Nanini na xa sithetha ngeNkcubeko yokuDinwa, kufuneka siBandakanye abantu abaKhubazekileyo

Umxholo

• Kukho imeko ekudala ikho yabantu abakwaziyo ukuboleka kwizithulu kunye neenkcubeko ezikhubazekileyo
• Kwenzeka ntoni xa sisusa amava okukhubazeka kwiingcambu zawo kwinkcubeko yokukhubazeka?
• Kukwafanelekile ukuba uqaphele inqaku likaPeterson ngaphandle kwamazwi abantu bebala
• Ekugqibeleni, kukho ixabiso ekubolekeni kwinkcubeko yokukhubazeka - kodwa kufuneka ibe kukutshintshiselana ngokulinganayo

Sibona njani iimilo zehlabathi esizikhethele zona- kunye nokwabelana ngamava anyanzelisayo kunokubangela ukuba siphathane ngcono. Lo ngumbono onamandla.

Njengabaninzi, ndifumene inqaku lakutshanje le-Buzzfeed ngu-Anne Helen Peterson, "Indlela iMillennials yaba ngayo sisifo sokutsha," umxholo onokubuyisa kakhulu. Nam andonelisekanga yindlela ubungxowankulu obuye basilela ngayo kwisizukulwana sethu. Nam ndinengxaki yokugqibezela imisebenzi kunye nemisebenzi ebonakala ngathi ifanele ukuba "ilula."

Ukanti kumzamo wokudibanisa amava okuphela kweminyaka, isincoko sikaPeterson siphoswe kukubandakanya ulwazi oluvela kuluntu olukhubazekileyo.

Kukho imeko ekudala ikho yabantu abakwaziyo ukuboleka kwizithulu kunye neenkcubeko ezikhubazekileyo

Umzekelo, indawo yebhola ekhatywayo ibolekwe kubadlali beGallaudet abathi bangqunga ukuthintela amanye amaqela ekubaboneni besayina. Iingubo ezinobunzima, eyona nto intsha kulo nyaka, yaqala yenziwa ukunceda abantu abane-autism ukumelana namava eemvakalelo kunye nexhala.

Ngeli xesha, uPeterson usebenzisa ukukhubazeka njengesikweko. Uthetha ngento "egulayo" kuthi, "ngembandezelo." Ude athi ukudinwa emva kweminyaka eliwaka “sisifo esinganyangekiyo.”

Kwaye ngelixa uPeterson esenza imizekelo kumntu okhubazekileyo, akabandakanyi iimbono zabo, imbali, okanye amazwi. Ngenxa yoko, uyabatyhafisa abantu abakhubazekileyo kwimizabalazo yokwenyani njengenxalenye yokutshiswa kwemileniyam, kunokuba kube nophawu olunokwenzeka (kwaye olunokwenzeka) lwemo yabo.

Abantu abakhubazekileyo sele benamava okususa onegalelo kuxinzelelo lwethu. Ke, ngokusebenzisa amava akhubazekileyo ngaphandle kokubonisana nabantu abakhubazekileyo, isincoko sikaPeterson sinegalelo kolo cingo.

Umzekelo wokuqala uPeterson awenzayo ngowomntu one-ADHD ongakwazanga ukubhalisela ukuvota ngexesha.

"Kodwa ingcaciso yakhe-nangona, njengoko watshoyo, umzabalazo wakhe kule meko ubangelwe yinxalenye ye-ADHD yakhe-yabangela utyekelo lwanamhlanje lokudakumba kwimileniyali 'ukungakwazi ukugqiba imisebenzi ebonakala ngathi isisiseko," ubhala watsho uPeterson. "Khula, uluvo ngokubanzi luyahamba. Ubomi abukho nzima kangako. ”

Into engekhoyo kukuvuma ukuba ukungakwazi ukugqiba imisebenzi "elula" ngamava aqhelekileyo kwabo bane-ADHD.

Abantu abakhubazekileyo badla ngokuxelelwa ukuba “bangoyiki.” Kwaye ayifani naxa umntu okhubazekileyo exelelwa ukuba "akhule." Ngaphandle kokukhubazeka okubonakalayo kune-ADHD, njengabasebenzisi bezitulo ezinamavili, abantu abakhubazekileyo baxelelwa ukuba "bazame i-yoga" okanye i-turmeric okanye i-kombucha.

Ukucoca imizabalazo yokwenene yabantu abakhubazekileyo, ngokungathi singavula indlela yethu kwiindawo ezingenakufikeleleka, luhlobo lokungakwazi ukusebenza - kwaye ke sizama ukuvelana nabantu abakhubazekileyo ngokwenza ngokungathi sonke sifumana ingxelo efanayo.

Ukuba uPeterson ebeligxininise inqaku lakhe ngokuqinileyo kumava abakhubazekileyo, ebenokuthatha kula mava ukuze aqhubeke nokucacisa indlela abantu abakhubazekileyo abagxothwa ngayo. Oku, mhlawumbi, kuya kunceda abanye abafundi ukuba boyise esi simo sengqondo siyingozi.

