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USophie Guidolin uqokelele amawakawaka abalandeli kwi-Instagram enkosi ngomzimba wakhe othotyiweyo kunye nofanelekileyo. Kodwa phakathi kwabantu abamncomayo kukho abagxeki abaninzi abahlala behlazisa umzimba kwaye bamtyhola ngokuba "ubhityile kakhulu."

"Abantu abaninzi bayayiphambanisa imifanekiso yam (nayo yonke intshontsho 'elunge') ngokuba 'lulusu,'" kubhala uGuidolin kwiwebhusayithi yakhe ephendula abo bamthiyileyo, "eli ligama endizama ngalo ukuba kude kum Ndomelele, ndibhityile kwaye ndiFIT. Andingo 'lusu.'

Umama wabantwana abane kunye nomntu okhuphisana naye ngokwasempilweni uzimisele ukuvala amarhe okuba unengxaki yokutya kuba nje umzimba wakhe uthande ukubhitya ngokwendalo.

"Amagqabantshintshi asusela ekundixeleleni ukuba nditye iburger (leyo andiyenzi mfihlo yokuba i-grill'd kukuhamba kwethu!) Ukuza kuthi kanti undifumene ndinesi sifo, utshilo. "Kwimeko yam, ndingoyena unamandla endakhe ndanakho, ndiziva ndinamandla, ndiphumelele kakhulu ngeentsuku zam, ndilala kamnandi ngamaxesha obusuku, iinwele zam zingqindilili, ulusu lwam lucacile kwaye ndilungile. Akukho kwezi nkcazo yindlela onokuthi umchaze ngayo umntu one-ED [Eating Disorder]."

Ngaphezulu kokuzikhusela, uGuidolin unethemba lokuba umyalezo wakhe uza kufundisa abantu ukuba bangabinantloni kwabanye ngohlobo lomzimba wabo. Kungenxa yokuba umntu uthembele ngokumangalisayo akufuneki anike abanye ilungelo lokucinga ukuba akufuneki batye. Wonke umzimba wahlukile kwaye usabela ngendlela eyahlukileyo ekusebenzeni nasekutyeni kakuhle.

"Ndifuna uku fundisa abantu - umahluko NGOKUPHAKAMILEYO kwaye ngokutshintsha eli bala ndiyazi ukuba ndinganceda abantu abaninzi abacinga ukuba ukuphulukana namanqatha kukuzilambisa ngokwabo njengoko zonke ezi zimvo zingafundiswanga zibonisa-okukude nenyaniso! "utshilo." Yithande imizimba yakho, yotha umzimba wakho kunye nokuzilolonga kuba kukwenza uzive umhle, ufanelekile kwaye womelele, hayi ngenxa yokuba uyithiyile indlela okhangeleka ngayo.

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