Kutheni le ndawo yokuTyala ngeLotus kufanele ukuba ibe kukuJikelezo lwakho

Umxholo

• Usenza njani iLotus Sex Position
• Iimpawu zoMoya kunye nezoMzimba zeLotus
• Uyenza njani i-Lotus Sex Position ikusebenzele
• I Ngqo-Imilenze Ilotus
• Ukuguqa Ilotus
• ILotus esebenzayo
• Uphengululo lwe

Abantu balalana ngezizathu ezininzi. Ngelixa umnqweno oqhelekileyo kunye nobuhle bukwimenyu, kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna into engaphezulu kokwaneliseka kwangoko. NjengoKaren Gurney, ugqirha wezengqondo kunye noochwephesha oqinisekisiweyo, watsho kwincwadi yakhe, Isithuba sengqondo, ukusondelelana kuhlala kunqwenelwa ngabantu xa besabelana ngesondo neqabane. Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukuhlakulela imvakalelo yokusondela.

Ukuba le yinjongo yakho, akukho sithuba sesini njengosondeleyo kwilotus. Kule meko, usongelwe emzimbeni weqabane lakho njengenyoka. Ayisondeli kakhulu kunoko.

Igama lokwenyani le-lotus ngu "Yab Yum" kwaye limiliselwe e-Tantra, inkqubo yakudala yenkolelo yokomoya eyavela e-India kwaye ibikho ngeenkulungwane zeminyaka; kule nkqubo yenkolelo, nantoni na inokuba yinxalenye yendlela yakho yokomoya, nokuba kukutya, ukucamngca, ukwenza umthambo, ewe, isini. Ngelixa isondo liyinxalenye encinci ye-tantra, yinxalenye yabantu edla ngokugxila kuyo, uLayla Martin, utitshala othathelwa ingqalelo kakhulu kunye nomninimzi wechungechunge lweYouTube Epic Sex & Legendary Longing Imilo.

UTaylor Sparks, utitshala o-erotic kunye nomsunguli wevenkile yentlalo yesondo u-Organic Loven uthi uYab Yum wafumana igama elitsha "kuba kwakulula kwiindlebe zaseNtshona." Iindaba ezimnandi: Nokuba ukhetha ukubiza esi sikhundla i-lotus okanye i-Yab Yum, ngokuqinisekileyo yeyakho xa ujikeleza ngokwesondo.

Usenza njani iLotus Sex Position

Ukuya kwindawo ye-lotus, iqabane elingena ngaphakathi kufuneka lihlale linemilenze enqamlezileyo ebhedini, esitulweni, okanye esofeni. Oku kubizwa ngokuba "sisiqingatha selotus." Ufumana "i-lotus epheleleyo" xa usongeza omnye umntu.

Umntu ongenayo emva koko "uhlala phezu kwabo kwaye angazisonga imilenze kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo azi koala, ngokungathi bangumthi," utshilo uKenneth Play, ingcali kwezesondo kunye notitshala. Endaweni yokutsiba phezulu naphantsi, umntu ongentla uhambisa isinqe sakhe emva naphambili endaweni yokugungqa.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngelixa esi sikhundla ngokwesiko sibandakanya ukungena, akuyomfuneko. Endaweni yoko, ungonwaba lula kwesi sikhundla ngokuthi "usile kwaye ukhuhle omnye komnye endaweni yesiqhelo esihla usenyuka phezulu, esivumela ukuba uvuselele iklitoris," utshilo uSpark.

Imbumbulu encinci okanye i-vibrator yomnwe- njenge-Hot Octopuss DiGit (Thenga yona, $ 104, ellaparadis.com) -inokusetyenziselwa "ukuvuselela ngokuthe ngqo ngaphandle kokuphazamisa uqhagamshelo lwakho njengoko lulunge kanye phezu kweminwe," utshilo. Oko kwathethi, izandla, ii-dildos, izidlidliza, ii-strap-ons, kunye neepenise zonke zizinto ezintle onokukhetha kuzo kwindawo yesondo ye-lotus.

Iimpawu zoMoya kunye nezoMzimba zeLotus

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe apha ngasentla, isibheno esiphambili sesi sikhundla kukusondelelana. Ayitsho ukuba kuthintelwe ukuhlangana ngokwesondo, kodwa gcinani engqondweni ukuba kuninzi ukunxibelelana ubuso ngobuso ngelixa ukulesi sikhundla. (Ngakumbi apha: Ungabakha njani ubuhlobo obusondeleyo neqabane lakho)

Ngelixa ungabeka isilevu sakho egxalabeni lomlingane wakho ukunqanda ukujongana, ukudibana kwamehlo sesinye sezizathu zokuba le ndawo ithandwa kangaka. Ke, ukuba awukonwabeli ukudibana kwamehlo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, unokuba ungabi ngumlandeli omkhulu wesikhundla sesondo se-lotus.

