Iingcebiso ezingama-28 zokukufumana kwiMood yeSesh yakho elandelayo yeSondo

Umxholo

• Ayisiwo wonke umnqweno ozenzekelayo
• PSA: Imvume yehlombe ihlala ifuneka
• Cwangcisa ukungena kwimood
• Cwangcisa umhla wesondo ngeveki
• Yama kwimfundo enqwenelekayo
• Yiya kwindawo yokubaleka emnandi
• Gcina ixesha lokujika omnye nomnye
• Jonga iithoyi zesini ezinxitywayo
• Thumela umyalezo ngefowuni!
• Yakha ulindelo ngezinye iindlela zokuyila
• Ukuxinezeleka kunye
• Yoga
• Ukuphefumla
• Camngca
• Thatha ishawa okanye ibhafu
• Sombulula nayiphi na imbambano
• Cwangcisa imood
• Yenze umdlalo
• Akukho zandla
• Qengqa into efayo
• Khetha ikhadi, naliphi na ikhadi
• Uyahamba, ndiyahamba
• Yizisa izixhobo ezincedisayo
• Jonga iphonografi yeaudio
• Bukela iphonografi kunye
• Yenza isilo ngamazwi
• Flip incwadi yamahlaya
• Umgca wezantsi

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ayisiwo wonke umnqweno ozenzekelayo

Zenza ngantoni ii-vibrators, ii-iPhones, kunye nee-oaster ze-toaster? Ungazivula ngocofa iqhosha. Umzimba wakho, fam, awukho kolo luhlu.

UJill McDevitt, ugqirha wezesondo ongumhlali waseCalExotics uthi: "Iimuvi eziphambili kunye nomabonwakude zenza kubonakale ngathi ngumnqweno ozenzekelayo - apho uvulwe ngesiquphe okanye ngokungacwangciswanga -

"Kwaye ngelixa kusenzeka ngokuqinisekileyo-ngakumbi ekuqaleni kobudlelwane-ayisiyiyo kuphela indlela elungileyo yesini elungileyo okanye esempilweni.

Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabantu lufumana into ebizwa ngokuba "ngumnqweno ophendulayo."

“Kulapho ke umnqweno wokuba neentlobano zesini ufika njengesiphumo ngabom ukusebenzisa inkanuko yesini okanye yomzimba njengokuncamisa, ukuphulula, ukufunda inkanuko, okanye ukubukela iphonografi ukuze ungene kwiimvakalelo, ”utshilo.

Apha ngezantsi, iingcebiso ngokuziguqula ngabom-kunye neqabane lakho, ukuba unayo.

PSA: Imvume yehlombe ihlala ifuneka

U-Alicia Sinclair, umphathi we-COTR, ​​Inc., umvelisi we-COTR, ​​Inc. b-Vibe, Le Wand, kunye neCowgirl.

"Ukuba elinye iqabane lithi 'hayi' okanye ukubuyela emzimbeni kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ezo zinto ukuze uyeke ngokungathandekiyo, utshilo.

Ukungaphumeleli ukuyeka xa iqabane lakho lingavumi ngenzondelelo hayi ukuba neentlobano zesini. Kukuhlaselwa.

Cwangcisa ukungena kwimood

Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukwabelana ngesondo okucwangcisiweyo kukuchasana nokwabelana ngesondo okuhle, cinga ngendlela ekuyoba mnandi ngayo kwi-lace yakho, ii-briefs, okanye i-binder xa iqabane lakho likukhulula - ngokuchasene neembethi-manqindi ezisebusuku okanye iipanty.

Cwangcisa umhla wesondo ngeveki

Kucacile kungcono Imizuzu engama-60 kwikhalenda yakho kube kanye ngeveki yomhla wokuziphatha ngokwesondo.

"Isitshixo kukugcina ukuzibophelela ekuhloleni umzimba wakho kunye nomzimba weqabane lakho ngendlela ogcina ngayo umnxeba wasemsebenzini okanye wokuqeshwa kweenwele," utshilo utitshala wezesondo uSarah Sloane, obeqeqesha iiklasi zokudlala ngesondo kwiGood Vibrations nakwiPleasure Chest ukusukela ngo200l .

