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Umxholo

• Uyakunyuka uye kuMngeni
• Uya kuyifumana iSwagger yakho
• Uya kuba Nethamsanqa ngakumbi
• Uphengululo lwe

Ndiyazingca ngobomi bam obuzele luthando, kodwa inyani kukuba, kwiintsuku ezininzi, ndisebenza kwi-autopilot. Sonke senza njalo. Kodwa unokuguqula olo lwazi lube lithuba lokwenza utshintsho oluncinci olunempembelelo enkulu kwimini yakho. Ndiphulaphule: Ndakhe ndanxiba i-teeny entsha, iimpahla zangaphantsi ze-lacy ezazisisipho-ayisiyiyo le ndiyithandayo. Ukuthi ewe xa bendisoloko ndisithi hayi kundenze ndaziva ndikhululekile kwizinto. Ndithathe iklasi yeyoga endingazange ndiyizame. Ndafumana iti eneziqhamo endaweni yeAmericanano yam.

Ndothuka ndabathanda bobabini. Ngoku uyazama. Ingcamango enye: Khetha umqolo wangaphambili kwiklasi yakho yokomelela komzimba (apha: inkcazo yokuba kutheni kufanelekile), emva koko uyijonge itshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo.

Uyakunyuka uye kuMngeni

Kukho inqanaba lokuphendula xa uphambi kunye neziko. Ndiyakuthembisa, ndisazi ukuba umhlohli kunye nabanye abantu abasemva kwakho banokubukela kuthetha ukuba uya kusebenza nzima nangcono. Kwaye umzamo wakho unokukhuthaza omnye umntu ukuba enze okufanayo.

Uya kuyifumana iSwagger yakho

Xa uphuma apho, uyokonwaba kwaye uzithembe- ndifuna ukuba usebenzise loo mandla kusuku lwakho lonke. Yityumze intlanganiso yakho yomsebenzi. Qhagamshelana nabahlobo ngeziselo kamva. Sebenza naliphi na igumbi ongena kulo. (Zama ezi zikomeleza ukuzithemba.)

Uya kuba Nethamsanqa ngakumbi

Njengam, mhlawumbi nawe upheka izinto ezifanayo ngaphandle kwesiqhelo. Qhubeka, zama kancinci. (Kuthekani ngenye indlela yekofu yakho yemihla ngemihla?) Izinto ezitsha zokungcamla zinokwandisa inkalakahla yakho kwaye zikunike iimbono zokuphinda uqalise izinto ezindala ozithandayo. Uya kubona ukuba kuninzi kakhulu apho onokuthi uzame-kwaye nangakumbi unako ukupheka!

Uphengululo lwe