Ukulila komntwana: Iintsingiselo ezi-7 eziphambili kunye nokwenza

Umxholo

• Ukwazi njani ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukukhala kosana
• Umenza njani umntwana ayeke ukukhala

Ukuchonga unobangela wokulila komntwana kubalulekile ukuze kuthathwe amanyathelo okunceda usana ukuba luyeke ukulila, ke kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngaba umntwana wenza nayiphi na intshukumo ngelixa elila, njengokubeka isandla emlonyeni okanye ukuncancisa umnwe, umzekelo, njengoko kunokuba ngumqondiso wendlala.

Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana bakhale ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo kubazali babo, ngakumbi emva kwemini okanye ngokuhlwa, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi oku kuyenzeka ukukhulula uxinzelelo oluqokeleleke emini, ke ukuba zonke iimfuno zomntwana ziyafezekiswa, njengokucoceka ilweyile kwaye sele betyile umzekelo, abazali kufuneka babe nomonde kwaye bayeke umntwana akhale.

Ukwazi njani ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukukhala kosana

Ukuchonga oko ukukhala kosana kuthetha, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ezinye zeempawu umntwana anokuzinika ukongeza ekulileni, njenge:

• Indlala okanye ukunxanwa, apho usana luhlala lukhala lubambe isandla emlonyeni okanye luvule kwaye luvale ngesandla rhoqo;
• Kuyabanda okanye bubushushu, kwaye umntwana angabila kakhulu okanye aqaphele ukubonakala kweerhashalala, kwimeko yobushushu, okanye abe neminwe ebandayo kunye neenzwane, ukuba umntwana uziva ebanda;
• Ache, apho usana ludla ngokuzama ukubeka isandla salo endaweni yeentlungu lo gama lilila;
• I-diaper engcolileyo, apho, ukongeza ekulileni, ulusu lunokuba bomvu;
• Colic, kule meko ukukhala kosana kubukhali ngakumbi kwaye kuthabatha ixesha elide kwaye isisu esikhubazeke ngakumbi sinokubonakala;
• Ukuzalwa kwamazinyo, apho usana lubeka khona isandla sakhe okanye izinto emlonyeni wakhe rhoqo, ukongeza ekuphelelweni ngumdla wokutya kunye neentsini ezidumbileyo;
• Lala, apho usana lubeka izandla zalo phezu kwamehlo alo ngelixa lilila, ukongeza ekulileni kakhulu.

Kubalulekile ukuba kuchongwe unobangela wokulila komntwana, njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba kuthathwe amanyathelo okunceda ukunciphisa ukukhala, njengokunikezela ngetoti, kwimeko apho ukukhala kungenxa yokuzalwa kwamazinyo, ukutshintsha ilweyile okanye ukusonga. umntwana xa elila kungenxa yengqele, umzekelo.

Umenza njani umntwana ayeke ukukhala

Eyona ndlela yokumisa umntwana ekukhaleni kukuchonga unobangela wokulila komntwana kwaye asombulule le ngxaki ngokujonga ukuba ngaba ilweyile licocekile, ukuba lixesha lokuba umntwana ancancise kwaye ukuba umntwana unxibe ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha lonyaka. , umzekelo.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba abazali okanye abanonopheli abakwazi ukuchonga unobangela wokulila kosana, banokumbamba umntwana emathangeni abo, bacule ingoma yesilivere okanye babeke usana kwisitrato kwaye bamgungqise umntwana okwemizuzu embalwa, njengolu hlobo intshukumo inceda umntwana azole. Ukongeza, unga:

• Vula ingoma ethe cwaka, Njengomculo weklasikhi wabantwana.
• Songela umntwana ngengubo okanye iphepha ukuze angakwazi ukuhambisa imilenze kunye neengalo kuba kuyanceda umntwana ukuba azole. Obu buchule kufuneka benziwe ngononophelo olukhulu ukunqanda ukubanjwa kwegazi lomntwana.
• Vula unomathotholo okanye umabonwakude ngaphandle kwesikhululo okanye uvule isicoci sokucoca, ifeni yokukhupha, okanye umatshini wokuhlamba kuba olu hlobo lwengxolo eqhubekayo luthomalalisa iintsana.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana akayeki ukukhala kubalulekile ukumsa kugqirha wabantwana kuba usenokugula kwaye ufuna unyango. Jonga ezinye iindlela zokwenza ukuba umntwana wakho ayeke ukukhala.