Yintoni i-Electra Complex?

Umxholo

• Ingcaciso
• Imvelaphi yethiyori
• Ithiyori ichaziwe
• Umzekelo wendlela esebenza ngayo i-Electra complex
• Ngaba i-Electra complex iyinyani?
• Ukuthatha

Ingcaciso

Isixokelelwano se-Electra ligama elisetyenziselwa ukuchaza ingxelo yabasetyhini ye-Oedipus complex.

Kubandakanya intombazana, eneminyaka ephakathi kwe-3 kunye ne-6, ukuba ngokungathandabuzekiyo iqhotyoshelwe ngesondo kuyise kwaye iya isiba nobutshaba kunina. UCarl Jung wavelisa ithiyori ngo-1913.

Imvelaphi yethiyori

USigmund Freud, owaphuhlisa ithiyori eyintsokothileyo ye-Oedipus, waqala wavelisa umbono wokuba umntwana oyintombazana omncinci ukhuphisana nomama wakhe ukuze anonophele uyise.

Nangona kunjalo, yayinguCarl Jung - owayephila ngexesha likaFreud - owathi kuqala wabiza le meko "yi-Electra complex" ngo-1913.

Njengoko i-Oedipus complex ibizwa ngokuba yintsomi yamaGrike, kunjalo nobunzima be-Electra.

Ngokwentsomi yamaGrike, u-Electra wayeyintombi ka-Agamemnon noClytemnestra. Xa uClytemnestra kunye nesithandwa sakhe, u-Aegisthus, babulala uAgamemnon, u-Electra wacenga umntakwabo u-Orestes ukuba amncede abulale umama wakhe kunye nomthandi kanina.

Ithiyori ichaziwe

Ngokuka-Freud, bonke abantu bahamba ngamanqanaba amaninzi okuphuhla kwengqondo njengabantwana. Elona nqanaba libalulekileyo li "phallic stage" eliphakathi kweminyaka emi-3 neli-6.

Ngokuka-Freud, eli lixa amakhwenkwe namantombazana elungiswa kwilungu lobudoda. UFrud waphikisa ukuba amantombazana akhawulelana nokungabikho kwepenisi kwaye, xa ingekho, iklitoris yabo.

Kuphuhliso lwentombazana engokwengqondo, uFreud wacebisa, unamathele kuqala kunina ade aqonde ukuba akanalo ilungu lobudoda. Oku kubangela ukuba acaphukele umama wakhe "ngokumthena" -imeko uFreud abizwa ngokuba "ngumona wobudoda." Ngenxa yoku, ukhulisa ukunamathela kuyise.

Emva kwexesha, intombazana ichonga ngakumbi kunina kwaye ikhuphe isimilo sayo ngenxa yokoyika ukuphulukana nothando lukanina.UFreud wakubiza oku "sisimo sengqondo se-Oedipus."

UFreud wayekholelwa ukuba eli yayilixesha elibalulekileyo kuphuhliso lwentombazana encinci, njengoko kukhokelela ekubeni amkele iindima zesini kwaye aqonde ezokwabelana ngesondo.

UFrud wacebisa ukuba isimo sengqondo sobufazi se-Oedipus sasinamandla kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo kunokuba sasintsonkothile i-Oedipus, ngenxa yoko sasicinezelwa ngokuqatha yintombazana eselula. Oku, wayekholelwa, kukhokelela ekubeni abasetyhini bangazithembi kwaye bazithobele ngakumbi.

UCarl Jung wayandisa le ngcamango ngokuthi “yiElectra complex.” Nangona kunjalo, le ilebhile yaliwa nguFreud, owathi yayililinge lokufanisa ubunzima be-Oedipus phakathi kwesini.

Ekubeni uFrud wayekholelwa ukuba kukho ukungafani okubalulekileyo phakathi kwe-Oedipus complex kunye nesimo sengqondo se-Oedipus, akazange akholelwe ukuba kufuneka adibaniswe.

Umzekelo wendlela esebenza ngayo i-Electra complex

Ekuqaleni, le ntombazana iqhotyoshelwe kunina.

Emva koko, uyaqonda ukuba akanayo ipenisi. Uhlangabezana "nomona wobudoda" kwaye usola umama wakhe "ngokuthena" kwakhe.

Ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukuphatha umzali ngokwesondo kwaye akanako ukubamba umama wakhe ngaphandle kwepenisi, uzama ukubamba utata wakhe endaweni yoko. Kule nqanaba, ukhula ngeemvakalelo zesondo kutata wakhe.

Uba nobutshaba kunina kwaye ajonge kuyise. Usenokutyhalela kude umama wakhe okanye ajonge konke kuyise.

Ekugqibeleni, uyaqonda ukuba akafuni kuphulukana nothando lukanina, ke uyaphinda ancamathele kunina, alingise isenzo sikanina. Ngokulinganisa umama wakhe, ufunda ukulandela iindima zesini ngokwesiko.

Ebusheni, uya kuqala ukutsala amadoda angazalani naye, ngokutsho kukaFreud.

Abanye abantu abadala, utshilo uJung, banokubuyela kwinqanaba lokuzala okanye bangaze bakhule kwinqanaba lesini, bebashiya benamathele ngokwesondo kumzali wabo.

Ngaba i-Electra complex iyinyani?

Ubunzima be-Electra abamkelekanga ngokubanzi kwizifundo zengqondo kule mihla. Njengokuba kuninzi lweengcamango zikaFreud, isimo sengqondo se-Oedipus esinzima kunye neengcamango "zomona wepenisi" nazo zigxekwa ngokubanzi.

Idatha encinci kakhulu ixhasa umbono wokuba ubunzima be-Electra buyinyani. Ayisiyo isifo esisemthethweni kuhlelo olutsha lweDiagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5).

Njengoko iphepha le-2015 libonisa, izimvo zikaFreud malunga nophuhliso lwezesini ziye zagxekwa njengeziphelelwe lixesha kuba baxhomekeke kwindima yesini kwinkulungwane.

Umxholo wokuba "ngumona wobudoda" uye wagxekwa ngokukodwa njengesini. Izakhiwo ze-Oedipus kunye ne-Electra zikwathetha ukuba umntwana ufuna abazali ababini- umama notata- ukuba bakhule kakuhle, nto leyo egxekwayo njenge-heteronormative.

Oko kwathethi, kunokwenzeka ukuba amantombazana amancinci afumane umtsalane wesini kooyise. Akunjalo nje jikelele njengoFreud noJung bakholelwa ukuba kunjalo, ngokutsho kwabaninzi endle.

Ukuthatha

Ubunzima be-Electra abuseyiyo ithiyori eyamkelweyo ngokubanzi. Uninzi lweengqondo alukholelwa ukuba luyinyani. Ingakumbi ithiyori ethe yaba sisiqhulo.

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokukhula kwengqondo okanye komntwana wakho ngokwesondo, fikelela kwingcali yezempilo, efana nogqirha okanye ugqirha wengqondo yomntwana. Banokukunceda bakukhokele ngendlela enokulungisa iingxaki zakho.