Ngaba Ukuthandana namadoda amancinane sisisombululo sokungachumi?

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Abasetyhini abathandana nabafana abancinci ngokufuthi kufuneka bajongane nemibuzo kunye nokujonga, singasathethi ke ngeziqhulo eziqhwalelayo malunga nokuba ngumphangi we-cradle okanye icougar. Kodwa uphononongo olutsha lutyhila enye into ejonge ukuba kunye nendoda encinci: Unokuba nethuba elingcono lokukhulelwa.

Uphononongo, olunikezelwe kwintlanganiso yonyaka ye-American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM), ihlolisise idatha evela kubafazi be-631 phakathi kweminyaka eyi-40 kunye ne-46 ababephantsi kwe-vitro fertilization. Abaphandi abazange bamangaliswe xa befumanisa ukuba ubudala bomama oza kuba nendima enkulu ekubeni wayekwazi ukuthwala umntwana kwixesha. Yintoni evule amehlo kukuba iminyaka yeqabane lakhe eliyindoda inento eninzi ayenzileyo kunye nosana lwakhe. Kwaye akufani nokuba amadoda ayekwibrakethi yeminyaka efanelekileyo njengendawo yegezer. Iminyaka yabo ephakathi yayiyi-41, kunye neepesenti ze-95 ezingekho ngaphezu kwe-53. "Ngokungalindelekanga, ubudala bendoda bufunyenwe buyinto ebalulekileyo yomntu onokuthi uzalwe," babhala ababhali bokufunda.

Uphononongo lwalunqunyelwe, kugxilwe kuphela kumanqanaba okuphumelela kosana kwabasetyhini abangama-40 nangaphezulu ababene-IVF. Kodwa yongeza kwimfumba yophando ebonisa ukuba abafana banewotshi yabo eyeyabo. Enyanisweni, ngokungafaniyo nabasetyhini, banokuvelisa isidoda kwaye ngokwethiyori banabantwana kubo bonke ubomi babo. Kodwa umgangatho kunye nobungakanani besidoda buqala ukubetha kwi-30s yabo yokuqala, utshilo uHarry Fisch, MD, urologist kunye nombhali I-Clock Biological Clock yamadoda. “Emva kweminyaka engama-30, amadoda afumana ipesenti enye yehla kwinqanaba le-testosterone minyaka le, kwaye i-testosterone yigesi egcina ukuveliswa kwamadlozi kuqhube kakuhle,” utshilo uFisch. Ngapha koko, imiba yokuzala kwamadoda ingoyena nobangela okanye igalelo malunga neepesenti ezingama-40 zezibini ezisokolayo ukumitha, ngokutsho kwe-ASRM.

Ke kuya kufuneka urhwebe kwi-40-iqabane lakho ukuba uvala eso siganeko kwaye unethemba lokukhulelwa kwixa elizayo? Asiyichukumisi leyo, kodwa sinokukuxelela ukuba ukukhuthaza umfo wakho ukuba athathe imikhwa esempilweni yokuphila, njengokungatshayi okanye ukupakisha iikhilogram ezigqithisileyo, kuya kunceda ukugcina abaqubhi bakhe bekwimeko yokwenza abantwana. Ukutshaya kunokukhokelela kwidlozi elonakeleyo kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, kwaye ubunzima obongezelelweyo bunciphisa amanqanaba e testosterone, utsho uFisch.

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