I-Verborea: yintoni, kutheni isenzeka kwaye ungathetha kanjani ngokuthe chu

Umxholo

• Kutheni le nto isenzeka
• Indlela yokuthetha kancinci

I-Verborea yimeko ebonakaliswa yintetho ekhawulezileyo yabantu abathile, enokubangelwa bubuntu babo okanye ibe sisiphumo semihla ngemihla. Ke, abantu abathetha ngokukhawuleza kakhulu banokungawabizi onke amagama, basilele ukubiza amanye amalungu kunye nokulungisa elinye igama kwelinye, elinokwenza kube nzima kwabanye ukuliqonda.

Ukunyanga i-verborrea, kubalulekile ukuba uchonge unobangela, njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ingcali yezentetho kunye nengcali yezengqondo zingabonisa ezinye zeemithambo zokunceda umntu athethe kancinci kwaye enze ukuqonda.

Kutheni le nto isenzeka

I-Verborea inokuba luphawu lobuntu bomntu, nangona kunjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeka njengeziphumo zemihla ngemihla, ezinje ngesiqhelo esikhawulezileyo, uvalo okanye ixhala, ezinokuthi zenzeke ngexesha lokwenziwa komsebenzi okanye ngexesha lodliwanondlebe lomsebenzi. umzekelo.

Kwezi meko kuqhelekile ukuba umntu aqale ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunesiqhelo, ezinokuphazamisa ngokulula ukuqonda kwabanye.

Indlela yokuthetha kancinci

Xa intetho ekhawulezayo inxulunyaniswa nobuntu, kunzima ukuba umntu atshintshe, nangona kunjalo kukho iingcebiso kunye nokuzivocavoca okunokwenziwa ukunceda umntu ukuba athethe ngokucotha ngakumbi, ngokucotha nangokucacileyo, ukuququzelela ukuqonda. Ke, ezinye iindlela zokuthetha kancinci kwaye ukhulule uvalo zezi:

• Thetha ngokucacileyo, uthathele ingqalelo kwigama ngalinye elithethwayo kwaye uzama ukuthetha amalungu ngamalungu;
• Zama ukuthetha unqumame, ngokungathi ufunda isicatshulwa, ume kancinci emva kokuthetha isivakalisi, umzekelo;
• Phefumla xa uthetha;
• Ziqhelise neendlela zokuphumla, ngakumbi ukuba isizathu sokuthetha ngokukhawuleza kukoyika;
• Xa uthetha nabaphulaphuli, funda intetho yakho ngokuvakalayo kwaye urekhode ilizwi lakho, ukuze kamva uqaphele isantya othetha ngaso kwaye ujonge isidingo sekhefu, umzekelo;
• Yibaxa intshukumo yomlomo wakho xa uthetha, oku kuvumela onke amalungu ukuba abizwe ngokucacileyo nangokucothayo.

Ngokwesiqhelo abantu abathetha ngokukhawuleza kakhulu bahlala bechukumisa okanye bechola abanye abantu ngexesha lencoko kwaye bejongela phambili imizimba yabo. Ke ngoko, enye yeendlela zokuthetha kancinci kukujonga isimilo xa uthetha nabanye abantu, ukunqanda ukubamba kakhulu, umzekelo. Funda indlela yokuthetha esidlangalaleni.