Kwenzeka ntoni xa sisusa amava okukhubazeka kwiingcambu zawo kwinkcubeko yokukhubazeka?

Imiba emininzi yokutshiswa kwemileniyam echazwa nguPeterson iyafana namava aqhelekileyo abantu abagula ngokunganyangekiyo kunye ne-neurodivergent yabantu.

Kodwa ukuba nokukhubazeka okanye ukugula akuphelelanga kwiintlungu, ukuthintelwa, okanye ukuziva udiniwe kakhulu.

Kwakhona, ngokungabakhuphi abantu abakhubazekileyo kwingxelo, uPeterson uyaphoswa yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu: Abantu abakhubazekileyo kanjalo -Kwaye ndisebenza ixesha elide ndisebenza notshintsho lwenkqubo, ezinje ngemizamo eqhubekayo yokuphembelela ukhathalelo lwempilo kwindalo yonke kunye noMthetho wokuHlanganisa nokuKhubazeka.

Umbutho wokuzimela ozimeleyo owasekwa ngeminyaka yoo-1960 ukuphembelela ukuncitshiswa kwamaziko abantu abakhubazekileyo nokunyanzelisa abantu baseMelika abakhubazekileyo ngokusebenzisa iCongress. Ukubonisa ingxaki ngezakhiwo ezingafikelelekiyo, abantu abakhubazekileyo banyathela amanyathelo eCongress.

Xa uPeterson ebuza, “Kude kufike okanye endaweni yenguqulelo yenguqulelo yenkqubo yobungxowankulu, singathemba njani ukwehlisa okanye ukuthintela - endaweni nje yokuziqinisa ukudinwa okwethutyana?” Uphoswa yimbali apho uluntu olukhubazekileyo sele luphumelele khona utshintsho lwenkqubo olunokuthi luncede iwaka leminyaka ukufumana ukudinwa.

Umzekelo, ukuba ukudinwa ngenxa yesimo sempilo, abasebenzi banokucela ngokusemthethweni indawo yokuhlala phantsi komthetho waseMelika okhubazekileyo.

UPeterson ukwachaze uphawu lokudinwa "ukukhubazeka emsebenzini": “Bendinzulu kumjikelo wokutyekela… ukuba ndizokubiza 'ukukhubazeka.' Ndibeka into kuluhlu lwezinto endiza kuzenza ngeveki, kwaye ' ndiqengqeleka, iveki iye kolandelayo, kundiphatha kakubi iinyanga. ”

Kwabo bakhubazekileyo kunye nezigulo ezinganyangekiyo, oku kwaziwa njengokungasebenzi kakuhle kunye "nenkungu yengqondo."

Ukungasebenzi gwenxa kubonakaliswa bubunzima bokugqiba imisebenzi enzima, ukuqala imisebenzi, okanye ukutshintsha phakathi kwemisebenzi. Kuqhelekile kwi-ADHD, i-autism, kunye neminye imiba yempilo yengqondo.

Inkungu yobuchopho ichaza inkungu yengqondo eyenza kube nzima ukucinga nokugqibezela imisebenzi. Luphawu lweengxaki ezinje nge-fibromyalgia, ukudinwa okungapheliyo / i-myalgic encephalomyelitis, ukuguga, isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, nezinye.

Ngelixa ndingesosisihlalo sokuchonga uPeterson ngayo nayiphi na le micimbi (ukusebenza kwesigqeba kuyaziwa ukuba kuya kusiba kubi ngemiba enje ngoxinzelelo kunye nokungabikho kokulala), uyaphoswa ngokungabandakanyi umbono okhubazekileyo malunga nokukhubazeka okuthile: Abantu abakhubazekileyo baphuhlise iindlela ukuhlangabezana.

Oku sikubiza njengendawo yokuhlala okanye izicwangciso zokulwa okanye, ngamanye amaxesha, ukuzikhathalela.

Nangona kunjalo, endaweni yokwaziswa ngamava okhubazekileyo, uPeterson uyakugxotha ukuzinyamekela kwale mihla.

"Ukuzikhathalela okuninzi akukhathalelanga konke konke: Ishishini eliyi- $ 11 yezigidigidi elinenjongo yokuphela kwayo ayikokunciphisa umjikelo wokudinwa," ubhala watsho uPeterson, "kodwa kukubonelela ngeendlela ezizezinye zokuzilolonga. Ubuncinci kwi-iteration yayo yeli xesha, ukulungiswa kwezinto, ukuzikhathalela ayisosisombululo; kuyadinisa. ”

Ndiya kuvuma, ukuzikhathalela unako yindinisa. Ukanti ingaphezulu kwenguqulelo eyenziwe nguPeterson echazayo. Ukuzikhathalela uPeterson ubhala malunga nohlobo olunamanzi olunyanzelekileyo lwabantu ababethileyo, ngakumbi amaqumrhu, alwenzileyo ngenxa yenkcubeko yokukhubazeka.

