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Umxholo

• Imigraines inzima kubantu abadala, kodwa xa abantwana beyifumana, kunokuba nzima. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, imigraines ayisiyongxaki nje kwaye ayisiyiyo nje "intloko ebuhlungu." Bahlala bephelelwa ngamandla.
• Ukuziva ubukele ukubukela umntwana wakho esentlungwini
• Ayisoloko ingumba wamayeza okanye unyango
• Iziphumo ze-Ripple kwimfundo yabantwana, ubomi, kunye nempilo
• Khumbula: Ayilotyala lakhe nabani na

Imigraines inzima kubantu abadala, kodwa xa abantwana beyifumana, kunokuba nzima. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, imigraines ayisiyongxaki nje kwaye ayisiyiyo nje "intloko ebuhlungu." Bahlala bephelelwa ngamandla.

Nantsi into uninzi lwabazali kunye nabantu abane-migraines abafuna ukuyibeka ngokuthe ngqo: Imigraines ayisiyiyo nje kuphela intlungu yentloko. Zibangela iimpawu ezongezelelekileyo zesicaphucaphu, ukugabha, uvakalelo lweemvakalelo, kunye nokutshintsha kwemood. Ngoku khawufane ucinge ngomntwana ohamba kanye ngenyanga, ngeveki, okanye yonke imihla- ngamava amahle. Kwaye ngaphezulu kweempawu ezibonakalayo, abanye abantwana banokukhulisa uxinzelelo, bahlala besoyika ukuba olunye uhlaselo olubuhlungu lusondele kwikona.

Kubantwana, akukho lula njengokuphuma kwipilisi. Uninzi lwabazali, abangafuni nto ngaphandle kweyona ilungileyo kwaye isempilweni emntwaneni wabo, bafuna ukunqanda amayeza. Ngapha koko, ihlala iyinto yokugqibela abazali abafuna ukuyinika ngenxa yeziphumo ebezingalindelekanga, nokuba zezethuba elide. Okushiya umbuzo… bangenza ntoni abazali?

Ukuziva ubukele ukubukela umntwana wakho esentlungwini

Intombi ka-Elizabeth Bobrick yaqala ukuba ne-migraines xa yajika i-13. Intlungu yayimbi kakhulu intombi yakhe yayiqala ukukhala.

"Imigraines ngamanye amaxesha inento ebangela ixhala- umntwana wethu uyenzile," utshilo uBobrick. Kwimeko yakhe, wayephatha i-migraine kuqala kwaye axhase intombi yakhe ngoxinzelelo emva koko. Wayesiva abantu bethetha izinto ezinje, "Kufuneka ayeke ukuba nexhala."

Oku kungazi kakuhle okusisiseko okwenziwa yimigraine akuzange kube luncedo, nokuba izikolo kunye nabacebisi ngezikhokelo bazimisele ukusebenza nosapho. Umcebisi wezikhokelo kwisikolo sentombi kaBobrick wayevelana kwaye wayesebenza nabo nanini na xa intombi yakhe iphoswa ziiklasi. Kodwa babonakala ngathi abayiqondi kakuhle into yokuba imigraines yayingeyiyo nje "intloko ebuhlungu kakhulu." Ukungaqondi ubungakanani bexhala kunye nomonakalo we-migraines kunokubangela-ukusuka ekuphazamiseni imfundo yabantwana kubomi babo boluntu-yongeza uninzi lokuxakaniseka kubazali abangafuni nto ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wabo angabi nazintlungu.

Ayisoloko ingumba wamayeza okanye unyango

Intombi kaBobrick yahamba ngothotho lwamayeza e-migraine - ukusuka kumachiza amnene ukuya kunamandla - abonakala esebenza, kodwa kwabakho nengxaki enkulu. La mayeza angankqonkqoza intombi yakhe kude kuyithathe iintsuku ezimbini ezipheleleyo ukuba iphinde ichache. Ngokwe-Migraine Research Foundation, iipesenti ezili-10 zabantwana abakwiminyaka yokuhamba isikolo abanamava emigraines kodwa uninzi lweziyobisi lwenzelwe abantu abadala. Uphononongo kwiNew England Journal of Medicine ikwafumanise ukuba isiphumo sonyango lwe-migraine lukholisa abantwana.