Ukuthetha ngokwasemzimbeni, esi sikhundla sinyanzelisiwe kukhuthazo lwenxalenye. Kuba awugungqi phezulu nasezantsi kwaye, endaweni yoko, unyikimisa usiya ngapha nangapha, iqabane elingene linokugungqa ngokuchasene nethambo lephantsi, isandla, okanye into yokudlala. Kwaye kufuneka uphephe ukutshiswa kwethanga eyoyikekayo okuhlala kudibanisa iinkampani zeCowgirl okanye isikhundla seRider.

Umdlalo uthi umnini wepenisi unokufumana okuninzi kwi-lotus, ngakumbi ukuba banengxaki yokugcina ulwakhiwo okanye amava okuchama ngokukhawuleza. "Esi sikhundla sinokubonelela ngobulali nangakumbi, kunye nokuziva ixesha elide, ukuze ke ukwazi ukufumana amava," ucacisa watsho.

Uyenza njani i-Lotus Sex Position ikusebenzele

Ngelixa u-Yab Yum ngokuqinisekileyo esenza uluhlu lwezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zesini phambili, isenokungabi lolona khetho lulungileyo kuwo wonke umntu. Ukuba une-hip flexibility ephosakeleyo, umzekelo, esi sikhundla sinokubangela ukungahambi kakuhle. Okanye, mhlawumbi awukuthandi ukuhamba kancinci ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ngethamsanqa, kukho uhlengahlengiso olwamkelweyo yingcali ukuze ilingane zonke iimfuno zakho zeendawo ze-lotus.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi i-lotus ye-sex positioning ozama ngayo, qiniseka ukuba uphulaphule umzimba wakho kwaye ungene kwaye uphume kwindawo ngokucothayo (cinga: njenge-yoga pose) ukuphepha iintlungu okanye ukungahambi kakuhle.

I Ngqo-Imilenze Ilotus

Ukuba isinqe sakho siqinile, elinye okanye omabini amaqabane anokwandisa imilenze ethe tye phambi kwabo, utshilo uLucy Rowett, umqeqeshi wesini oqinisekisiweyo kunye nesini sezonyango. Ukuba uhleli esofeni okanye esitulweni, iqabane elisezantsi liyakwazi nokubeka iinyawo zabo phantsi endaweni yokuwela. (Kwakhona jonga ukuzama ezi yoga zibeka ukukhupha isinqe esiqinileyo.)

Iintlantsi zicebisa ukusebenzisa umqamelo wesini ukuba ufuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo. "Ukuba i-hip flexors yakho iqinile, ukusebenzisa i-wedge pillow kunokuncedisa ukunqongophala," utsho. Zama i-Liberator Jaz (Yithenge, i-$ 100, i-lovehoney.com). "Ukuthembela ngasemva okanye phambili kwindawo okanye ukuba imilenze yakho iqonde ngqo kunokuziva ukhululekile ngakumbi kumntu ongaphezulu."

Ukuguqa Ilotus

Ukubeka ubunzima obuncinci kwiqabane elisezantsi okanye ukunika ikhefu leqabane eliphezulu, umntu ongaphezulu unokukhetha ukuguqa emlenzeni weqabane elisezantsi, kunokuba abophe imilenze yakhe esinqeni, uthi uCharyn Pfeuffer, umbhali wezocansi kunye nombhali. ye 101 Iindlela Rock Online Dating.

ILotus esebenzayo

"Ukuba uyiloluhlobo olufuna indawo ebalaseleyo kwezemidlalo, ungaliguqula eli thuba ngokuthi uxhomeke emva kwaye uzixhase ngengalo," utshilo Dlala, kwabo bangakhawuleziyo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. "Ngokwenza oku wongeza i-angle phakathi kwe-pelvis yakho, enokuba yindlela engcono yokuvuselela i-G-spot, kwaye ufumane ukunyuka okunyukayo ukwenza esi sikhundla sisebenze ngakumbi."

UGigi Engle ngugqirha wezesini oqinisekisiweyo, utitshala kunye nombhali Zonke Iimpazamo ze-F*cking: IsiKhokelo kwiSex, Uthando, kunye noBomi. Mlandele kwi-Instagram nakwi-Twitter ku @GigiEngle.

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