Uyenza njani iNdawo yakho yokuHlala ukuze ufumane ulonwabo olungakumbi

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Isitayile sangaphakathi uNatalie Walton ubuze abantu ukuba yintoni ebenza bonwabe kakhulu ekhaya ngencwadi yakhe entsha, Eli liKhaya: UbuGcisa bokuphila ubomi obulula. Apha, wabelana ngeziphumo zakhe ezimangalisayo malunga nento ekhokelela kwimvakalelo yokunxibelelana, edibeneyo, kunye nokuzola.

Kwincwadi yakho, ujolise ekuchukumiseni nakwiinkcukacha ezenza abantu bazive bonwabile kumakhaya abo yayinomdla kakhulu. Ngaba ufumene nayiphi na imisonto eqhelekileyo?

Kuyaphawuleka ukuba into eyonwabisayo abantu yayikukuphela kwezinto ababezishiyile njengoko zazinjalo kwizinto ababebambelele kuzo. Akukho namnye kumakhaya abo owayegcwele izinto. iziqulatho zazinembali kunye nentsingiselo- umzobo owenziwe lilungu losapho okanye umhlobo, okanye into ethengwe ngeholide. Umsebenzi wobugcisa unganomdla okhethekileyo. okanye inokusikhumbuza ngexesha elithile ebomini bethu. "

(Idibeneyo: Izibonelelo zoMzimba kunye neNgqondo zokuCoca nokuCwangcisa)

Kubonakala ngathi wonke umntu ukwi-Marie Kondo minimalism yokukhaba.

"Kusoloko kuthethwa kakhulu malunga nokuchithwa. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyazuza xa sibambelela kwizinto ezizodwa. Omnye umfazi endandidlana indlebe naye wathenga hammock xa wayeneminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye esebenza eVenezuela. Ngelo xesha wayecinga ukuba ngenye imini Unokuba nendawo entle enelanga yokuxhoma le hammock, akazange abe nayo loo nto de kwaba malunga neminyaka engama-20 kamva, ngoku uyixhoma ebhalkhoni kwigumbi lakhe lokulala. - sisikhumbuzo sohambo lwakhe lobomi. "

(Idibeneyo: Ndizamile indlela kaMaria Kondo yokuDibanisa kwaye yaTshintsha uBomi bam)

Uninzi lwabantu obudliwanondlebe nabo bathethe ngokubaluleka kokukhanya emakhayeni abo, okanye bahombisa iindawo zabo ngezinto zendalo. Kutheni ucinga ukuba abantu baphazamisa umgca phakathi kwangaphakathi nangaphandle?

"Ukuba kwindalo akuzange kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa siphila kwihlabathi elixhumene kakhulu. Kunqabile ukuba sibe nomzuzu wokuzola okanye ukuzola. Sinokuzisa indalo ekhaya lethu, nangona kunjalo, kwaye siyamkele njengendlela yokuziva ukukhululwa okuthile. .Indalo lunyango lwezifo ezininzi zala maxesha, kwaye ayihlawulelwa.Ndiyazenzela.Ikhaya lam linefestile ezininzi ezijonge imithi.Ndithe xa ndingena ndenza yonke into yam yangaphakathi.Imithi mihle xa uyijongisisa kodwa iphinde ixakeke ngokubona. "Bendingafuni ukuba ingaphakathi ikhuphisane nembono."

(Idibeneyo: Izibonelelo zezeMpilo zokuNxibelelana neNdalo)

Ndiphinde ndachukunyiswa yindlela abantu abaninzi ababesithi indawo abayithandayo kwikhaya labo yindawo ababehlanganisana kuyo usapho nezihlobo zabo. Kutheni ucinga ukuba kunjalo?

"Sizizidalwa zentlalo. Kufuneka sidibanise omnye nomnye. Izindlu zethu ziyindawo efanelekileyo yokuba sihlangane kwaye sabelane ngamava. Senza umoya wekhaya xa sivula umculo, sibeka iintyatyambo kwimiboniso, ukwabelana ngokutya. Ezi zezo Ngamanye amaxesha senza ubomi bube nzima.Ukuba indlu ayicocekanga okanye ayicocekanga ngendlela ebesingathanda ukuba ihlale ngayo, asifuni kuhlala abantu.

Ndithi, ndwendwela abahlobo ngaphandle egadini okanye kwidesika okanye kwibalcony. Okanye yenza nje abantu esidlweni sangokuhlwa, cima izibane phantsi, ukhanyise namakhandlela — akukho mntu uya kuqaphela. Kwangaxeshanye, njengoko kubalulekile ukwenza izithuba [apho abantu banokudibana khona], ikwangumbono olungileyo ukuba neendawo ezizolileyo zokurhoxa kuzo. Indawo engenantlitheko. Ukukhanya kwendalo okanye impepho efudumeleyo ihlala inceda. Yigcine ilula kodwa inomphefumlo. "

Imagazini yoBume, uDisemba ka-2019

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