Njengomntwana, u-Amy Adams, i-massage therapist evela eCalifornia, wayenemigraines enzulu, naye. Utata wakhe wamnika i-sumatriptan (Imitrex) kagqirha. Khange kumsebenzele tu. Kodwa, xa utata wakhe eqala ukumsa kwi-chiropractor njengomntwana, i-migraines yakhe yayihamba yonke imihla iye kanye ngenyanga.

I-Chiropractic ngokukhawuleza ithandwa njengolunye unyango kunyango lwe-migraine. Ngokwengxelo evela kwi-3 pesenti yabantwana bafumana unyango lwe-chiropractic kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ngokwe-American Chiropractic Association, iziganeko ezibi ezinje ngesiyezi okanye iintlungu emva konyango lwe-chiropractic zinqabile kakhulu (iziganeko ezilithoba kwiminyaka eyi-110), kodwa zinokwenzeka - yiyo loo nto kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ezinye iindlela zonyango zinelayisensi kunye namaxwebhu afanelekileyo.

Ngokwendalo u-Adams waguqukela kunyango olufanayo xa eyakhe intombi yaqala ukuba ne-migraine. Uthatha intombi yakhe ukuya kwi-chiropractor rhoqo, ngakumbi xa intombi yakhe iva ukuba i-migraine iza. Olu nyango linciphisile ukubanda kunye nokuqina kwemigraines efunyanwa yintombi yakhe. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akwanele.

U-Adams uthi uziva enethamsanqa ukuba uyakwazi ukuba novelwano ngentlungu yakhe yemigraine ukusukela oko wazifumana ngokwakhe.

“Kunzima ngokwenene ukubona umntwana wakho ekuloo ntlungu. Amaxesha amaninzi akukho nto ingako onokuyenza, "u-Adams uyaxolisa. Ufumana intuthuzelo ngokudala umoya opholileyo wentombi yakhe ngokunika umyalezo.

Iziphumo ze-Ripple kwimfundo yabantwana, ubomi, kunye nempilo

Kodwa olu nyango alunyangi. I-Adams kuya kufuneka ithathe intombi yakhe esikolweni okanye kwi-imeyile ootitshala, ichaze ukuba kutheni intombi yakhe ingakwazi ukugqiba umsebenzi wesikolo. "Kubaluleke kakhulu ukumamela kwaye ubanike ixesha abalifunayo ukuze bazive bebhetele, hayi ukutyhalela nje ngenxa yesikolo," utshilo.

Le yinto uDean Dyer, umama kunye nombhali eTexas, avumelana nayo. "Kwakoyikisa kwaye kuphazamisa," utshilo uDyer xa ekhumbula amava okuqala konyana wakhe we-migraine, aqala xa wayeneminyaka eyi-9. Wayebafumana kaninzi ngenyanga. Bebeya kuba buthathaka kangangokuba angaphoswa sisikolo kunye nemisebenzi.

UDyer, onemicimbi yakhe yezempilo, uthi wayeyazi ukuba kufuneka abe ngummeli womntwana wakhe kwaye anganikezeli ekufumaneni iimpendulo. Wazibona iimpawu ze-migraine kwangoko kwaye wamsa kunyana wakhe kugqirha.

Khumbula: Ayilotyala lakhe nabani na

Ngelixa wonke umntu enokuba nesizathu esahluke kakhulu kwimigraines, ukuhambahamba kunye neentlungu abazibangelayo azifani kwaphela-nokuba umdala okanye ungumntwana. Kodwa ukufumana unyango kunye nokukhululeka komntwana wakho luhambo lothando kunye nenkathalo.

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