I-FYI, eli phupha lisebenza kwisini sedwa, naso. Ishedyuli ehleliweyo.

Yama kwimfundo enqwenelekayo

Cwangcisa usuku kwivenkile yakho yesini. Yiya ukurekhoda bukhoma kukaTina Horn "Kutheni Abantu Benza Oko ?!" ipodcast. Yiya kwiMyuziyam yoSondo. Zimanye nomsitho wokubalisa amabali ngenkanuko.

USinclair uthi: "Kubudlelwane bezesondo bexesha elide, ukudala imo entsha kunye nokutsha kunokuba umahluko phakathi kokuvulwa kunye nokuziva ngathi wenza umsebenzi," utshilo uSinclair.

Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwenza oku kukuya kumnyhadala ojolise kwisini kwaye ubone ukuba yeyiphi i-convos kunye nomdla ovela emva koko, utshilo.

Yiya kwindawo yokubaleka emnandi

Ikwaziwa njengeholide… apho usabelana ngesondo.

Ayikokufaka uxinzelelo kuwe ukuze ufumane. Imalunga nokuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka emsebenzini / abantwana / izilwanyana zasekhaya / abazali.

Ukuba ugqiba i-bang-a-langing, ilungile! Omnye umntu uza kuhlamba amashiti ane-lube! Ukuba akunjalo, akukho biggie, uya kuxhamla kwi-QT.

Gcina ixesha lokujika omnye nomnye

Ukuphinda phinda: Imizimba yabantu ayijiki ngotyilo lweqhosha. Loo nto ithatha ixesha.

Jonga iithoyi zesini ezinxitywayo

Ngokufanelekileyo, ezo zinokuza nolawulo olukude.

"Zama ukuba neqabane elinye elinxibe i-vibrator, njenge-Lock-N-Play Panty Teaser yiCalExotic, enokulawulwa liqabane lakho ngeremote," ucebisa watsho uMcDevitt.

"Ukwakhiwa kuya kuba nokuxhumela omnye komnye xa ufika ekhaya."

Thumela umyalezo ngefowuni!

Cinga ngendlela HTO enokulindela ngayo iseshoni yokuthumela umyalezo ngefowuni. Ngaphambi kokuba uye kubona iqabane lakho, lixelele kanye le nto ufuna ukuyenza kubo.

Eminye imigca yokuboleka:

• "Andikwazi kulinda ukukhotha ecaleni komphetho wakho…"
• “Ndihlala ndicinga ngendlela obukhe wajonga ngayo xa bendiqala ukucofa kuwe kwiveki ephelileyo…”
• “Ngokuhlwanje ndifuna ukukuva uncwina igama lam lisemlonyeni wam…”

Yakha ulindelo ngezinye iindlela zokuyila

Ezinye iingcebiso ezivela eSinclair:

• Shiya inqaku elinika umdla kwiqabane lakho.
• Hlanganisa iimpahla zangaphantsi ezikhethekileyo kwindawo apho iqabane lakho liya kuyibona.
• Sebeza into emdaka ezindlebeni zabo ngaphambi kokuba uye emsebenzini.
• Yiyothenga izixhobo zokubopha okanye izinto zokudlala zesondo kunye (kwaye mhlawumbi uxelelane ngeendlela ongathanda ukuzisebenzisa!).

Ukuxinezeleka kunye

Utshaba lwakho lwe-libido kusenokwenzeka ukuba ungoyena mntu uhlala ekunye: uxinzelelo. Bust ezinye zoxinzelelo ngezi ndlela zilandelayo.

Yoga

Ewe i-yoga ikuluhlu! Yindlela yoxinzelelo, emva kwayo yonke loo nto. Ngapha koko, inja ejonge ezantsi yinkqubo elungileyo yesitayile senja…

Olunye ukhetho: Zama i-yoga ye-tantric, esisiseko seyoga yenyama.

Ukuphefumla

TBH, awazi yinyani ukusondelelana de udibanise ukuphefumla kwakho kunye nokuphefumla nge-boo's inhales kunye ne-exles.

