UJanet Jackson uthi 'wakhala phambi kwesipili' ngaphambi kokuba oyise imiba yomfanekiso womzimba wakhe.

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Kweli nqanaba kwincoko yomzimba, kufanele ukuba kucace gca ukuba wonke umntu ujongana nemicimbi yomzimba-ewe, nkqu nakubantu abadumileyo behlabathi abanomkhosi wabaqeqeshi, abezondlo, kunye nezitayile abanazo. (Kwaye ayisiyiyo apha kwimicimbi yemifanekiso yomzimba yase-US yingxaki yamanye amazwe.)

UJanet Jackson, umama omtsha kunye nomama oneminyaka engama-52 ubudala osele echithe phantse bonke ubomi bakhe esebenza kwindawo ebonakalayo, uyavuma ukuba ujonge esipilini kwaye wakuthiya ukubonakalisa kwakhe. “Ndandizijonga esipilini ndize ndiqale ukulila,” watsho kudliwano-ndlebe naye InStyle ipapashwe kule veki. "Andizange ndiyithande loo nto ndandingenamdla. Andizange ndithande nto ngam."

Kodwa emva kokuchitha ixesha elininzi egxeka umzimba wakhe, utyhile ukuba ufunde lukhulu ngomfanekiso womzimba-kwaye uzikhusele naye. "Uninzi lunxulumene namava, ukuguga. Ukuqonda, ukuqonda ukuba akukho nto enye ithathwa njengento enhle, "watsho. "Intle iza ngazo zonke iimilo, ubukhulu, kunye nemibala." (Idibeneyo: UJanet Jackson uQeqesha abaNtu ngendlela amncede ngayo ukuba angene kweyona Milo yoBomi baKhe.)

Kulungile, kodwa wenze njani ngokwenene ufike kuloo ngqondo esempilweni? UJackson wabelane ngesicwangciso sakhe sokufunda ukuthanda umzimba wakhe inyathelo elinye ngexesha-kwaye luhlobo oluqaqambileyo. "Kwafuneka ndifumane into endiyithandayo emzimbeni wam, kwaye kwakunzima ukuba ndiyenze. Ekuqaleni, andizange ndifumane nto kodwa ndafumana inxeba lokuthandana nomqolo wam omncinci," watsho. "Kwaye emva koko ndafumana ezinye izinto."

UJackson ukwathe unyango lwamnceda ukuba afike kwindawo esempilweni, kunye nomzimba wakhe kunye nempilo yakhe yengqondo. “Ukukhula nokuba kweli shishini…kwakufuneka ube nobungakanani obuthile. Kwakufuneka ubhitye ukuze ube ngumonwabisi…Oko kunokukungcolisa ngokwenene,” watsho. "Ndaya kunyango, eyayikukufumana loo nto uyithandayo ngawe." (Eyeleleneyo: Kutheni wonke umntu kufuneka azame unyango ubuncinci kanye)

Isifundo: Ngamanye amaxesha ukufunda ukuthanda umzimba wakho kuqala ngokukhetha nje into encinci, engaqhelekanga kunye nokuyeka loo mbewu ikhule. Inokuba yinkqubo ecothayo, kodwa kulungile.

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