Isizathu Sokuba Ndibe Nxunguphalo Emva Kokuhlola Izikolo Zangaphambi Kwezikolo

Umxholo

• Ngaba umntwana wakho ofunda kwisikolo sabantwana abafundayo ubalulekile?
• Abakhethiweyo besikolo
• I-standby endala yesikolo
• Yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo xa ukhetha isikolo sabantwana abasaqala?
• Ukuthatha

Ndiyaqonda ukuba "ukwenzakala" kunokuba yinto encinci. Kodwa ukuzingela abantwana abasaqalayo kwizikolo zabantwana bethu kwakusengumsebenzi wobusuku.

Ukuba uyinto enjengam, uqala ukukhangela kwasekuqaleni ngokutsiba kwi-Intanethi. Kuphela ngoku, ndingakucebisa ngokuchasene naloo nto.

I-intanethi yoyikisa ngokupheleleyo ekuqinisekiseni kwayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba ukukhetha isikolo esifanelekileyo kuya kwenza okanye kuphule ikamva lomntwana wakho. Akukho xinzelelo!

Ngaba umntwana wakho ofunda kwisikolo sabantwana abafundayo ubalulekile?

Kwiminyaka emithandathu eyadlulayo, akukho namnye wabahlobo bethu abasenyongweni owayenomntwana oneminyaka yesikolo. Besingenazindululo zokusihambisa kwicala elifanelekileyo. Indawo ibonakala njengendawo elungileyo ukuqala, kuba yonke i-intanethi ibindinika uluhlu lokujonga olude lweemayile zendlela yokufumana esona sikolo "silungileyo".

Oku kubandakanya izinto ezinje:

• ukuqala ukukhangela kwethu unyaka ngaphambi kokuba sikulungele ukubhalisa (besizokuyibetha lento ngeenyanga ezili-9 ezilungileyo, oops)
• ukuya kwimiboniso yasesikolweni (yithini?)
• okwangoku kwi-organic, imifuno, kunye ne-gluten-free trends kunye nokuma kwethu
• Ukufumana ikharityhulam eya kufundisa uMandarin oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala

Sixhotyiswe koku kuqonda kunye nombono ongaqondakaliyo wokuba inqaku elipheleleyo lesikolo sabantwana abasaqalayo yayingamathuba anokulinika unyana wethu ukuba achithe ixesha nabanye abantu ukuphakama kwakhe, salungiselela ukhenketho ezintathu kwizikolo zabantwana abafundayo ezintathu ezahlukeneyo.

Ababini babekhona ukusukela oko umyeni wam wayefunda kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi kwidolophu enye. Enye yayintsha kraca.

Abakhethiweyo besikolo

Isikolo sabantwana abasaqala isikolo, esitsha kraca, sasinomtsalane ukusuka kwesesibini esisiphakamisileyo.

Indawo yayihle, inendawo zokudlala ezinkulu ezibiyelweyo kuzo zonke iiklasi. Kwakukho izixhobo zokudlala ezintsha kraca kunye neziza zomyezo wobukhulu bomntwana, kunye nendawo enengca echumileyo.

Ngaphakathi, igumbi lokungenisa elinwabileyo lavumela kuphela ukungena ngaphakathi kwikhowudi, apho imizobo epeyintwe ngesandla yayikhokelela kumagumbi okufundela awahlukeneyo.

Ngamnye wayefakwe iityhubhu ezimnandi kunye neetafile ezilingana nomntwana, izitulo, neembiza. Iibhena ezinononophelo zoonobumba kunye neepowusta ezinemibala eqaqambileyo kunye neempawu ezixhonywe ezindongeni. Yayigqibelele ngokupheleleyo.

Kwaye ndayiwela, ikhonkco, umgca, kunye nesinki.

Umphathi wayexhawulana kakuhle, encumile, kunye neendawo zokuthetha.

Ootitshala bakhe babephumelele izidanga kwimfundo kunye nobuntu obukrelekrele. Babenoxanduva lokuphuhlisa ikharityhulam yabo esekwe kwizifundo. Siya kuhlala sihleli kulo lonke ixesha, enkosi kwii-imeyile zemihla ngemihla ekwabelwana ngazo ngokuqaqambileyo kusuku lomntwana wethu.