Camngca

Ziqhelise ukwenza imizuzu embalwa yokucamngca ukucoca ingqondo yakho ngaphambi kokuba ubandakanyeke kutshintshiselwano ngesondo, cebisa uMcDevitt.

“Musa nje ukwenza imeko yesini injongo yokunciphisa uxinzelelo, kuba iya kubuya umva. Ukuthi, 'Ndidinga ukucamngca ukuze ndingabikho koxinzelelo kwaye ndifuna isondo' yindlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokuzikhathaza nangakumbi, utshilo. Yaziwe!

Thatha ishawa okanye ibhafu

Ubushushu obuhlaziya izihlunu. Isiliphu semvelo sesepha kulusu lwakho. Imizimba ehamba ze. Ewe, ishawa kunye nokuhlamba zilungele ukuvula.

Injongo ayisiyokwabelana ngesondo kwindawo yokuhlambela, ukuphelisa uxinzelelo, ngokwasenyameni. Kodwa (!) Ukuba enye into ikhokelela kwenye, ungalibali ukusebenzisa i-lube.

Sombulula nayiphi na imbambano

USinclair uthi: "Isini esifanelekileyo sesokwabelana ngesondo apho kukho ingcaciso ecacileyo, ethe ngqo kunye nokungafihlisi phakathi kwamaqabane."

"Kwaye ukuba uyalwa, uyacaphuka, okanye ukhathazekile neqabane lakho, kunokubangela ukuba ubeke iindonga zakho phezulu, nto leyo ingeyiyo imeko efanelekileyo yokuziphatha okanye imeko yokudlala eyonwabisayo."

Ukuhamba kwakho: Nxibelelana, unxibelelane, kwaye unxibelelane ngakumbi ukuze usombulule (kwaye mhlawumbi ulandele).

Ndiziva ndinomsindo, ndikhathazekile, okanye ndicaphukile ngokwakho inokuthintela i-libido yakho.

Zama ukushicilela, ukuthetha ngayo nomnye umntu (umhlobo, ugqirha, umthandi), okanye ujike kwezinye iindlela zokuzinakekela.

Cwangcisa imood

USinclair uthi: "Indawo ekungqongileyo ngamanye amaxesha inokuba yeyona nto iphambili ekuphumeni kwisimo sengqondo esibi kwaye ungene kwisini.

Zama ukucoca indawo yakho yokwabelana ngesondo, ucime izibane, ukhanyise ikhandlela lakho olithandayo, udlale umculo othambileyo, ubeke isitya sokutya se-aphrodisiac (okanye ibha yetshokholethi), okanye uvule umboniso bhanyabhanya owamkelekileyo we-R.

Yenze umdlalo

Yintoni efana ngesondo kunye nemidlalo? Bobabini bayonwabisa. Kunye kufana nolonwabo x10.

Akukho zandla

Unokumanga. Yiyo leyo! Akukho kutsala kweenwele, ukubamba ingono, ukuqhula ngomnwe, ukubamba ibhola, okanye ukubetha i-bum kuvunyelwe.

Umntu wokuqala ukusebenzisa izandla zakhe kwaye achukumise omnye umntu uyaphulukana.

Ukuhamba kwakho: Sebenzisa amazinyo akho, ulwimi, kunye nemilebe ukuluma, ukuncancisa, ukuncamisa, kunye nokukhotha umlomo weqabane lakho ngesingqi esonwabisayo abanokukunceda kodwa ukukutsala.

(Ukuba awucingi ukuba oku kushushu, ngokucacileyo awubonanga fave yomntu wonke ILizwi Isibini uCarmen kunye noShane bayidlala kwisizini yesi-2, isiqendu 3.)

Qengqa into efayo

Ewe, iidayisi zesini- onokuzifumana kwi-Intanethi- inokuvakala ngathi i-corny AF, kodwa ishushu kakhulu.

Qengqa idayisi kwaye bakuxelele ukuba ulume, umunce, ukhothe, ubethe okanye uwaphuze amaqabane akho, i-clit, iqhude okanye umlomo.

