Umama Omtsha ubhala iPosti esuka entliziyweni malunga nokuzithanda emva kokubeleka

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Ukuba ungumama kwi-Instagram, ukutya kwakho kusenokwenzeka ukuba kugcwele iintlobo ezimbini zabafazi: uhlobo olwabelana ngemifanekiso yeentsuku zabo ezintandathu zokupakisha emva kokubeleka, kwaye abo banekratshi lokuqhayisa ngamanqaku abo olusu kunye nolusu oluvulekileyo egameni yokuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini. Bobabini abasetyhini bayakhuthaza ngendlela engummangaliso ngendlela yabo, kodwa akusoloko kubuyela esimeni okanye ukwamkela oko kubizwa ngokuba "ziziphene." Ngamanye amaxesha imalunga nokuzisika kwaye uthathe ixesha olidingayo ukuze uvumelane nomzimba wakho omtsha-kwaye akukho mntu waziyo ukuba uziva ngcono kunoKristelle Morgan.

Kwiposti entle ye-Instagram, umama omtsha wavuma ukuba wayenengxaki yokwamkela umzimba wakhe oguqukileyo emva kokubeleka intombi yakhe.

"Bendiqhele ukuba mhle, bendinamahla ndinyuka ndinomfanekiso womzimba kodwa iyonke ndiyazi ukuba ndibukeka ndimhle," ubhale ecaleni komfanekiso wesisu sakhe kunye nosana lwakhe oluzelwe ecaleni kwakhe. "Emva koko kwafika ukukhulelwa kwaye ndandinkulu kakhulu. Ndafikelela ekupheleni ngokukhawuleza okukhulu."

UMorgan waqhubeka echaza ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakhe kwakungekho lula. Wayenolwelo olongezelelekileyo lwe-amniotic kwaye intombi yakhe yayikwimo ebandayo, ebangela isisu sakhe ukuba sibe "sikhulu ngakumbi" kwaye sibangele amanqaku awolulekileyo abonisa emva kwexesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe. "Bendinemilinganiselo engafane yenzeke yokuba umzimba wam ubuya kujongeka njani emva kokuzalwa (ewe mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba nam sendilandele bonke oomama abashushu be-Instagram)," ubhale watsho. Kodwa le yinyani kuninzi lwethu.

Nangona kunjalo, emva kwexesha elifunekayo kunye nomonde, uMorgan uye wamkela indlela umzimba wakhe okhoyo ngoku. "Umzimba wam ujongeke okwexeshana lixabiso elihle lokuhlawula ingelosi encinci endiyilaleleyo ecaleni kwam," utshilo.

"Kufuneka ndizikhumbuze ukuba ndilungile emzimbeni wam, ndichithe iinyanga ezili-9 ndenza ubomi kwaye ewe ngekhe ibonakale ngathi yayiqhelekile kodwa kulungile," ubhale wongeza, "kodwa kulungile ukuba buhlungu ngayo "

Unendawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi baxelelwa ukuba bacinge ngenye indlela okanye enye xa kuziwa emzimbeni wabo emva kokukhulelwa. Khumbula ukuba ngumzimba WAKHO kwaye unelungelo lokuthatha lonke ixesha olifunayo ukuze uzive ukhululekile kuwo. Kwaye ukuba awuziva mnandi ngayo, ayikwenzi ube buthathaka okanye ungazithembi kangako. Kuthetha nje ukuba ujongana nesantya sakho-njengoko unelungelo.

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