Kutheni usana lwam lushushu ebusuku?

Umxholo

• Kutheni usana lwam lunkenteza ebusuku?
• Ngaba umntwana wam uza kuphuma nini ngokuhlwa?
• Ungaluthobisa njani usana olunomdla
• Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala enerhasi, unokufuna:
• Yise kude

“Waaahhhh! Waaaahhh! ” Ukucinga nje ngomntwana okhalayo kunokwenza ukuba uxinzelelo lwegazi lwakho lukhuphuke. Ukulila ungayeki uxinzeleleke ngakumbi kubazali abatsha abanokungayazi indlela yokuyeka!

Usenokuba ulumkisiwe malunga "neyure yobugqwirha" eyoyikekayo - ngorhatya nasemva kweeyure xa usana lwakho lubonakala lungazinzanga.

Kubazali abaninzi, kubonakala ngathi iiyure zolule unaphakade. Kodwa qiniseka, umntwana wakho ayinguye yedwa obonakala engazinzanga ngokuhlwa. Ukuxakeka ebusuku kuqhelekile kwiintsana.

Abazali abatsha bafuna ukwazi: Kutheni isenzeka? Iza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani? Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uyifumana njani ukuze iyeke? Sukuba nexhala, sikudibanisile ngolwazi oludingayo ukuze uphile (kwaye ungade uthi siyaphumelela?) Ngeli xesha linzima.

Kutheni usana lwam lunkenteza ebusuku?

Oku kulandelayo kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho ngequbuliso atshone ngokuhlwa:

• Ukukhula kwendlala. Njengokuba umntwana wakho ehamba ngamanqanaba okukhula okukhulu (ukukhula okuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwiiveki ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3, iiveki ezi-6, kunye neenyanga ezi-3), banokuba balambile kwaye bafuna ukutya ngokudibeneyo.
• Ukuncipha kobisi kancinci. Ngelixa oomama abaninzi becinga ukuba umntwana ojijayo akafumani ngokwaneleyo ukuba angatya, oko kusenokungasoloko kunjalo. Okwangoku, ukwakheka kobisi lwakho kuyatshintsha ebusuku, kwaye unokufumana ukuhamba kancinci kobisi. Utshintsho kumthamo wobisi lunokulwenza usana olungemnandi.
• Irhasi. Ukuba usana lwakho luziva lukhuselekile, kwaye abanakubonakala ngathi bayaludlulisa kwinkqubo yabo encinci yokwetyisa, banokuziva bengakhululekanga!
• Umntwana ogqithisileyo. Yinto eqhelekileyo yokucinga ukuba ukugcina umntwana ephaphile ixesha elide kuya kubenza balale ixesha elide.Ekupheleni kosuku, ukuba omncinci wakho uhambe ixesha elide ngaphandle kokulala kakuhle baya kube bediniwe kakhulu. Umntwana odiniweyo uya kuba nzima ukuzinza.
• Umntwana ogqithisileyo. Inkqubo yemithambo-luvo engaphuhliswanga yosana inovakalelo ngakumbi kwizibane eziqaqambileyo, izandi, kunye notshintsho kwimeko yazo. Umzekelo, unokuqaphela ukukhanya kweTV kwigumbi elimnyama, okanye mhlawumbi ivolumu yodwa, yenza umntwana wakho akhale.
• Colic. Ngelixa zonke iintsana zikhala, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhala iiyure ezintathu okanye nangaphezulu, iintsuku ezintathu ngeveki, iiveki ezintathu okanye nangaphezulu, lixesha lokuba ubonane nogqirha! Ugqirha wezilwanyana kufuneka enze uvavanyo olunzulu ukulawula ezinye iimeko.

Ngaba umntwana wam uza kuphuma nini ngokuhlwa?

Ungaqala uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana i-fussier encinci kwiiyure zangokuhlwa xa bethe babetha iiveki ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3 ubudala. Eli xesha linokuthi lihambelane nokukhula okukhulayo kunye nokonyuka kokutya kweqela.

Kwiintsana ezininzi ukuphakama kobusuku bokuhlwa kwenzeka malunga neeveki ezi-6. Ukuba ufikelela kwelo nqanaba, bambelela ethembeni lokuba iza kuba ngcono!

Nangona kungekho xesha liqinisekisiweyo xa iintsana zingaphaya "kwexesha lokuthakatha," zihlala ziphela malunga neenyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezine ubudala.

