirl
• emi
• ukuvala isikhundla sobufundisi
• ukucoca
• inja (kodwa ingenazandla phantsi)

Khumbula, wonke umzimba wahlukile. Ukuba ezi zikhundla zidumileyo zesondo azisebenzi, kuhlala kukho utshintsho oluncinci onokuzama ukubetha amabala afanelekileyo.

Kwakhona, akukho xinzelelo kwi-orgasm yakho edibeneyo ukuba ibe yinto edibeneyo kunye neyesifazana ngexesha elifanayo. Kwincwadi yethu, nayiphi na i-combo ye-orgasm (nokuba yeyempundu okanye ingono!)

Thembela isisu sakho ngezibakala

Kufunyenwe ukuba kwi-avareji, iipesenti ezingama-54 zabasetyhini baphumelela kwi-orgasm ngokukhuthaza kunye nokukhuthaza ubufazi, xa kuthelekiswa neepesenti ezingama-34 ezathi zangcungcutheka ngokuvuselela amandla kuphela kunye neepesenti ezi-6 ezathi zagcoba ngokuvuselela ubufazi kuphela.

Kwaye ixesha lokuqala? Thembela kwisisu sakho: Uyawazi umahluko phakathi kwe-clitoral kunye ne-orgasms yelungu lobufazi.

Ngokwimbali ye-clitoral kunye ne-orgasms yelungu lobufazi, izifundo ezimbini ezenziwe nge-1970s zafumanisa ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abasebenza ngokwesondo bayawazi umahluko phakathi kwe-clitoral kunye ne-orgasms yelungu lobufazi.

Ngokusebenzisa iingxelo ezizezakho, abasetyhini bachaze i-clatoral orgasm njenge "eyasekhaya, eyomeleleyo kunye neyonelisayo ngokwasemzimbeni, ngelixa i-orgasm yelungu lobufazi ichazwe njengeqinile kwaye ihlala ixesha elide kune-clasmal orgasm, 'nzulu,' 'uvakalelo lomzimba uphela' ngeemvakalelo ezibethayo, kwanokwanelisa ngokwasengqondweni. ”

Ngoku khawucinge ukuba zenzeka njani zombini ngexesha elinye.

U-Emily Shiffer wayengumvelisi wewebhu wedijithali weMpilo yaMadoda kunye noThintelo, kwaye okwangoku ungumbhali ozimeleyo ogxile kwezempilo, isondlo, ukunciphisa umzimba, kunye nokuba sempilweni. Usekwe ePennsylvania kwaye uthanda zonke izinto zodidi, i-cilantro, kunye nembali yaseMelika.