U-Lizzo ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba akakho “isibindi” sokuzithanda

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Kwihlabathi apho ukuhlamba umzimba kuseyingxaki enkulu, uLizzo uye waba sisibane esikhanyayo sokuzithanda. Nokuba icwecwe lakhe lokuqala Kuba ndiyakuthanda imalunga nokuba ngumntu onguye kwaye uziphathe ngentlonipho kunye nokudumisa.

Kodwa ngelixa umculo wakhe osulelayo kunye nemidlalo engalibalekiyo iphumelele iintliziyo kwihlabathi liphela, uLizzo akafuni nabani na atolike kakubi ukuzithemba kwakhe "njengobukroti" ngenxa yokuba engumfazi wobungakanani.

"Xa abantu bejonga umzimba wam kwaye babe ngathi, 'Owu Thixo wam, ukhaliphile kakhulu,' kufana nokuthi, 'Hayi, andinguye,' utshilo umlingisi oneminyaka eyi-31. Ubuhle. "Ndilungile. Ndim nje. Ndiyi-sexy. Ukuba ubona u-Anne Hathaway ebhikini kwibhodibhodi, awuyi kumbiza ngokuba nesibindi. Ndicinga nje ukuba kukho i-double standard xa kuziwa abafazi. " (Eyeleleneyo: ULizzo Wavula Ngokuthanda Umzimba Wakhe kunye "Nobumnyama" Bakhe

Oko akuthethi uLizzo ayenzi khuthaza ukulunga komzimba. Jonga kwi-Instagram yakhe kwaye uya kubona ukuba uyabathanda abantu ababhinqileyo ukuba bazamkele njengokuba benjalo. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, ufuna abantu bayeke ukuziva mangaliswe xa bebona ubungakanani benkazana kunye nokuzithemba okungathandabuzekiyo. "Andithandi xa abantu becinga ukuba kunzima kum ukuzibona ndimhle," uqhubeke watsho Ubuhle. "Andiyithandi xa abantu bothukile ukuba ndiyayenza."

Kwelinye icala, uLizzo wavuma ukuba apho unayo ibeyinkqubela enkulu kwindlela uluntu oluyijonga ngayo imizimba yabasetyhini. Kwaye imithombo yeendaba zentlalo idlale indima enkulu ekwenzeni oko kwenzeke, ucacisile. "Emuva emini, ekuphela kwento obenayo ziiarhente zomzekelo," utshilo. "Ndicinga ukuba yiyo loo nto yenza ukuba yonke into ibe ncinane kakhulu kwinto eyayithathwa njengento entle. Yayilawulwa ukusuka kule ndawo inye. Kodwa ngoku sinayo i-intanethi. Ngoko ukuba ufuna ukubona umntu omhle ofana nawe, hamba kwi-intanethi kwaye chwetheza nje into. Chwetheza iinwele eziluhlaza. Chwetheza kwi amathanga atyebileyo. Chwetheza kwi amafutha emva. Uya kuzifumanisa ubonakalisile. Yiloo nto endiyenzileyo ukuze ndifumane ubuhle kum.” (Ukhumbula ngelo xesha uLizzo wabiza i-troll eyayimtyhola “ngokusebenzisa umzimba wakhe ukuze atsale ingqalelo”?)

Ekupheleni kosuku, abantu abaninzi baziva bebonakalisiwe kwaye bemelwe, kwaye okuncinci besoyika umgwebo, kulula ngakumbi wonke umntu ukuze babe ngabo bokwenyani boqobo. Olu lutshintsho olusafunekayo ekuhambeni komzimba, utshilo uLizzo. (Jonga: Apho iNtshukumo yoMzimba-Positivity ime khona nalapho kufuneka iye khona)

"Masenze indawo kwaba bafazi," utshilo. "Ndenzele indawo. Yenza indawo yesi sizukulwana sabazobi abangoyikiyo ekuzithandeni. Balapha. Bafuna ukukhululeka. Ndicinga ukuba ukuvumela eso sithuba senziwe yeyona nto izakutshintsha ibali." kwixesha elizayo masiyeke ukuthetha ngayo kwaye senze indawo engakumbi yabantu aba zingayo."

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