Ukuba wena neqabane lakho niyikink kunye ne-BDSM, unokuzama ukuseta okugxile kwikink.

Khetha ikhadi, naliphi na ikhadi

Emva koko, yenza oko ikuxelela ukuba ukwenze. Ukusukela kwisini somlomo ukuya ekuhlambeni ngomnwe ukuya ekumungeni umnwe kunye nokuhlala kobuso, amakhadi ezesondo ayonwabisa kwii-duos ezikwiimowudi zokungena kwimood. Thatha iseti ekwi-intanethi.

Uyahamba, ndiyahamba

"Lo msebenzi ungowokudlala uMnikeli emva koko udlale iReceiver," ucacisa uSinclair.

Qala ngokumisela isibali-xesha. Ngexesha elimiselweyo (njengemizuzu engama-30), uMniki-mphathi uya kuchukumisa uMamkeli naphina kwaye nangona angathanda ukuchukunyiswa, eqala ngokuthinta abantu abangathandani nabo. Xa ixesha liphelile, tshintsha.

"Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokujolisa ekunikezeleni nasekufumaneni ukonwaba, nokuthetha ngezinto eziziva zilungile ngaphambi kokuba kuqale isini," utshilo.

Yizisa izixhobo ezincedisayo

Endaweni yokuya kwi-0-to-O (yi-zero ukuya kwi-orgasm), kutheni ungasebenzisi amehlo kunye neendlebe zakho ukuseta imood?

Jonga iphonografi yeaudio

"I-erotica ethethiweyo efana neDipsea kunye neAurore yindlela entsha emnandi yokuzisa intelekelelo kunye nomfanekiso-ngqondweni kumava," utshilo uSinclair.

Cue it on your phone on the way back from dinner kunye nesandla bae enye yeendlebe.

Bukela iphonografi kunye

Ukuba wena okanye i-boo yakho nithanda ukubukela iividiyo ngexesha lenu, kutheni ungazibuki kunye? Kwezinye iifilimu ezinobungqingili, ezesondo, jonga i-FourChambers okanye iBellesa.

Kushushu: Ukuvula ifilimu engamanyala kwaye ujikeleze iscreen ukuze uve iindlebe, ukugcuma, kunye ne-mews ngasemva (iCrashPadSeries inezinye kakhulu i-vids ezele zizinto ezi-sexy).

Yenza isilo ngamazwi

Ayimangalisi into yokuba ukufunda ngabantu ababelana ngesondo kunokuba shushu. Tsala ibali ukusuka kwiLiterotica okanye iSyuk Butch yeziKronike kwaye ulifunde ngokuvakalayo kwi-boo yakho.

Flip incwadi yamahlaya

Abafundi ababonwayo ngaphambili! USinclair uthi: "Iinoveli zemizobo kunye neencwadi ezihlekisayo, ezinje ngeFantagraphics, yindlela yokucinga kunye neyonwabisayo yokujonga izinto ezintsha zesini sakho."

Umgca wezantsi

Iphilile ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye iqhelekile ukuba kuthatha umsebenzi omncinci ukufumana imo yesini. Kukho, njengoko kubonisiwe ngasentla, ngceo yeendlela zokwenza njalo.

Kwakhona, kulungile ukuba awukwazi ukungena kwimood! Ungaze uziva unyanzelekile ukuba wabelane ngesondo ukuba awufuni.

Izitho zakho zangasese kunye neminye imimandla erogenous ayisiyiyo "sebenzisa 'em okanye ilahle' em" imeko- ziya kuhlala zikhona xa ukunye, okanye unexesha lokungena, imood.

UGabrielle Kassel ngumbhali wezesondo kunye nowezempilo waseNew York kunye noMqeqeshi oMgangatho weCrossFit. Uye wangumntu wakusasa, wavavanywa ngaphezulu kwe-200 vibrators, watya, wanxila, wahlanjwa ngamalahle- konke egameni lobuntatheli. Ngexesha lakhe lokuphumla, unokufunyanwa efunda iincwadi zokuzinceda kunye neenoveli zothando, ukucofa ibhentshi, okanye ukungqungqa. Mlandele phambili I-Instagram.