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Umxholo

• Ndifike Njani Kule ndawo
• Indawo yam yokuTshintsha
• Uhambo lwam lokuBuyela kuMzimba kunye noThando loMzimba
• Uphengululo lwe

Ndavala ucango lwehotele olusindayo emva kwam ndaza ngoko nangoko ndaqalisa ukulila.

Bendisiya kwinkampu yabafazi eSpain-ithuba elingakholelekiyo lokuzihlola ngelixa ndingena kwi-Ibiza entle, enelanga-kodwa enesiqingatha seyure ngaphambili, besinomsebenzi weqela apho siye sakhuthazwa ukuba sibhale ileta evulekileyo umzimba wethu, kwaye awuhambanga kakuhle. Ngaphezulu kwekhosi yemizuzu engama-30 yokuzivocavoca, ndiyeke konke ukuphuma. Lonke unxunguphalo ebendiluva kwezi nyanga zimbini zidlulileyo malunga nomzimba wam kunye nokuzeyisa kunye nokwehla kwesantya endiziva ndingenako ukusilawula kwaphuma ephepheni, kwaye bekungemhle.

Ndifike Njani Kule ndawo

Ukusuka ekujongeni ngaphandle (funda: Instagram), kwakubonakala ngathi ndiphila ubomi bam obumnandi ngelo xesha kwaye, kwinqanaba elithile, ndandinjalo. Ndimalunga neshumi leenqwelomoya ezingene kwi-2019, ndihambahamba kwihlabathi liphela ndisuka eParis ndisiya eAspen ndenza into endiyithandayo njengombhali wempilo ezizimeleyo kunye nomxholo weengcali zodliwanondlebe, kuvavanya iimveliso ezintsha, ukwenza umsebenzi kunye nokurekhoda iipodcast. Kwakukho nobusuku obumbalwa obude e-Austin, uhambo oluya kwi-Super Bowl endiza kulukhumbula ngonaphakade, kunye neentsuku ezimbalwa zemvula eLos Angeles esele ziphantsi kwebhanti lam kunyaka omtsha.

Nangona ndikwazi ukugcina umthambo oqhubekayo wokuzilolonga ngelixa ndihamba, ukutya kwam kwaba yingxaki. Itshokholethi eshushu ene-ayisi khrim kwindawo "omele uzame" eParis. In-n-Out Burger ekufikeni kwakhe eSan Francisco kusuku olungaphambi kwe-10K ePebble Beach. Izidlo zakusihlwa zase-Italiya zilungele ukumkanikazi onee-aperol spritz cocktails ezininzi.

Ngenxa yoko, incoko yam yangaphakathi yayiyingxaki. Sele ndikhungathekile malunga neekhilogram ezili-10, ukunika okanye ukuthatha, okwakundidibanise nohambo lwam, le leta eya emzimbeni wam yayiyi-straw yokugqibela.

Ngaphakathi kuloo leta kwakukho umsindo omkhulu kunye neentloni. Ndandihlekisa ngokuvumela ukutya kwam kunye nobunzima ukuba kude nokulawula. Ndandinomsindo ngenani esikalini. Ukuzithetha kakubi kwakukwinqanaba elandenza ndaziva ndineentloni, kodwa ke ndaziva ndingenawo amandla okumelana noko. Njengomntu owayekhe waphulukana neeponti ezingama-70 ngaphambili, ndayiqonda le ngxoxo yangaphakathi inetyhefu. Inqanaba lokukhungatheka endalivayo eSpain yayiyindlela endandiziva ngayo unyaka wam omtsha wekholeji ngaphambi kokuba ndilahlekelwe bubunzima. Ndandisonganyelwe yaye ndibuhlungu. Ndalala phantsi ngobo busuku, ndityhafile engqondweni nasemzimbeni.

