Andinguye uMzali oNwabisayo- kwaye ndipholile ngaloo nto

Konke kumnandi kwaye kuyimidlalo xa uTata ekufutshane, kodwa ndiza kwinqanaba nendima yam kusapho.

Zange khe ndizicinge njengomntu odikayo.Kuya kufuneka ndicacise: Khange ndicinge ngokwam njengomntu odikayo ... de unyana wam omdala andixelele ukuba ndinguye. Ndiyamnika ubomi kwaye uyandinika esi sithuko sikhulu. Abangenanceba - {textend} kunjalo?

Kodwa ewe, loo nto yenzekile. Kwakungakhathali kuye ukuba ndandinezinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa kunye nomdla. Uye wanika ii-zero effs ukuba ndinomsebenzi endiwuthandayo, ubomi obundilisekileyo, impilo yezilwanyana zasekhaya, okanye iqabane. Undixelele ukuba ndiyintokazi ekruqulayo, kwaye ke ndayihamba ndiyithetha le nto, kwaye ndicaphula oku: kufutshane ukuba mnandi njengoTata! ”

Ewe, ke ... yayikho. Lo uzwilakhe mncinci wayengazi nokuba uzisula njani i-bum yakhe, kodwa wayelungile ngokundiphosa ngokukhawuleza kwindima yomzali "ongonwabisiyo". Mmkay.

U-Ego ngoku utyumke kakhulu, esi sibhengezo sinesibindi sindenze ndayeka le bendiyenza (ngelo xesha inokuba yayihlambe ii-onesies zomntakwabo osandula ukuzalwa kunye / okanye uthandaze i-naps ezihambelanayo ngaloo mva kwemini) kwaye ucinge. Xa ndenzayo, ndabona ukuba i-spawn yam inenqaku.

Ngelixa ndabelana noxanduva oluninzi notata wakhe, uninzi lokugcina / ukuhlamba-kunye-nokutya-ukutya / ukugcina-ukuqesha / ukugcina umsebenzi kuwela kum. Yibize ngokuba ngumama. Yibize njengeendima zesini. Yibize ngokuba ndingumntu oxhalabileyo onolawulo olunqabileyo. Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, ngutata ofumana igama elithi "Good Time Guy"

Ekuqaleni, yayindikhathaza loo nto. OKUNINZI. Ngokuqinisekileyo ayisiyiyo indlela endandicinga ngayo xa ndandikhulelwe! Njengomama oza kuba ngumama, ndathatha umfanekiso njengohambo lokudlala, ukhenketho lwezilwanyana, kunye nokhuphiswano lokwakha iLego njengomzali olandelayo. Oo, iindawo esingaya kuzo!

Ingxaki kuphela ndandingashiyanga naliphi na igumbi kumaphupha am emisebenzi yemihla ngemihla eza nokuba ngumzali. Kwaye bafana, ndiqinisekile ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ndixelele, kukho imithwalo yo ‘em, ukusuka ekuthengeni ukutya kunye nokuhlamba iimpahla, ukuqhuba u-boo-boo, nayo yonke into ephakathi.

Anditsho ukuba asizenzi izinto ezimnandi endandizicinga ngezo ntsuku zixabisekileyo ngaphambi kokubeleka. Ndisitsho nje ukuba ayizizo zonke iiroses ngalo lonke ixesha, kwaye andithethi ngamanabukeni amdaka apha, bantu. Izinto ezingonwabisiyo- {textend} ukugcinwa, umsebenzi ogcina inqanawa ihamba-ezo zinto zithatha indawo ephambili, kwaye kuya kuhlala kunjalo. Ayisiyiyo 'nangaliphi na ixesha kungekudala, ke uya kwamkela ukuba ingena ngexesha lexesha ofuna ukonwabela kunye neekerubhi zakho.

Kodwa uyazi ukuba yintoni enye eyenzayo? Kwenza ukuba amaxesha okonwaba abe mnandi kakhulu, kwaye ikwenze ukuba wonwabe kwiindawo ezilula, zemihla ngemihla okanye kwiinkqubo. Sukundenza impazamo - {textend} kwindlela eya kwimigaqo yokuba ungonwabanga, ngokuqinisekileyo ndizikhusele.

Ndingayifumana njani i-rap embi ngenxa yokungabikho rhoqo kwezinto ezonwabisayo ezicwangciselwe abantwana bam, phakathi kwezinto ezininzi ekufuneka zenziwe ukuzigcina zihleli njengamalungu amancinci oluntu? Izinto kufuneka zenziwe, kwaye umzali owonwabisayo sisihloko utata wabo anokuba naso ukuba unamandla, ixesha, kunye nomdla wokwenza njalo. Ndiyavuya kuba esenjenjalo! Kuba befanelwe lonke ulonwabo umntwana omnye anokuluphatha, kwaye ngokungathi kunjalo, ithatha ilali.

Njengoko ndizele ukuzokuyibona, ngumsebenzi wam ukugcina phezulu ekugcineni abantwana bam besempilweni kwaye besendleleni. Bayazithanda iitumente zomdlalo wevidiyo katata kunye nohambo lokuya kwipaki yetrampoline. Andibagxeki! Ndiyayithanda xa sisenza ezo zinto, nathi.

Kodwa ngolunye usuku (ngethemba) bayakuxabisa ukuba neseti epheleleyo yamazinyo angazange abole, okanye bafunde ukudada. Ndingumama wabo - {textend} ayisiyiyo inkqubo yabo yokonwabisa ekhaya. Kwaye ukonwaba esikufumanayo (okuhlala kuninzi kwaye kuninzi, i-IMHO) yinto engalibalekiyo kuthi sonke.

Nantso ke ikhoyo. Ukuba uyinto enjengam, abantwana bakho abacingi ukuba wonwabile ngokwaneleyo. Ndithi qhubeka uye kwamkela isithukuthezi sakho sasebukhosini, kuba uyazi ntoni? Nguwe iglu.

UKate Brierley ngumbhali ophezulu, i-freelancer, kunye nomama ongumfana ongumama kaHenry no-Ollie. Umsindisi we-Rhode Island Press Association Award Award, ufumene isidanga se-bachelor kwi-journalism kunye ne-master kwithala leencwadi kunye nezifundo zolwazi kwiDyunivesithi yaseRhode Island. Ungumthandi wokuhlangula izilwanyana zasekhaya, iintsuku zosapho lolwandle, kunye namanqaku abhalwe ngesandla.