Kutheni ukungaguquguquki yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekufikeleleni kwiinjongo zakho zempilo

Umxholo

• 1. Gmba nzulu.
• 2. Fumana igumbi lakho elijikelezayo.
• 3. Lazi ixesha lokuyibiza.
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Ukungqinelani sesinye sezixhobo ezinamandla onazo. "Ingqondo yakho iyayinqwenela," utshilo u-Andrew Deutscher, umlawuli olawulayo weProjekthi yezaMandla, indawo yokuphucula intsebenzo kunye nenkampani yophando. Ukungaguquguquki akugcini nje kukunika amandla mihla le ukuze ukwazi ukufikelela kwiinjongo kodwa wenze neendlela ezinzima ezizenzekelayo, ukuze uhlale ukhuthazekile.

Kodwa ukungaguquguquki kukodwa kuya kuba buthuntu. Amava e-Spur-of-the-mzuzu ongeza ubutsha kwaye akugcine ubandakanyekile. Bangena kwiziko lomvuzo wobuchopho bakho, izifundo zibonisa, ukubonelela ngolonwabo. Ngenxa yoko, uziva uhlaziyekile kwaye ukhuthazekile.

Umbuzo, ke, unokuhlala njani ungaguquguquki ngelixa kwangaxeshanye ungathotyelwanga? Kukho indlela, kwaye isitshixo kwimpumelelo yakho. Obu buchule buza kukunceda ukubetha ibhalansi phakathi kokuzinza nokulungela nantoni na.

1. Gmba nzulu.

Kuya kufuneka uqale ngesiseko esiqinileyo sokungaguquguquki ngaphambi kokuba ungeze amandla kumxube. Ukwenza ezo ndlela zokuziphatha zisempilweni, zinokuchonga eyona njongo iphambili kubo-into eya kukunika ukutyhilwa kwengqondo ekufuneka uyilandele. Yithi uzama ukusebenza ngo-6 kusasa iintsuku ezintathu ngeveki. Yenza uluhlu lwezizathu ezinesizathu sokuba kutheni kufuneka uqhubeke, ucebisa uLaura Vanderkam, umbhali we Ndiyayazi Indlela Ayenza Ngayo. Ukuze uve ngazo, khawucinge ngoku: Ucwangciso lwakho luya kubuphucula njani ubomi bakho? Umzekelo, ukuba ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabahlobo kubalulekile kuwe, ukwenza umthambo kusasa kunokukhulula iingokuhlwa zakho ukuze uhlangane. Emva koko xa ingqondo yakho iqala ukucinga ngezingxengxezo, uya kuba nokuphendula okukulungeleyo okuya kukunceda ukukuqhubela phambili. (Sebenzisa "ukujikeleza kwengqondo" ukwenza ukufikelela ngokulula kube lula.)

2. Fumana igumbi lakho elijikelezayo.

Nje ukuba ungene kwi-groove ngesiqhelo sakho, vumela ukuphambuka kuyo. Ngaphandle koko, ngaphandle kwako nakuphi na ukuguquguquka, ukuphazamiseka okuncinci kunokuziva kusilele. Ukuzinika igumbi lokudlala kwandisa ukuzinikela kwakho xa uwonke, Ijenali yeengqondo zabaThengi iingxelo. Ngoko cwangcisa kwangaphambili. "Lindela ukuba izinto ziya kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo ukutshintsha ishedyuli yakho," utshilo uChris Bailey, umbhali we Iprojekthi yeMveliso. "Yila iqhinga lokubalungiselela." Ukuba nesicwangciso B sokuba xa isidlo sangokuhlwa sokugqibela simema ukuba ulahle indlela yakho yokutya (njengokuthatha isigqibo sokuphatha isidlo sangokuhlwa njengomvuzo kunye nokutya ukukhanya, isidlo sakusasa esinempilo kusasa olulandelayo) kukuvumela ukwamkela ukuphazamiseka kwaye uzibone njengothuko olumangalisayo . (Landela ezi ngcebiso ukuze uhlale ungaguquguquki kodwa uphephe ukuzilolonga.)

3. Lazi ixesha lokuyibiza.

Ukungaguquguquki kunokwenza ucelo mngeni phantse kungabinangqondo. Yinto entle leyo, kodwa inokuzibophelela kwifomyula ophume kuyo. Yonwabele intuthuzelo yesiqhelo, ewe, kodwa gcina iso kwiziphumo zakho ukuze wazi xa ufuna ukwenza utshintsho. Jonga kunye nawe kanye ngenyanga, utshilo uDeutscher. Cinga ngenkqubela phambili oyenzileyo mva nje kwaye ngawaphi amanyathelo alandelayo ekufuneka abe ngawo. "Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba izibonelelo ozifumana kwisiqhelo ziyaphela, zilungiswe okanye zilungiswe," ucebisa.

Oko kunokuthetha ukwenza into eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo (amanqindi endaweni yokubaleka) okanye ukunyusa isicwangciso esele sikhona (ukusuka kukutya okugcwaliswe zizityalo ukuya kwimifuno ngokupheleleyo) ukuqhubeka nokukhula kunye nokufezekisa. (Idibeneyo: Kutheni uJen Widerstrom ecinga ukuba ufanele uthi Ewe kwinto ongasoze uyenze)

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