Udlala njani kunye nosana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa: Iimbono ezi-7 zokuDlalwa kwabantwana

Umxholo

• Uqala nini ukuba nexesha lokudlala nosana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa?
• Izimvo zexesha lokuzalwa komntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa
• Ixesha lokujongana
• Yonwaba ngelixa usonga
• Yolula, unyawo, kunye nokukitaza
• Danisa nam
• Funda ngokuvakalayo
• Cula iculo
• Thatha ikhefu
• Yise kude

Umzekeliso ngu-Alyssa Kiefer

Rhoqo, ngezo ntsuku zokuqala zobuntwana, phakathi kokondliwa kunye notshintsho kunye nokulala, kulula ukuzibuza "Ndenza ntoni ngalolu sana?"

Ngokukodwa kubanakekeli abangaqhelananga okanye abangonwabanga kwisigaba esisandul 'ukuzalwa, indlela yokugcina usana lusonwabisa kungabonakala ngathi ngumceli mngeni otyhafisayo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto-ungayenza ntoni nyhani umntu ongakwaziyo ukujonga, ukuhlala yedwa, okanye ukunxibelelana ngeengcinga zakhe?

Kulula ukuyibetha ngoyaba into yokuba ukubhencwa kwabo emhlabeni ngokulinganiselweyo kuyinzuzo. Yonke into intsha kwaye inokubangela umdla, ukubandakanya ukudlala kwimisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla kunokuba lula. Kwaye abafuni imidlalo enzima okanye amabali anengqiqo - bafuna nje ubukho bakho kunye nokuqwalaselwa.

Uqala nini ukuba nexesha lokudlala nosana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa?

Ukususela kumzuzu wokuqala ubambe usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa uthatha inxaxheba kwiimvakalelo zabo. Bajonge ebusweni bakho, balive ilizwi lakho, kwaye baziva ubushushu besikhumba sakho. Olu nxibelelwano lulula ikukuqala nje kwento enokubalwa njenge "dlalayo" kwiintsuku zokuqala ezisandula ukuzalwa.

Kwinyanga yokuqala okanye kungabonakala ngathi umdla womntwana wakho ubukhulu becala umiselwe kukutya, ukulala, kunye nokungcungcuthekisa. Kodwa usenokuthi uqaphele ukuba bayaphakama kwaye bajike iintloko zabo zijolise kwilizwi eliqhelekileyo okanye bazame ukujonga amehlo abo kwinto yokudlala xa uyiluma okanye uyikhwaza.

Kunganzima ukucinga, kodwa kwinyanga yesibini banokubamba iintloko zabo xa zibekwe kwisisu ukuba bajonge. Kwaye kwinyanga yesithathu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubone uncumo oluqhubekayo kwaye uve izandi ezibonakala ngathi zizame ukunxibelelana nawe.

Ngelixa bengakwazi ukukuxelela ngamagama ukuba bahleli kamnandi, kungenzeka uqaphele iimpawu zokuba umntwana wakho ukulungele- kwaye unomdla- kwixesha lokudlala yonke imihla. Ngelixa bechitha ixesha elininzi belele (kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala umntwana wakho uya kuba elele iiyure ezili-14 ukuya kwezi-16 suku ngalunye) uya kuqala ukubona amaxesha apho bevukile kwaye bethe qwa, kodwa bezolile.

Ngala maxesha xa besamkela ukusebenzisana ungaqala ukuzibandakanya kwimidlalo ethile elula kunye nemisebenzi.

Izimvo zexesha lokuzalwa komntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa

Ixesha lokujongana

Ixesha lesisu liyacetyiswa kuzo zonke iintsana, kodwa kuhlala kungamkelwa kakuhle ngabathathi-nxaxheba abasasebenza kulawulo lwezihlunu kunye nokulungelelanisa okufunekayo ukuphakamisa iintloko.

Kwinto eyahlukileyo, beka umntwana esifubeni sakho kwaye uthethe nabo okanye ucule iingoma. Xa ilizwi lakho libakhuthaza ukuba baphakamise iintloko zabo, baya kuvuzwa ngokujonga ngoncumo lwakho. Ukuqhagamshelana ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nokusondela kunokwenza ixesha lesisu ngamava amnandi kuye wonke umntu.

Kwaye ngelixa ixesha lesisu lisenokungabi lelona xesha balithandayo, yinto ebalulekileyo yemihla ngemihla kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa, ezihlala zichitha ixesha labo zihleli. Omnye umphengululi wophando waqaphela ukuba indawo ekuyo usana luchaphazela amandla abo okunxibelelana nehlabathi kwaye, ke, luchaphazela ukukhula kwabo.

