I-#JLoChallenge ikhuthaza oomama ukuba babelane ngesizathu sokuba babeke phambili impilo yabo

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Awuwedwa ukuba ucinga ukuba uJennifer Lopez kufuneka abe ngamanzi e-là Tuck ngonaphakade ukujonga lonto ulungile kuma-50. Ayisiyomama we-AF ezimbini kuphela, kodwa ukusebenza kwakhe okumnandi kweSuper Bowl kunye no-Shakira kwangqina ukuba uyakuhlala enguJenny waseBlock (funda: en fuego).

Kutshanje, i Hustlers Umdlali weqonga wabelana ngefoto yakhe kwibhikini yomtya omhlophe ekhangeleka yomelele kunakuqala. “Uphumle kwaye utshajiwe kwakhona,” watsho phantsi kweposi. (I-BTW, nantsi indlela uJ. Lo kunye no-Shakira bayilungiselela ngayo indlela yokusebenza kwabo kwemihlathi.)

Ephefumlelwe ngumfanekiso, uMaria Kang, umsunguli we "fit mother community" Akukho zizathu zoMama, wagqiba ekubeni alinganise umfanekiso kaJ. Lo kunye ne-bikini selfie yakhe. Injongo Kang? Ukusasaza ubume bomzimba kunye nokukhuthaza oomama ukuba babelane ngendlela abasebenza nzima ngayo ukubeka phambili impilo yabo, ngaphandle kobundlobongela noxinzelelo lobomi babo. (Idibeneyo: Ama-Moms aFanelekileyo aBelana ngeendlela eziBalulekayo kunye neNyaniso ezenza ixesha lokuSebenza)

"Enkosi @ jlo ngokukhuthaza le pic ngokuzenzekelayo kwi-bikini emhlophe ngale ntsasa," ubhale ecaleni kwe-selfie yakhe. U-Kang wongezelela ukuba yena, "ayingosaziwayo. Ukungafumani izigidi ukuba zibukeke kakuhle kwi-movie (hello, Hustlers!). Okanye ukuthandana nembaleki eshushu (nangona umyeni wam emhle!) KODWA, akunamsebenzi..."

"Libali lakho, uqhubeke." "Yenza uxanduva lwakho. Sukuzithethelela ngokungasebenzi kwakho. Ukuba [J. Lo] angayenza, ukuba ndingayenza, ukuba amawaka oomama abasebenza abeza ngobukhulu, iimilo, kunye nobudala bangayenza-- emva koko UYAKWENZA !!!"

U-Kang wagqiba indawo yakhe ngokukhuthaza abalandeli bakhe ukuba babelane ngee-selfies zabo zokuhlambela kwaye bazibandakanye kwinto awayeyibiza ngokuba yi # jlochallenge. Ithemba lakhe yayikukugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuthanda umzimba wakho kuwo onke amanqanaba obomi kunye nokubeka imbonakalo kubasetyhini bemihla ngemihla "abawuzisa njengoJ.Lo."

Kule veki iphelileyo, umyalezo kaKang uye wahlangana namakhulu abasetyhini abaphefumlelweyo ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kumceli mngeni, beqonda ukuzixabisa kwabo, bebhiyozela imizimba yabo, beqhwabela izandla izinto ezintle (njengokuzalwa komntwana) ezibenzileyo bona namhlanje. (BTW, ngaba ujoyine iqela le- # MyPersonalBest Goal Crushers kuFacebook?)

Umhlohli wokuqina komzimba u-Bily Bean, umzekelo, uthumele ifoto ebhala ukuba "kwiminyaka engama-32 emncinci" eneentombi ezintathu kunye nomyeni, ukhuthazekile ukuba ahlale esempilweni yosapho lwakhe. “Ndifuna ukuba lapho kusapho lwam kwaye andikwazi ukuyenza loo nto ukuba andikho ngcono,” wabelana ngesihloko. "Abantwana bam ayizizo izizathu zam, zizizathu zam. Ukuba yimicimbi esempilweni kusapho lwethu kwaye kufanelekile ukuba ibaluleke kuye wonke umntu. Yonwaba kwaye uziphathe ngo # thando no # khathalela." (Eyeleleneyo: Ufundo luthi uMsebenzi nje omnye unokuphucula umfanekiso womzimba wakho)

