U-Lena Dunham ucacisa ukuba kutheni eyonwabile kunakuqala kubunzima bakhe obunzima

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U-Lena Dunham ubuyile nenye inkcazo ye-Instagram enzulu, ngeli xesha malunga nokuba kuthatha ntoni ukufikelela ekwamkelweni ngokwakho. (Idibeneyo: U-Lena Dunham Ukwabelana ngendlela yokufumana iiTattoos kumnceda ukuba athathe ubunini bomzimba wakhe)

Izolo, i Amantombazana I-alum ityhile ukuba uchithe ixesha elide evakalelwa ngathi "kakhulu" -ngayo yonke indlela yebinzana. "Ndichithe ixesha elininzi kobu bomi ndiziva ngathi ndininzi kakhulu," ubhale watsho kwi-caption ecaleni kwesithombe sakhe enxibe impahla yakhe yangaphantsi. "Ndilambile kakhulu. Ndixhalabile kakhulu. Ndiswele kakhulu. Ndigula kakhulu. Iyamangalisa kakhulu. Inyanisekile kakhulu. I-sexy (jk lol.) Ndandisoloko ndithunyelwa umyalezo, ngeendlela ezifihlakeleyo, ukuba ndithathe indawo enkulu kwaye ndifuna kakhulu. kuninzi ebomini kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunikwa kakhulu kubantu abangafunanga konke konke. "

Guqula kwizichazi zakho, kodwa amathuba akhoyo, unokubalana; amava akhe kwindalo iphela. Nokuba ubuphila njani ubomi bakho, unokufumana ubuqili (okanye ngokuthe ngqo) ukukrokrela into ezantsi kwenye indawo okanye kwenye. (Oku, ngokuyinxenye, inqaku lentengiso ye-Nike yamva nje ibisenziwa malunga nabasetyhini kwimidlalo bexelelwa ukuba bayaphambana okanye abanangqondo ngokubonisa iimvakalelo.)

Uqhubeke wachaza ukuba ekugqibeleni waqonda ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba aphile ubomi bakhe efuna ukwamkelwa nangubani na. "Ngeminyaka engama-32: ndinobunzima kunabo bonke endakhe banabo," ubhale watsho. "Ndiyathanda kakhulu into endiyenayo. Ndifunda kwaye ndibhala kwaye ndihleka kakhulu. Olona lonwabo lukhulu, olunesisa, oluhlekisayo 'Ndicinga ukuba ekugqibeleni ndiyayiqala le nto.'" (Eyeleleneyo: U-Lena Dunham Wafumana I-Hysterectomy Egcweleyo Ukunqanda Intlungu Yakhe Ye-Endometriosis)

Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala ukuba uDunham anike umnwe ophakathi kulindelo loluntu.

Emva kokwehla kobunzima bakhe ngo-2017 wamfika kwikhava ye- Ngeveki ecaleni kwamagama "Iingcebiso zokutya ezi-20 ezincinci!" Ubhale olwakhe uludwe lwezizathu ezingama-20 zokuba wehle emzimbeni, ecaphula izinto ezifana nokuba nengxaki yokuxhalaba nokuba nenombolo yakhe yefowuni evuzayo. "Andinamacebiso, andinikezi ngcebiso, andifuni ukubakho kweli qweqwe cuz lichasene ngokupheleleyo nayo yonke into endiyilwelayo yonke into endiyilwelayo kwaye ayiloncomo kum kuba ayisiyompumelelo thanx," Ubhale eposini.

Kwangokunjalo, kunyaka ophelileyo, wathumela ifoto engaphambi nasemva kokubonisa ubunzima bakhe. Kwifoto yangaphambili (xa wayenobunzima obungaphantsi), wafumana ukunconywa kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwithebhu, kodwa kwifoto kamva, "wayevuya, evuya kwaye ekhululekile," wabhala.

Ngesithuba sakhe samva nje-apho anobunzima obungaphezulu kunangaphambili kwaye unjalo ndonwabe ngakumbi kunanini na ngaphambili-uDunham wakhankanya ukuba ukufikelela kwingqondo yakhe yangoku yayingeyonto ikhawulezayo nelula, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo yayiwufanele umzamo.

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