Yonwaba ngelixa usonga

Ukuhlamba iimpahla. Amathuba kukuba, uhlamba impahla eninzi kunye nencinci endlwini. Ixesha olichitha usenza lo msebenzi linokuba lixesha olichitha nosana lwakho. Yiza nengubo okanye ibassinet kufutshane ngelixa usebenza ekubambaneni imfumba yeempahla.

Inkqubo yokusonga iimpahla inokuvuselela izivamvo - imibala yeehempe, ukungxama komoya xa unyikinya itawuli, umdlalo ofunekayo wepeekaboo xa uphakamisa kwaye ulahla ingubo. Kwakhona, ungathetha nosana njengoko uhamba, malunga nemibala, imibala, kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezinto ezahlukeneyo. (Yiva le ngubo ithambileyo. Jonga, yihempe katata eblue!)

Yolula, unyawo, kunye nokukitaza

Beka umntwana ngengubo uze ubancede bahambe. Bamba ngobumnene izandla zabo ngelixa ususa iingalo zabo, uye ecaleni, kwaye ujikeleze. Nika ezo nzwane zithandekayo ucofe kancinci kwaye uhambise imilenze yazo (le ikwalungele nabantwana be-gassy!). Ukuthanjiswa ngobumnene kunye nokukrakra ukusuka ezinyaweni zeenyawo zabo ukuya phezulu kwentloko yabo kunokunika ulonwabo kuni nobabini.

Eli lixesha elihle lokwazisa iithoyi ezilula. Ukukrala, into yokudlala ethe kratya, okanye isipili esingenakuqhekeka zonke iindlela ezilungileyo. Babambe ngokusondeleyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana wakho ajolise, uthethe ngento oyenzayo, kwaye ubanike ithuba lokufikelela kunye nokuchukumisa izinto ngelixa udlala.

Danisa nam

Njengaye nawuphi na umzali oye wanyikima kwaye waqhuqha kwaye waqhuba kwizangqa unokukuxelela, iintsana ziyayithanda intshukumo kwaye ziyayifumana iyathuthuzela. Unako ukuhlala uzala umntwana ezandleni zakho, kodwa lo ngumsebenzi apho ukugqoka umntwana kusebenza kakuhle.

Beka ezinye iishuni kwaye ukhe okanye ufeze umntwana wakho omncinci. Ungadanisa kwaye ujikeleze kwigumbi lokuhlala, kodwa unokusebenza ngamanye amaxesha ukulungisa indlu okanye wenze iifowuni ngelixa ushukuma kunye ne-groove kunye nomncinci wakho.

Funda ngokuvakalayo

Okwangoku, usana lwakho alunakufuna ukuba ufunde "iHop on Pop" ngexesha lama-34,985. Bathanda nje ukuva ilizwi lakho. Ke ukuba uthe walala emva kwexesha kunye nesikhova sakho esincinci sasebusuku kwaye unomdla wokufunda inqaku ngobuthongo obusandul 'ukuzalwa, yenze njalo.

Ingakumbi malunga nokunyuka - indlela oyithetha ngayo - kunokuba kungumxholo - into oyithethayo. Ke funda nantoni na oyithandayo, funda nje ngokuvakalayo. Ukufunda kwangoko kwaye rhoqo kuboniswa ukukhuthaza ukukhula kwengqondo, ukonyusa isantya sokuqhubekeka, kunye nokwandisa isigama.

Cula iculo

Nokuba kukuzola ngexesha lokulala okanye yirockin encinci ukuya kuLizzo emotweni, qhubeka uyibhinqe. Usana lwakho aluzukugweba i-pitch yakho; Zithanda isandi selizwi lakho.

Le nayo iza iluncedo xa uchwechwela kwindawo yokuhlambela nosana oluxakekileyo olulinde ngokungapheliyo. Yizisa isitulo seentsana kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye ubeke ikhonsathi ye-impromptu ngelixa uhlamba ishampu.

Thatha ikhefu

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube "uvuliwe" ngalo lonke ixesha lokuvuka kosana lwakho. Njengabantu abadala abanokuxhamla kwixesha lokuphumla, iintsana zifuna ibhalansi yokukhuthaza kunye nexesha elithe cwaka lokuqhubekeka kwendalo.

Ukuba usana lwakho luvukile kwaye lwanelisekile, kulungile ukuba ubaxhome esibhedlele okanye kwenye indawo ekhuselekileyo ngelixa ufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo.

Yise kude

Ngelixa abanakho ukwenza okuninzi bebodwa, usana lwakho lonwabile ngalo lonke ixesha abalichitha nawe.Namaxesha amancinci achithwe ukwenza ubuso obuhlekisayo okanye ukucula imirholo yabantwana kunokunceda ukukhuthaza ukukhula kunye nokubandakanya umntwana wakho.

Sukuba nexhala lezinto zokudlala ezintle okanye izixhobo: Yonke into oyifunayo kukudlala nosana lwakho nguwe!