UJessie J Uvula Ngokungakwazi Ukuba nabantwana

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Abasetyhini abaninzi bebethetha malunga nobudlolo ukunceda ukunciphisa ibala-kwaye owasetyhini wamva nje ukuza ngaphambili ngemizabalazo yakhe yimvumi uJessie J. Kwikonsathi ephambi kwamawakawaka abantu, uthathe umzuzwana ukuxelela abalandeli bakhe ukuba anganako. ungaze ube nabantwana. (Inxulumene: Yintoni i-Ob-Gyns enqwenela ukuba abantu basetyhini bazi malunga nokuchuma kwabo)

“Ndaxelelwa kwiminyaka emine eyadlulayo ukuba andinakuze ndibe nabantwana,” utshilo kwividiyo efakwe ngumlandeli ku-Instagram. "Andikuxeleli bafo ngovelwano kuba ndingomnye wezigidi zabasetyhini kunye nabesilisa abaye bahamba ngale nto kwaye bazakuhamba koku." (Ngaba uyazi ukuba inani lamaqanda kuma-ovari akho alinanto yakwenza namathuba akho okukhulelwa?)

I-ICYDK, malunga neepesenti ezili-10 zabasetyhini basokola ngobudlolo, ngokutsho kweOfisi yase-US kwiMpilo yabaseTyhini-ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo yinto efanelekileyo ukuba nencoko evulekileyo malunga. Singasathethi ke, elo nani lilindeleke ukuba linyuke njengoko umyinge wobudala bokuzala ukhula. Ngo-2015, iipesenti ezingama-20 zabantwana zazalwa ngabasetyhini abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala, ubudala apho umgangatho weqanda uyancipha ngokuphawulekayo. Ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba abafazi abaninzi baya kulwa nemiba yobudlolo kwaye bafune ezinye iindlela zokuba nabantwana. (Idibeneyo: Iindleko eziPhakamileyo zokungabikho komntwana: Abafazi basengozini yokuchithwa koMntwana)

Kwabo bafazi, uJessie wabanika amazwi enkxaso kwaye wabelana ngengcebiso. "Ayinakuba yinto esichazayo, kodwa bendifuna ukuzibhalela le ngoma ngexesha lam lentlungu nosizi kodwa nokuzinika uvuyo, ukunika abanye abantu into abanokuyimamela ngalo mzuzu xa ifika Inzima kakhulu, utshilo. "Ke ukuba ukhe wahlangabezana nayo nantoni na ngale nto okanye ubone omnye umntu edlula kuyo okanye wafelwa ngumntwana, ndicela wazi ukuba awuwedwa kwintlungu yakho kwaye ndicinga ngawe xa ndicula le ngoma."

Kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, zaqhekeka iindaba zokuba uJessie uqalile ukuthandana noChanning Tatum, othathe ku-Instagram wabelana ngenkxaso yakhe kwintombi yakhe. "Lo mfazi uvele waphalaza imbilini yakhe eqongeni eRoyal Albert Hall," ubhale watsho. "Nabani na okhoyo apho wazokubona into ekhethekileyo. Wow."

Ukuba oko akukuniki konke ukuziva, akukho nto iya kuyenza.

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