Ungaluthobisa njani usana olunomdla

Ukuzolisa usana oluxakekileyo kunokubonakala ngathi ngumdaniso ontsonkothileyo ongasokuze ukwazi ukuwulawula. Unokufumanisa ukuba ubuchule obusebenzayo namhlanje abuzukusebenza ngomso. Musa ukoyika, nangona. Sikufumene ugqume ngeengcebiso ezininzi ukuzama ukuthomalalisa usana lwakho olunomsindo.

• Nxiba umntwana wakho. Ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokuba abantwana bearing zikhulule izandla zakho ukugqiba loo misebenzi yokuphela kwemihla, kodwa ukuba kufutshane nokubetha kwentliziyo yakho kuyathuthuzela kakhulu umntwana wakho.
• Thatha uhambo. Ayisiyiyo kuphela imeko yendawo elungileyo ukuba ilungele umntwana wakho, kodwa isingqisho sokuhamba sihlala sisitshintsha umdlalo. Ibhonasi: ukudibana nomnye umntu omdala ukuze uncokole njengoko uhamba kuya kukunceda ugcine ingqondo yakho!
• Ukunciphisa ukuvuselela. Cima izibane, unciphise imisindo, kwaye usongele umntwana wakho ukuze kube lula kwinkqubo yabo yemizwa ukuzola. Ukwenza njalo kunokukholisa umntwana wakho ukuba athathe ikhefu elifutshane lekati.
• Nika umntwana umyalezo. Ukuchukumisa yindlela entle yokuphumla kunye nokudibana nosana lwakho. Ngelixa unokubandakanya iioyile okanye iintlobo ezithile zokuchukumisa, ukuphulula kusasebenza xa kusisiseko.
• Qalisa ixesha lokuhlamba. Amanzi anokuthuthuzela kakhulu abantwana kunye nokuphazamiseka okukhulu. Nokuba bhetele, uya kuba nosana olucocekileyo emva koko!
• Thoba isandi. I-Ssshhhing, umculo othambileyo, kunye nengxolo emhlophe zonke zinokuba ziindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuthomalalisa umntwana wakho. Musa ukoyika ukuzama ukudlala iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zomculo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeemvumi. Unokumangaliswa yinto ethandwa ngumntwana wakho, kwaye inokutshintsha imihla ngemihla!
• Vary iindawo zokuncancisa. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile kwaye uhlala efuna ukondla, zama ukutshintsha indawo. Nokuba utshintsho olulula kwisikhundla sakho lunokuchaphazela ukuhamba kobisi kunye nentuthuzelo yosana lwakho.

Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala enerhasi, unokufuna:

• Chitha ixesha elongezelelekileyo usana olushushu. Ukuba umntwana wakho akabhodli emva kwemizuzu embalwa yokuzama, kulungile ukuqhubeka kwaye uzame enye into!
• Bhayisikile imilenze yabo emoyeni. Obu buchule buluncedo ukuba usana lwakho luyoqhina.
• Zama ukhetho lwe-counter-counter. Ngaphambi kokuba uqwalasele amanzi amdaka okanye amathontsi erhasi, xoxa ngezinto onokukhetha kuzo nogqirha wosana lwakho kuqala.
• Khetha iingono zebhotile ezihamba kancinci. Ngokuhlengahlengisa ukuhamba kwengono, umoya omncinci ungangena kwinkqubo yokwetyisa yosana lwakho kunye nobisi lwabo.
• Guqula ifomula yosana lwakho. Ngaphambi kokuyeka uhlobo oluthandwayo lwefomula, unokujonga ukuzama ifomula efanayo kwifomula esele yenziwe esele ilungile, enokuthi ikhokelele kwirhasi encinci kunohlobo olungumgubo.
• Zama ngokutya kwakho. Ukuba usana lwakho oluncancisayo lubonisa iimpawu zokungonwabi kwegesi kwaye uzame ezinye izisombululo kungabikho nto, kusenokuba lixesha lokucinga ngokuphelisa ukutya okuthile ekudleni kwakho. (Ukutya ekufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo kuthintelwe kubandakanya iimveliso zobisi kunye nemifuno enqatyisiweyo efana ne-broccoli.)

Yise kude

Imva kwemini kunye nokuhlwa kwangoko kunokuba ngathi kukude kakhulu ukuba unomntwana oxakekileyo. Ukuqonda oonobangela abanokubakho bokungonwabi kosana lwakho kunye nokuzama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthomalalisa umntwana wakho kuya kukunceda ugqibe ngelixa lokuthakatha. Khumbula ukuba, nayo, iya kudlula.