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ULouise Aubery ngumlingisi waseFrance oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala omalunga nokubonisa indlela yokuphila impilo enokuba mnandi kwaye kulula ngayo xa usenza izinto ozithandayo. Uyawaqonda amandla aza neqonga lakhe, kunye nomngcipheko wokuba abone kuphela iifoto ezibonisa kakuhle zabashukumisi kunye neemodeli. Kutshanje, uthathe isigqibo sokuyigcina iyinyani kwaye wabelana ngeposi ukubonisa ukuba ii-angles ziyinto yonke-nokuba ithini inqanaba lakho lokuqina. (Idibeneyo: Eli Gqwetha liLungileyo liMfuna ukuba uyeke ukulwela iAngle egqibeleleyo)
Kwifoto, uLouise wenza into esiyenzileyo konke ngokuqinisekileyoyenziwe ngaphambili esipilini: Ukucwina impundu yakhe. Kwifoto esecaleni, ubalaselisa ubuninzi obunokuyitshintsha imbonakalo yempahla yakho, xa kuthelekiswa neposi ebonakalayo esihlala siyibona kwi-Instagram.
Kwaye into yile, wonke umntu impundu ijongeka ngoluhlobo xa uyikhama. Njenge wonke umntu amahips namathanga andise emacaleni xa uguqa, kwaye wonke umntu imibimbi esiswini xa uhlala phantsi. (Umzekelo A: uAnna Victoria kunye nomzekelo B: Jen Widerstrom.)
Ngelixa oku kungafanelekanga ukuba kube yinguqu, kunqabile indlela esibona ngayo i-butts kwi-Instagram. Kungalula ukulibala ukuba ezi "ziphene" zikhona kwindalo iphela xa konke okubonayo kumxhesho wakho kuphanga okuthile emva kokulandelayo.
Umyalezo uLouise oposwe kunye nefoto ukwasisikhumbuzo sokuba umzimba "ogqibeleleyo" uya kuhlala uyinjongo engenakufikeleleka. "Ewe ndiyasebenza. Ewe, ndiyatya ndisempilweni. Hayi, andinawo umzimba ogqibeleleyo," ubhale ecaleni kweefoto.
"Xa ndiqala ukuzilolonga, bendinolindelo oluhle emzimbeni endinethemba / ndifuna ukufumana," ubhale watsho. "Ekugqibeleni, ndiza kufumana i-gap yethanga, isisu esisicaba, kwaye akusayi kubakho cellulite!" wacinga ngeloxesha.
Kodwa nokuba unayo okanye awunayo le mpawu yomzimba, uLouis ufuna abantu bazi ukuba "impilo" ayisiyiyo inkangeleko, yindlela yokuphila. "Ewe, ndisagcina amanqatha esiswini sam. Ewe, ndisenayo i-cellulite. Ewe, ndisempilweni." (Idibene: UKelly Clarkson wafunda njani ukuba ukuba Mncinci akufani nokuba seMpilo)
Uqukumbela iposi yakhe ngokusikhumbuza: "Umzimba wakho AYILULO utshaba" kwaye usibongoza ukuba sibe nobubele kuthi.
Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala uLouise evula malunga nemigangatho yobuhle engafikelelekiyo eluntwini-ehlala ixhaswa ziimodeli kunye nabaphembeleli kwi-Instagram. Kwangoko kulo nyaka, wabelane ngesithuba malunga nokuba yintoni kwaye ayibonwa ngathi "inomtsalane."
Kwiposi, uLouise ubuza: "Nguwuphi umzimba onomtsalane ngokuchanekileyo? Umbutho unenkcazo engaqhelekanga yokuba 'uyathandeka.' Oku kuthetha ukuba kufanelekile ukuba ubenemigangatho efanelekileyo, ujongeka njengemodeli ezikwiibhodi zebhodi. Umzimba oneejika, kodwa hayi kakhulu; ngenkcazo, kodwa hayi kakhulu; mde, kodwa hayi kakhulu. " (Inxulumene: UKatie Willcox ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba ungaphezulu kakhulu kunoko ubona esipilini)
Uqhubeke ngokusibongoza ukuba silisuse igama kwisigama sethu ngokupheleleyo. "Ayilunganga kwaphela. Kungenxa yoko le nto isenza sinqwenele. Ukungabinazo iimpazamo," ubhale watsho. Ubuncinane yile nto bendiyinqwenela ixesha elide kangako. Kodwa isesisimumu. Akukho mntu 'ungenasiphako.' Konke kuxhomekeke kwikona esikhetha ukubona izinto. Ke kwixesha elizayo xa usiva kakubi ngesiqu sakho, khumbula ukukhetha okuhle. " Shumayela.