Indawo yam yokuTshintsha

Ukuvuka kwam ngosuku olulandelayo, nangona kunjalo, bendisazi ukuba kufuneka ndiyeke ukuzixelela ukuba "ngomso" iya kuba lusuku lokujika kwezinto. Ngaloo mini, okokugqibela e-Ibiza, ndenza isithembiso kum. Ndizimisele ukubuyela kwindawo yokuzithanda.

Bendisazi ukuba olu tshintsho luqinisekileyo kufuneka lube ngaphezulu kokuntywilisela iimvakalelo zam kwimitsi emide yentsasa. Ngoko, ndenze izibhambathiso ezimbalwa:

Isithembiso # 1: Ndiqinisekile ukuba ndithatha ixesha ekuseni ukubhala kwincwadi yam yokubulela. Imizuzu nje embalwa kula maphepha yayanele ukundikhumbuza ngezinto ebomini endinombulelo ngazo, kwaye ukutsiba lo msebenzi kwenza kwalula ukuba intetho enetyhefu iphinde ingene.

Isibhambathiso #2: Yeka ukusela kakhulu. Yayingeyonto yotywala kuphela indlela elula yokukhupha iikhalori ezingenanto, kodwa yayidandathekisa kancinane kuba ndandingenasizathu silungileyo sokuba. ngoba Ndizibone sendisela kakhulu. Ke, ukuba bendisazi ukuba ndiza kuphuma kunye nabahlobo, bendizokusela, emva koko nditshintshele emanzini, nto leyo endivumele ukuba ndikhumbule xa ndikhetha isiselo esinye. Kuthe kusenjalo, ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ukuthi hayi kwiiglasi zam ezine zeMalbec akuthethi ukuba andinakukwazi ukonwaba. Ukufumanisa oko kwandinceda ukuba ndiphephe nayiphi na ihlazo elijikelezayo ngosuku olulandelayo kwaye ndizive ndilawula ngakumbi izigqibo zam.

Isibhambathiso #3: Okokugqibela, ndafunga kwijenali yokutya. Ndisebenzise i-WW ukubuyela ekholejini (eyayingabalindi ngexesha elinye), kwaye nangona bendingasoloko ndilandela ngempumelelo inkqubo yenqaku, ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba imeko yokupapashwa iluncedo olukhulu ekunciphiseni kwam ubunzima bam nakwimbono yam ekutyeni. Ukwazi ukuba kuya kufuneka ndibhale phantsi into endiyityileyo kwandinceda ukuba ndenze ukhetho olulumkileyo kwimini yam yonke kwaye ndijonge izinto endizifaka emzimbeni wam njengenxalenye yomfanekiso omkhulu wempilo. Kum, ukushicilelwa kokutya ikwayindlela yokulandelela iimvakalelo zam. Isidlo sakusasa esikhulu ngokungaqhelekanga? Mhlawumbi bekufanele ukuba ndilale ngakumbi phezolo okanye bendikwi-funk. Ukulandela umkhondo kundincede ndahlala ndiziphendulela kwimeko yam kunye nendlela ekuchaphazele ngayo ukutya kwam.

Uhambo lwam lokuBuyela kuMzimba kunye noThando loMzimba

Kwiiveki ezine kamva, ukuba bendinokubhalela umzimba wam loo leta ngoku, ibiya kufundeka ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ubunzima obukhulu buye basuswa emagxeni am, kwaye, ewe, ndilahlile ubunzima bam, nabo. Kodwa nokuba akukho nto ngam itshintshile emzimbeni, bendizakuziva ndiphumelele. Khange ndithule umgxeki wam wangaphakathi. Endaweni yoko, ndamguqula waba yinkqubo yenkxaso yangaphakathi eyakhayo, ephakamisayo. Uyandixabisa ngalo lonke ukhetho olundenza ndibenguye kwaye ndibhetyebhetye kwaye ndinobubele kum xa ndishiya imikhwa esempilweni endiyibekileyo.

Uyazi ukuba indlela yokuthanda wena wonke ayilula, kodwa xa kunzima ndiyakwazi ukuyijika.

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