Kwiintsuku ezimbini ezinesiqingatha veki nganye, sasibhatala i-315 yeedola ngenyanga. Le yayiyinto yokubiwa kwentengiselwano ebonelelweyo kuba isikolo besisitsha.

Ndikulungele ukukhohlela imali yokubhalisa yonyaka eyi- $ 150 kwangoko nangoko, kodwa iliso lecala lomyeni wam landinqanda. Saxelela umlawuli ukuba siza kunxibelelana emva koko siqhubeke nokhenketho lwesibini ebesiludwelisile.

I-standby endala yesikolo

Isikolo sabantwana abasaqala esasibakhenkethi sasindala kakhulu. Umfazi wasibulisa kwigumbi elisekungeneni, wahamba nathi ukuya kwigumbi lokufundela lonyana wethu, wasishiya simi emnyango. Umfazi omncinci kakhulu enxibe iipyjama wayehleli phantsi, nabantwana banxibe iimpahla zokulala ezahlukeneyo abathe saa egumbini.

Ekugqibeleni utishala wasibona sibhabha ngasemnyango wema ngeenyawo. Ngelixa echazayo malunga nosuku lwepajama, ndiye ndalaqaza ukuseta: izitulo ezincinci kunye neetafile, iityhubhu, kunye neeleta ezibhalwe eludongeni. Kwakuyimbono efanayo ngokubanzi njengesikolo esithandwayo, shabbier nje.

Utitshala wakhawuleza ukuya kwikharityhulam yakhe ngokubanzi, wasinika isipho ngomxholo weveki. Usuku lwePajama bendinokulujonga, kodwa oonobumba abangakwaziyo ukubhala olu lonikezelo andikwazi. Simbulele kwaye sayikhupha ngaphandle.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, besizakonga malunga ne-65 yeedola ngenyanga ngeentsuku ezimbini ezinesiqingatha seveki apha, kodwa oku kukhathalelwa kwemini akuzukisi. Siqhubile.

Isikolo sesithathu saphinda senziwa okwesibini ngeenkolelo zonqulo kunye nexabiso eliphezulu. Oko kwasomeleza isigqibo sethu. Inombolo yasesikolweni sokuqala yayiyiyo.

Yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo xa ukhetha isikolo sabantwana abasaqala?

Intombi yethu yafunda kwisikolo esinye kwiminyaka emi-2 kamva. Ngenceba, umlawuli wandise ixabiso lamaxabiso. Ukukhawulezisa phambili eminye iminyaka emi-2, kwaye ixabiso liye lanyuka laya kwi- $ 525 ngenyanga kangangeentsuku ezimbini ezinesiqingatha ngeveki.

Sasikhe siyijonge nonyana wethu, sikhomba iityibbies ezazinomkhuluwa wakhe kunye nodade wabo omdala. Kodwa akazange abonakale ephantse wachukumiseka njengoko besinjalo. Kwaye ngesiquphe, nathi sasingekho. Umlawuli wayesekhona, kodwa ingeniso yabasebenzi yayiphezulu kuba saqala apho kwiminyaka eyadlulayo.

Kwaye ngoluhlobo, amaziko amiselweyo kakuhle kunye needigri zemasters zayeka ukusebenza. Endaweni yoko, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kuthi zibonakalisiwe, kwaye azibandakanyi ubugcisa bolwimi.

Ekwindla, sifuna ukuba unyana wethu aye kwisikolo sabantwana abasaqalayo esinekharityhulamu egubungela iziseko. Kuya kumnika ixesha elininzi lokudlala kunye nokunxibelelana noontanga kwindawo eyamkelekileyo, ngexabiso elifanelekileyo.

Sivote abahlobo ababelapho, bayenza loo nto, kwaye safumana isikolo sabantwana abangaphantsi kwama- $ 300 ngenyanga esiphawula zonke ezo bhokisi.

Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, unyana wethu wayechulumancile kukhenketho, kangangokuba sabuya saphinda sajonga okwesibini emva koko sambhalisa kwangoko ngelixa wayejonga iklasi yakhe yexesha elizayo.

Ukuthatha

Unyana wam ngekhe afumane ukutyala iitumato kwigadi yakhe yasesikolweni, kodwa singenza oko kwenzeke ekhaya.

Kwaye, andicingi ukuba uya kuphoswa nayiphina into. Uya kuhlala elungele i-kindergarten njengomntakwabo nodadewabo omdala, kwaye yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu.