Le Iskra Lawrence iNtetho yeTED iyakutshintsha indlela ojonga ngayo uMzimba wakho

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Imodeli yaseBritane uIskra Lawrence (ungamazi njengobuso be #AerieReal) unike nje intetho yeTED ebesiyilindile sonke. Uthethe kumsitho we-TEDx weDyunivesithi yaseNevada ngoJanuwari malunga nomzimba kunye nokuzikhathalela, kwaye yiyo yonke into okhe wafuna ukuyiva ngokuzithanda kwakho.

I-Iskra ayiqhelekanga ekuthetheni phandle malunga nokuqina komzimba. Sele esivulele malunga nokuba kutheni wonke umntu kufuneka ayeke ukumbiza ngobukhulu, edibene ne-StyleLikeU yevidiyo eluhlaza, yokwenyani ethi "Yintoni engaphantsi", kwaye wahluba waya kwisikhephe sakhe kumgaqo ongaphantsi komhlaba we-NYC egameni lesizathu.

Uqala intetho yakhe ye-TEDx ngesihloko ngento elula kodwa ehlala ihoywa: "Olona lwalamano lubaluleke kakhulu esinalo ebomini bethu lulwalamano esinalo nathi, kwaye asifundiswanga ngalo."

Kuzo zonke izinto esizifunda esikolweni okanye kubazali bethu, ukuzinakekela yinxalenye ekhohliweyo yekharityhulamu yobomi; mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba amajelo asekuhlaleni, athi u-Iskra abize "sisixhobo sokutshabalalisa abantu abaninzi ukuzithemba kwethu," yimpembelelo entsha enjalo kodwa enamandla kwimpilo yethu yengqondo neyeemvakalelo. Nokuba ujonge i-Instagram ekhuthazayo ngononophelo okanye iifoto ezibhengeza iimpahla zakho ozithandayo, u-Iskra ugxininisa ukuba kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ayisiyiyo ngokwenene-Uyavuma ukuba iifoto zakhe ziye zaphinda zaphinda zaphinda zaphinda zathathwa kangangokuba usapho lwakhe alumazanga. "Mna ngekhe ijongeke ngoluhlobo, kwaye ndim, utshilo. "Ayilunganga."

Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba umfanekiso womzimba wawungadlalwanga ngaphambi kwe-Instagram: "Ndiyazi, xa ndandisemncinci, bendizakujonga esipilini yonke imihla kwaye ndiyithiye into endiyibonileyo," utsho u-Iskra. "Kutheni ndingenasikroba sethanga? Kutheni ingathi eli thanga lidle elinye?"

Uqhubeka echaza uhambo lwakhe lokuzithanda, kunye nento azama ukuyenza ukusasaza intshukumo yothando-njengokusebenzisana noMbutho weSizwe wokuPhazamiseka kokuTya kwinkqubo yokucebisa kwisikolo esiphakamileyo ebizwa ngokuba yiProjekthi yeQumrhu. ibonakaliswe ukunciphisa ukungoneliseki komzimba, isimo sengqondo esibi, ukufakwa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, ukutya okungenampilo, kunye nokutya okungekho mthethweni phakathi kwabathathi-nxaxheba abakwishumi elivisayo kunye nabaququzeleli abadala.

I-Iskra inokuba ibubuso bokulunga komzimba, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ukhuselekile kwiintsuku ezimbi. Wabelana ngamaqhinga amabini okomeleza ukuzithemba okumnceda ukuba asete kwakhona kwaye akhumbule ukuba kutheni ewuthanda umzimba wakhe kanye ngale ndlela uyiyo: umceli mngeni wesipili kunye noluhlu lombulelo.

Umngeni wesipili Kulula njengokuma phambi kwesipili uze ukhethe 1) izinto ezintlanu ozithanda ngawe, kunye 2) nezinto ezintlanu ozithandayo malunga nomzimba wakho. yenza yeyakho.

Uluhlu lokubulela yinto u-Iskra asandul' ukuzisebenzisa kwigumbi lokunxiba levenkile yempahla (anyanzelisa ukuba yindawo apho "iidemon zakho zangaphakathi zilinde ukukugqogqa").Gcina uluhlu lwezinto onombulelo ngazo-nokuba zisentloko yakho, kwi-iPhone yakho, okanye kwincwadana-ukukunceda ukukubuyisela kumfanekiso omkhulu kwaye uchithe naziphi na iingcinga ezimbi onazo malunga nomzimba wakho okanye ngenye indlela.

Mbukele i-TEDx yakhe epheleleyo Thetha ukuze ufumane ulwazi olupheleleyo malunga namava akhe kunye namaqhinga amabini amenza adlule kwezona ngxaki zinzima zomfanekiso womzimba. (Kwaye uzame ezi ezinye iindlela zokuziqhelanisa nokuzikhathalela.)

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