Umama wabantwana abane, uLina Harris, kwelinye icala, wabelane ngokuba ukubeka phambili ukomelela kwakhe kuba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokukhathalela kwakhe. (Eyeleleneyo: Njani Ukuzikhathalela Ukuchwela Indawo Kwishishini Lokuqina)

"Ndihlala ndizama konke okusemandleni ukuba ndicele umngeni kulo mzimba ukuba womelele kwaye usempilweni hayi kubafana bam kuphela kodwa nangenxa yokuba indenza ndizive ndiphila," ubhale watsho. "Andazi ukuba ndakuze ndoneliseke kodwa kulapho iyakuhlala indityhala MNA ukuba ndilwe nangakumbi nokuba ndiwile, ndiza kuzikhetha ngokwam. Yiba nobubele kuwe uhlale uthobekile."

U-Blogger u-April Kaminski naye wabelana ngefoto yakhe enamandla, eguqula izihlunu zakhe kwi-bikini ebomvu. "Ndim lo," wabhala kwi-caption yakhe. "I-44 ayifumaneki kwiinyanga ezi-2. Abantwana abahlanu abamangalisayo (kwaye hayi abancinci kangako) bavela kulo mzimba (19, 17, 15, 8 & 6) kwaye ngumsebenzi wam kunye nenjongo yam yobomi bexesha elide. Ukuba lapho ubomi okoko nje ndinako, ndingenazintlungu, ndomelele, ndonwabile kwaye ndiphilile. "

Okokugqibela, omnye umsebenzisi we-Instagram, uJennifer Dillion, wabelana nge-selfie ye-bikini ngalo myalezo ulandelayo. "Yiminyaka eyi-34," wabelane. "Lo mzimba wawuthwala abantwana abathathu kwaye ngoku lo mzimba uvuka nge-4: 30 kusasa yonke imihla ukuzilolonga phambi kokuba wonke umntu avuke kwaye ukuqhutywa kweveki kuyaqhubeka. Lelona xesha kuphela ekufuneka ndiyenzile ukuze ke yenziwe." (Eyeleleneyo: Olunjani usuku eBomi njengoMama oMtsha ~ Ngokwenene ~ Kubonakala ngathi)

Ukusukela oko umngeni wakhe uye waya kwintsholongwane, uKang uye wafunda abalandeli bakhe kwaye wavuyisana nabo ngokubhiyozela impumelelo yabo kunye nokukhuthaza abanye endleleni. "Ukuba unezizathu ozoyisileyo okanye ozamayo ukoyisa namhlanje, umhlaba ufuna ukukubona," ubhale watsho ngeposi.

Ucacisile ukuba oomama bemihla ngemihla "abanonopheli, abasebenzi abasisigxina, abanemiceli mngeni yemfuza, abadala, abancinci, abancinci, abancinci, abancinci" bafanelwe yikhredithi ngokuchasa izizathu zabo, ngakumbi kuba ayinguye wonke umntu onemithombo efana noJo.Lo. "Ihlabathi lifuna ukunibona NONKE ukuze sikwazi ukuqhelanisa ukuba kujongeka njani ukuzingisa okunempilo kunye nokuzimisela emntwini [ophakathi]." (Idibeneyo: Aba bafazi babonisa ukuba kutheni #LoveMyShape Movement is So Freakin 'Empowering)

UKang emva koko waqukumbela umyalezo wakhe ocacileyo ngokwabelana ukuba unamandla kangakanani xa uninzi lwabasetyhini bemihla ngemihla bengaxolanga bewola imizimba yabo. "Xa unegunya lokuposa kwi-selfie yakho yangasese kunye nobomi bakho bokwenyani, uyabomeleza abanye," ubhale watsho. "Xa unesibindi sokwabelana ngebali lakho, ibali lakho liyabakhuthaza abanye. Xa uphuma kwindawo yakho yentuthuzelo kwaye uzithanda esidlangalaleni, ngokungazi unika abanye imvume yokuzithanda nabo."

Yintoni eyaqala njengenye i-bikini selfie edumileyo, i-#jlochallenge iye yaba sisikhumbuzo esigqibeleleyo sabasetyhini ukuba bazinike ikhredithi apho kufanelekile. Iipropu eziphambili kuKang ngokukhuthaza abantu basetyhini ukuba bayamkele imizimba yabo kwaye bafumane ukuzithemba endleleni.

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