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Owu, onjani umahluko owenziwe ngukume! Kwaye akukho namnye owaziyo ukuba ungcono kune-Alyssa Bossio. Le Nzalelwane yaseNew York eneminyaka engama-23 ubudala kutshanje yenze i-splash ngokuthumela umfanekiso wayo enxibe i-bikini evuselelayo ... engakhange ibukeke inomtsalane. Ngokwesiqhelo, ujongeka eqinile, enziwe ngebala, kwaye ethotyiwe, kodwa kumfanekiso ongezantsi, unokubona zonke iziphene kunye nokungafezeki okuqhele ukufihlwa ngama-engile amahle kunye nokukhanya okufanelekileyo.

Kwaye uyenzile ngabom, njengenxalenye yedemo yangaphambili nasemva kokubonisa abafundi bakhe kanye into ehambayo ekwenzeni zonke ezo foto zibukeka zintle zibukeka zisempilweni sizibona ziskrola kwiifidi zethu yonke imihla. Inqaku: Akukho nto izama ukuyenza!

U-Bossio waqala ukusebenzisa i-Instagram kwiminyaka emine eyadlulayo njengendlela yokulandela uhambo lwakhe olusempilweni kodwa wakhawuleza wafumana abanye befuna ukuphefumla kancinci. Umxube wakhe we-snaps omangalisayo, ukusebenza ngokuzilolonga, kunye neengcebiso zokutya okunempilo kumfumene oku kulandelayo kwezigidi eziyi-1.6 (phakathi kwakhe @FittLyss kunye @ how2mealprep akhawunti). Uye waqonda ukuba uyakuthanda ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nabantu kwaye enze impembelelo entle ebomini babo ngokusebenzisa amajelo osasazo oluntu, ngoko ke umntu othanda ukomelela wagqiba kwelokuba ajike ukuthanda kwakhe abe ngumsebenzi wexesha elizeleyo. (Kodwa lumka: Ayisiyo yonke "into efanelekileyo" yezithuba ze-Instagram ezikhuthazayo.)

Kodwa ngelixa enokuhlala onke amaphupha e-Insta, ayizizo zonke iiplanga ezinelanga kunye nokunxiba ngokukhululekileyo koyilo. Umsebenzi omninzi ungena kuyo yonke imifanekiso ayithumelayo-inyani uvule kakhulu ngayo.

"Abantu bacinga ukuba ndinomzimba omangalisayo kuzo zonke i-engile ezinokubakho, kwaye oku kukude nenyani," utshilo.

Sukuyenza impazamo, unomzimba ofanelekileyo ngendlela engathethekiyo, uzotywe kukusebenza ngamandla kwesekethe mihla le kunye nokutya okucocekileyo. Kodwa umzimba omkhulu awukwenzi kube lula ukufumana umfanekiso omhle, kwaye uyakuvuyela ukuphalaza iimfihlo zakhe malunga nokufumana loo shot igqibeleleyo. "Imifanekiso yam ayifane ifane nokuthathwa," uyavuma. Ukuqala, utyale imali kwikhamera yobuchwephesha, endaweni yokuxhomekeka kwifowuni yakhe, kwaye uzama ukuthatha zonke iifowuni zakhe kusasa xa engakhange adumbe. Emva koko uthatha phakathi kwe-50 kunye ne-100, eyahlulahlula ukuma kwakhe rhoqo. Nje ukuba ekhethe eyona ayithanda kakhulu, usebenzisa ii-apps ezahlukeneyo zokuhlela kunye nezihluzi ukuze azenze zibe pop.

Konke kusitsho, kuhlala kumthatha malunga neyure ukufumana enye, i-Instagrammable shot. Ayizizo zonke izithuba zakhe ngeli xesha elinomdla nangona kunjalo, njengoko eza kuposisa isidlo okanye iifoto zenkqubela kubalandeli bakhe, ongeze ukuya kwi-2 okanye kwi-3 ngosuku. Elinye ixesha lakhe eliphambili lotyalo-mali: umzimba wakhe, njengoko enjalo, ngokuyimfuneko, yimveliso yakhe. Ke uchitha malunga neyure ngosuku kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kunye neyure eyongezelelweyo elungiselela ukutya okuphilileyo kathathu ngosuku.

Ngumsebenzi omninzi kodwa kufanelekile, utshilo. Ayikokufumana umfanekiso omhle nje kuphela, kodwa yindlela aluthengisa ngayo uphawu lwakhe kwaye aziphilise. Ukuqala kwakhe kwakhe, wamkela iintengiso kwaye wahlawula inkxaso, kodwa ngoku uthi wenza yonke imali yakhe ngokuthengisa izikhokelo zakhe zeeveki ezisi-8 zokuzilolonga nokwenza imodeli yokomelela kweenkampani ezisecaleni. Izikhokelo, utsho, zezona zinto zimenza onwabe-uyila ezisekwe ekusebenzeni kwakhe kwaye, kuba usafunda ukufumana iziqinisekiso zoqeqesho lobuqu, ziye zavavanywa ngummeli weSizwe seMidlalo yoNyango lwezeMidlalo ukuqinisekisa zikhuselekile kwaye ziyasebenza. (I-PS yakho ye-Gym Selfies inokuthi ngokuNene ikuncede ukuba wehlise ubunzima.)

Kodwa konke oko kugqibelela kunokuza nexabiso. UBossio uthi uziva enoxinzelelo lokuphila ngokugqibeleleyo ngomfanekiso oboniswe kwiifoto zakhe, ngakumbi xa wayeqala ukumodareyitha kwi-Instagram. “Ndineentsuku apho ndingenamdla kwaye ndingafuni ukuzilolonga okanye ukutya ukutya okusempilweni, kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndibaphoxa abantu,” uyachaza. Kodwa ufundile ukuba kulungile ukuba uyeke ngamanye amaxesha kwaye ubonise icala lakhe lomntu-kwaye abantu bakufumanise oko kukhuthaza njengombulali wakhe wokuzilolonga. “Ndifuna abantu bazi ukuba kulungile ukuhlela imifanekiso yakho logama nje uzithembile ukuba ungalungiswanga nabani,” uyongeza.

"Ngenye imini i-waitress yam yandiphakele ipleyiti yeefries kwisidlo sakusihlwa kwaye wayefana, 'Yima ... awungu @Fittlyss?!'" uyabelana. "Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ngendiziva ngathi kufuneka ndizichaze ngokwam ngokutya okungenampilo, kodwa ndikhululeke ngakumbi ukuba ndingubani kwaye ndonwabile kuba ndide ndafumana ukulingana nale ndlela yokuphila."

Yile ntsalela azama ukuyithengisa ngoku kunokugqibelela. "Bendihlala ndicinga ngakumbi ngokutya kwabanye abantu kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba nobomi babo, kodwa umfanekiso phantse awukhange ubonakale," utshilo. (Ezinye iinkwenkwezi ze-Instagram ziye zavula malunga nokuba kukude kangakanani ukutya kwazo kwinyani.) "Ekupheleni kosuku, akunandaba nokuba ukhangeleka njani, yonke into ebalulekileyo yindlela oziva ngayo," utsho. “Soloko uzenza eyona nto iphambili kuwe kuba nguwe kuphela umntu okuwe wena. Akufuneki uxhomekeke komnye umntu okanye kuyo nantoni na ukuze wonwabe.

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