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Isikripthi esikhawulezayo kwiphepha lika-Lizzo's Instagram kwaye uqinisekile ukuba unokufumana iivoni zokuziva wonwabe, ezonyusa umphefumlo, nokuba ubamba ukucamngca ngokukuko ukunceda abalandeli baziqhelanise okanye basikhumbuze ukuba kungavuyisa njani ukubhiyozela imizimba yethu. Iposti yakhe yamva nje uthetha naye nabani na okhe walwa nento ayibonayo esipilini okanye waziva engakhuselekanga ngomzimba wakhe (ke, sawubona, sonke!), Kwaye wabelana ngokuvuma ukuba uyisebenzisa yonke imihla ukuhlonipha umzimba wakhe .

"Ndiqale ukuthetha nesisu sam kulo nyaka," uLizzo wabelane nge-caption ye-video yakhe yasemva kweshawa ye-Instagram. "Ukuvuthela ukumanga kwakhe nokumhlamba ngokudumisa."

Ukuqhubeka kwingcaciso, uLizzo wavula malunga nexesha alichithe "ezonda" isisu sakhe. "Ndandihlala ndifuna ukusika isisu sam. Ndayithiya kakhulu," ubhale watsho. "Kodwa ngokwam MNA. Ndifunda ukuthanda kakhulu onke amalungu am. Nokuba oku kuthetha ukuthetha nam qho kusasa." Uye wamema abalandeli ukuba babelane ngokuzithanda kwakhe, bebhala, "Olu luphawu lwakho lokuba uzithande namhlanje! ❤️" (Edibeneyo: uLizzo ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba Akanaso "Isibindi" sokuzithanda)

Kwikliphu, i-crooner ethi "Good As Hell" ithatha ixesha lokuthetha yedwa esipilini, iphulula isisu sakhe njengoko isitsho ngokuvakalayo, "Ndiyakuthanda kakhulu. Enkosi kakhulu ngokundigcina ndonwabile, ngokundigcina ndiphila. . Enkosi. Ndiza kuqhubeka ndikumamela - ufanelwe sonke isithuba ehlabathini sokuphefumla, ukwandisa, kwaye isivumelwano, kwaye undinike ubomi. Ndiyakuthanda." Wayidibanisa intetho yakhe yokuncokola kunye nokuphefumla okunzulu, ukwanga esiswini sakhe, kunye nokujija kancinci ekugqibeleni.

Ukuba awuzange uzame ukusebenzisa ukuthetha kakuhle kunye neziqinisekiso, unokumangaliswa ukwazi ukuba yindlela enamandla, exhaswa yisayensi yokunceda ukutshintsha ingqondo yakho iyonke - hayi nje ubudlelwane bakho nolusu okulo. uziva unqabile ekuqaleni ukuthetha nawe, uphando lubonisa ukuba ukufumana umyalezo ovakala kuwe-nokuba yinto enje, "Ndiyindoda enentembelo, enenjongo yokunikela kakhulu kwihlabathi" okanye, "ndinombulelo kakhulu Ulusu endikulo .

"Isiqinisekiso sithatha ithuba leesekethe zethu zomvuzo, ezinokuba namandla kakhulu," umphandi uChristopher Cascio, unjingalwazi oncedisayo kwiSikolo soBuntatheli kunye noNxibelelwano ngoMass kwiYunivesithi yaseWisconsin, utshilo kushicilelo lweendaba kuphononongo oluphonononga iziphumo zobuqu. -ukuqinisekisa kwingqondo. "Izifundo ezininzi zibonise ukuba eziisekethe zinokwenza izinto ezinje ngokuthomalalisa iintlungu kwaye zisincede sigcine ulungelelwano ebusweni besoyikiso." (UAshley Graham ukwangumlandeli omkhulu wokusebenzisa iimantras kunye nesiqinisekiso somzimba sokuzithanda, i-BTW.)

Ngokusisiseko, ukuba ujolisa kumandla akho, impumelelo eyadlulayo, kunye ne-vibes elungileyo, unokunceda ukuphinda ujonge umbono wakho wexesha elizayo- kwaye unokunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo lwakho kwiimeko zoxinzelelo oluphezulu eziqhubela phambili. Uphando oluvela kwiYunivesithi yaseCarnegie Mellon lubonisa ukuba ukwenza isiqinisekiso esifutshane phambi komsitho oxinzelelekileyo (cinga: uvavanyo lwesikolo okanye udliwanondlebe lomsebenzi) "kungasusa" iziphumo zoxinzelelo ekusombululeni iingxaki kunye nokusebenza kuloo meko yoxinzelelo.

Ngaba ujonge ukukhulisa ezo thando zothando lwakho kwinkqubo yakho yemihla ngemihla? Nazi izinto ezili-12 onokuzenza ukuze uzive ulungile emzimbeni wakho ngoku, ukusuka kwiimantra kunye neziqinisekiso ukuya kwintshukumo enengqondo.

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