Ngaba Unoloyiko Lokuphoswa?

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I-FOMO, okanye "uloyiko lokuphoswa kukuphoswa," yinto uninzi lwethu olunayo. Kwenzeka xa siqala ukuziva sisoyika ngokungathabathi nxaxheba kwimisitho yasekuhlaleni, njengaleyo itheko limangalisayo nabani na oye wabonakala kwimpelaveki ephelileyo. I-FOMO inokuba negalelo kuxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo-kodwa, kwangaxeshanye, kunokubakho izinto ezithile kuloyiko lwabantu malunga nokuphoswa. Kwaye ngelixa uphando lwakutsha nje lucebisa ukuba i-FOMO yinto eyenziwe nkulu ngamajelo eendaba ezentlalo, abantu bebesoloko benenkxalabo malunga nokuma kwabo kwezentlalo.

Masingatsho kwaye Senze: Isidingo sokwazi

I-FOMO ihlala inxulunyaniswa nenqanaba elithathwa njengeliphantsi lentlalontle, elinokubangela iimvakalelo zokuxhalaba kunye nokuzithoba [1]. Xa siphose itheko, iholide, okanye nawuphi na umsitho, ngamanye amaxesha siziva sipholile kancinci kunaleyo ibisibonisile kwaye ithathe iifoto. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu bayoyika ukuphoswa zizinto ezimbi! . Olu phononongo lukwacebisa ukuba i-FOMO ixhaphake kakhulu phakathi kwabafana kunamanenekazi, nangona kungacaci ukuba kutheni.

Uphando lucebisa ukuba i-FOMO inokuthatha kakubi kakhulu impilo yengqondo. Ukoyika rhoqo iziganeko ezilahlekileyo kunokubangela ukuxhalaba kunye nokudakumba, ngakumbi kubantu abancinci. Kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, ukungazithembi kwezentlalo kunokuba negalelo kubundlobongela nakwiimvakalelo zokuziva uneentloni.

Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, bekukho uphando oluninzi kwindlela amajelo eendaba ezentlalo aphembelela ngayo i-FOMO. Uhlaziyo lwesimo kunye neetweets (obona busuku bugqwesileyo be-OMG!) masazise ngayo yonke imisebenzi enika umdla eyenzekayo ngelixa sisekhaya sifumana isihlwele saseJersey Shore. Ezinye iingcali zengqondo zide zicebise ukuba i-FOMO inceda ekuqhubeni impumelelo yamaqonga eendaba ezentlalo, kuba sivakalelwa kukuba kufuneka sisebenzise itekhnoloji ukusazisa okwenzekayo kwenye indawo.Kodwa, kwezinye iimeko, i-FOMO inokusinika inkuthazo entle yokunxulumana nabahlobo.

Musa Ukoyika: Isicwangciso Sakho Sokwenza

Abanye baphikisana neemvakalelo ezinxulumene neFOMO zomeleza unxibelelwano nabanye, ukukhuthaza abantu ukuba basebenze ngakumbi kwintlalontle. Ngelixa kunokuba kukuchasana nentlalontle ukuhlala kufacebook ulandela abantu abangabaziyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba usebenzise imithombo yeendaba ngendlela eyakhayo, njengokuhlala unxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nemisebenzi yocwangciso. (Mhlawumbi lixesha lokudibana kwakhona nomhlobo omdala ohlala kufutshane?)

Kwaye asinakugxeka umntu kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo ngokubangela iFOMO. Uloyiko malunga nokulahleka inokuba luhlobo lokugqwetha kwengqondo ehlukile kwitekhnoloji, ebangela iingcinga ezingenangqondo ezinxulunyaniswa noxinzelelo (njengokukholelwa ukuba bonke abo bahlobo basithiyile ukuba asifumananga simemo kwiqela leveki ephelileyo). Kubantu abatyekele kolu hlobo lweengcinga, ubugcisa bezi mini busenokulwandisa uloyiko lwabo lokuphoswa. Ukucoca iiplagi kuzo zonke izixhobo akunakusombulula ingxaki kunye nonyango lokuziphatha okanye olunye uhlobo lonyango lokuthetha.

Xa ujonga izicwangciso zabanye abantu, ngakumbi kwi-Intanethi, khumbula ukuba uninzi lwabantu luzenzela ezona webhusayithi zilunge kakhulu, ke jonga ngamehlo anokuthandabuza! Kwaye kuthi abo bazithembe ngokwaneleyo kwizicwangciso zethu zobu busuku bangoLwesihlanu… kulungile, ndiyanqwena.

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