Ukubaleka kwamnceda njani uKaylin Whitney ukuba amkele ubuni bakhe

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Ukubaleka bekusoloko kukuthanda uKaylin Whitney. Le mbaleki ineminyaka engama-20 ubudala isophula iirekhodi zehlabathi ukusukela xa yayineminyaka eli-14 kuphela kwimisitho yolutsha yeemitha ezili-100 kunye neemitha ezingama-200. Xa wayeneminyaka eli-17 ubudala, wayeka ukufaneleka kwakhe kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo (kunye ne-NCAA) ukuba ajike, waphumelela iimbasa zegolide ezimbini kwiMidlalo yePan Am, kwaye ngoku ujonge iphupha lakhe lokukhuphisana kwi-Olimpiki.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, nguye ngokwenene ulungile kwimidlalo yakhe. Kodwa uWhitney ukwabile ukubaleka kwakhe ngokumnika ukuzithemba ukuba anguye-nokuba oko kwakuthetha ukuma ngaphandle kwesihlwele.

"Ukukhula njengomntwana, bendihlala ndikhuthele ngokwenene, kodwa umkhondo yayingowokuqala kwezemidlalo endakha ndawudlala ngokukhuphisana. Ibisondele entliziyweni yam ukusukela oko kuba nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bam, okanye engqondweni yam, ukubaleka bekuhlala apho,” utshilo uWhitney Imilo. (Eyeleleneyo: Ukubaleka Kundincede Njani Ukoyisa ingxaki yam yokutya)

UWhitney wayesazi ukuba eseyintombazana encinci ukuba isazisi sakhe sihlukile kunabahlobo bakhe kwidolophu yakhe encinci yaseFlorida eClaremont, utshilo. Wayesazi kwangethuba ukuba akafuni "ukuchitha amandla akhe ngokuba yinto awayengeyiyo," ngoko waphuma waya kusapho lwakhe esekwishumi elivisayo, utshilo. "Ngelixa ngokuqinisekileyo yayinemvakalelo kwaye ikhathazekile, ndandisazi ukuba usapho kunye nabahlobo bam bazakundithanda nokuba kunjani, ke andinanto ngaphandle kwezinto ezintle endinokuzithetha ngesigqibo sam sokuphuma ndisebancinci kangaka, utshilo. (Idibeneyo: Indlela amaBrand owathandayo abhiyozela ngayo ukuzingca kulo nyaka)

Oko akuthethi ukuba izinto bezihlala zihamba kakuhle kuWhitney. Kwakukho amaxesha apho asokolayo kwaye azive elilolo-kodwa kulapho ke ukubaleka kungena khona. "Yayingulo manyano undidibanisileyo nehlabathi, utshilo. "Yaba yindawo yam yokuphuma. Yayiyindawo enye endaziyo ukuba ndingaba yi-100 yepesenti yaseKaylin kwaye akukho mntu uza kuthetha nantoni na ngayo. Ngalo lonke ixesha ndifika kumzila, ndandisazi ukuba ndinikela ngako konke, njengawo wonke umntu. ngenye indlela-kwaye ndingayenza loo nto ixesha nexesha kwakhona. " (Idibeneyo: Uyenza njani iNgcaciso yakho yokuZithemba kwiiNqanaba ezi-5 ezilula)

Ukwamkelwa kunye nenkxaso ayifumeneyo ngomkhondo kunye noluntu ekuhlaleni luye lwamnceda uWhitney waqonda ukuba akukho lucalucalulo lunokuchaphazela ukuzithemba kwakhe okanye ukumgcina ephantsi. Kumava am, ukuba yi-LGBTQ kwezemidlalo kuyinto efana nayo nayiphi na into, utshilo. "Kwaye ndiyayibona isiya ibangcono kwixesha elizayo." (Idibeneyo: Ezinye ii-Breweries zibhiyozela inyanga yokuziqhenya nge-Glitter Beer)

Ukwabelana ngamava akhe nehlabathi, uWhitney wagqiba kwelokuba abhiyozele iNyanga yeQhayiya ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Iimbaleki ezixhaswe nguNike- noRed Bull zigqibe kwelokuba zibaleke ngeRainbow Tunnel eBirmingham, Alabama-into ethetha lukhulu kuye ayisiyiyo kuphela umntu ozazisa kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ kodwa njengomntu oxubeneyo, utshilo. Ndicinga nje ukuba yindawo ebonakalayo ukuba ibekho kule nyanga, utshilo. "Yayiyindlela yam ukuhlonipha abantu ababelwela, kwaye baqhubeka nokulwela, ukulingana."

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Ngaphandle kokuba yi-20 kuphela, uWhitney ngokuqinisekileyo ngumntu omncomayo xa kufikwa kumba wokuba nesazisi sakhe kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kwabo banokuba nengxaki yokwenza okufanayo, uthi: "Kufuneka nje ube nguwe. Ekupheleni kosuku, bubomi bakho kwaye kuya kufuneka wenze nantoni na eyonwabisayo. Ukuba uxhomekeke kwabanye abantu izimvo okanye iingcinga ngawe, awusoze waneliseke. "

Wongezelela ngelithi: “Xa uqala ukuphila ubomi bakho uze wenze izinto ezikwenza wonwabe, kulapho uqala khona ukuphila.” Khange sivumelane ngakumbi.

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