Ukuzikhathalela ukungasebenzi kakuhle kulawulo kubini:

1. Yenza indawo yokuhlala (njengezikhumbuzo, ukwenza lula imisebenzi, ukucela uncedo) ukuze unethemba lokugqiba imisebenzi ebalulekileyo.
2. Yeka ukuzilindela ukuba wenze zonke izinto, okanye uzibize ngokuba "uyonqena" ukuba awukwazi.

Abantu abakhubazekileyo banamava awaneleyo okuziva ngathi "sonqena" ngenxa yokungabi "nemveliso." Umbutho uhlala usixelela ukuba "siyimithwalo" eluntwini, ngakumbi ukuba asikwazi ukusebenza kwimigangatho yobungxowankulu.

Mhlawumbi ngokumamela abantu abakhubazekileyo kwezi zihloko, abantu abakhubazekileyo banokuqonda ngcono okanye bamkele iintsilelo zabo. Emva kokuba ukukhubazeka kwam kusiba buthathaka ngakumbi, kuthathe iminyaka yokuziqhelanisa nam ukuze ndikwazi ukuzikhawulezisa kwaye hayi silindele ukugqibelela okufunwa luluntu lwethu lwanamhlanje njengongxowankulu.

Ukuba uPeterson waye wafikelela kuluntu olukhubazekileyo, wayenokuba nakho ukunqanda ukutshiswa kukudinwa, okanye ubuncinci afike kwinqanaba lokuzamkela malunga nokusikelwa umda.

Ukuphendula ityala lokuziva "ndonqena," uluntu olukhubazekileyo luye labuya umva, luthetha izinto ezinje ngo "bukho bam kukungavumi." Siye saqonda ukuba ixabiso lethu alibophelelwanga kwimveliso, kwaye kubandakanya le ngxelo yokukhubazeka ibiya kunika inqaku lokuqala ukuba lifuna kakhulu ukuxhobisa.

Kukwafanelekile ukuba uqaphele inqaku likaPeterson ngaphandle kwamazwi abantu bebala

Ucacisa ukuba liwaka leminyaka “njengabamhlophe ubukhulu becala, ubukhulu becala ngabantu abakumgangatho ophakathi abazelwe phakathi kowe-1981 nowe-1996.” Amatshantliziyo kuTwitter ayityhalile ngasemva le ngxelo.

UArrianna M. Planey wathumela umyalezo ngetwitter ephendula esi siqwenga, '"Kukuthini ukuba" mdala "kumfazi oNtsundu ophethwe njengabantu abadala ukusukela kwiminyaka esi-8? # Ubumhlophe # apho ubuNtsundu bendisenza umsebenzi omninzi obizwa ngokuba' kukudala ' kuba ngaphambi kokuba ndibe kwishumi elivisayo. ”

Ukongeza, uTiana Clark ubhalele ukuba uPeterson uphonononga "isimilo sesizukulwana- isizukulwana sam - kodwa iibhetri zam ezimnyama ezifileyo azibandakanywanga. Umbhali ude anike neenkcazo zokuba 'uhlwempuzekile' kwaye 'uyonqena,' kodwa akabeki zembali inkulu yezi zichazi, ngakumbi ngokwakhiwa kohlanga kwindawo yokusebenza. ”

Amanye amava abalulekileyo anokubonwa kwii-hashtag ezinje nge #DisabilityTooWhite kunye #HealthCareWhileColored.

Ekugqibeleni, kukho ixabiso ekubolekeni kwinkcubeko yokukhubazeka - kodwa kufuneka ibe kukutshintshiselana ngokulinganayo

Abantu abakhubazekileyo abanakuqhubeka nokuboleka kwinkcubeko nakulwimi lokukhubazeka ngelixa besiphatha "njengemithwalo." Enyanisweni, abantu abakhubazekileyo are ukufaka isandla eluntwini ngeendlela zokwenyani- kwaye oko kufuna ukwamkelwa.

Okona kungcono, oku kukukhutshelwa ngaphandle kwegalelo labantu abakhubazekileyo eluntwini. Okona kubi, oku kubeka isimo sengqondo kubantu abakhubazekileyo ukuba bazi ukuba kunjani ukukhubazeka.

Ke kwenzeka ntoni xa siqhawula umtshato namava abantu abakhubazekileyo? Ukukhubazeka kuba sisikweko nje, kwaye ubomi bokukhubazeka buba sisikweko nako, kunokuba kube yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yemeko yomntu. Ekugqibeleni, uPeterson uphoswa kakhulu ngokubhala "ngathi, ngaphandle kwethu."

U-Liz Moore ulwela amalungelo abantu abakhubazekileyo kwaye unobhala. Bahlala esofeni yabo kumhlaba wasePamunkey obiweyo kwindawo ye-DC. Ungabafumana kwi-Twitter, okanye ufunde okungakumbi ngomsebenzi wabo kwi-liminalnest.wordpress.com.