Oko Ufanele Ukwazi Ngomntwana Wakho Ogqithileyo

Umxholo

• Kuthetha ntoni ukukhulelwa okwexeshana?
• Ibalwa njani imihla emisiweyo?
• Yintoni ebangela ukuba umntwana azalwe kamva?
• Yeyiphi imingcipheko yosana olugqithileyo?
• Kuza kwenzeka ntoni ukuba umntwana wakho ugqithile?
• Yise kude

Njengoko ufikelela esiphelweni sokukhulelwa kwakho, unokuziva uxubekile kwiimvakalelo malunga nomsebenzi kunye nokuhanjiswa. Ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na inkxalabo malunga nento ezayo, phantse ngokuqinisekileyo ukulungele ukukhulelwa kwakho. Emva kwako konke oku kulindwayo, ufuna ukudibana nomntwana wakho!

Njengokuba umhla wakho osikiweyo usondela (okanye udlula) ukuba awukasebenzi, usenokuba nexhala. Unokuzibuza ukuba umntwana wakho uphilile, ukuba umzimba wakho usebenza ngokufanelekileyo, okanye uziva ngathi ukukhulelwa kwakho kuya kuze kuphele!

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba nosana olugqithileyo? Ngaba zikhona iingozi zonyango ezinxulunyaniswa nokuhlala ukhulelwe udlulileyo umhla obekiweyo? Yintoni onokuyilindela ukuba yenzeke emva kokudlula komhla wokugqibela?

Sukuba nexhala, sikugubungele ngeempendulo ozifunayo!

Kuthetha ntoni ukukhulelwa okwexeshana?

Ngayo yonke imihla eyahlukeneyo kunye namagama owavayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kunokuba nzima ukufumanisa ukuba ungalindela nini ukudibana nosana lwakho! I-American College ye-Obstetricians kunye ne-Gynecologists (ACOG) isebenzisa ezi nkcazo zilandelayo:

• kwikota yokuqala: iiveki ezingama-37 ukuya kwezingama-38
• Ixesha elipheleleyo: iiveki ezingama-39 ukuya kwezingama-40
• Ixesha lokugqibela: 41 ukuya kwiiveki ezingama-42
• Ixesha lokuposa: ngaphaya kweeveki ezingama-42

Iintsana ezizalwe ngaphambi kweeveki ezingama-37 zithathwa ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye abo bazalwa emva kweeveki ezingama-42 babizwa ngokuba ngabasemva kwexesha. (Oku kunokubizwa ngokuba kukukhulelwa okude okanye okungaphaya kwexesha.)

Malunga nabasetyhini baya kubeleka ngomhla okanye ngaphambi komhla wabo obekiweyo. Kuphela li-1 kwabali-10 abantwana abalindelwe ngokusemthethweni okanye abazalwe ngaphaya kweeveki ezingama-42 zokukhulelwa nangona kunjalo.

Ngokusekwe kwezi zibalo, usenokuzibuza ukuba uwubala njani umhla wakho kwaye zeziphi izinto ezinokuthi zibe negalelo ekuzaleni umntwana.

Ibalwa njani imihla emisiweyo?

Owona mhla wokukhulelwa komntwana kunzima ukuwazi, ke iminyaka yobudala yeyona ndlela iqhelekileyo yokubala ukuba kukude kangakanani ukukhulelwa kunye nokuqikelela umhla wakho.

Ubudala bokumitha bulinganiswa kusetyenziswa usuku lokuqala lokuya exesheni; Iintsuku ezingama-280 (okanye iiveki ezingama-40) ukusuka kulo mhla bubude obuqhelekileyo bokukhulelwa. Lo ngumhla wakho oqikelelweyo, kodwa igama eliphambili "liqikelelwa," kuba phantse akunakwenzeka ukuqikelela ukuba umntwana uza kuzalwa nini!

Iiveki ezimalunga nomhla wokuqikelelwa komhla wokugqibela wefestile yakho, kwaye ukuzalwa kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke nangaliphi na ixesha ngeli xesha.

Ukuba awukwazi ukuba ixesha lakho lokugqibela laliphi, wakhulelwa ngelixa usebenzisa izithintelo zomlomo, okanye unemijikelezo yokuya esikhathini ngokungaqhelekanga, ugqirha wakho uya kucela i-ultrasound ukumisela iminyaka yobudala yomntwana wakho. I-ultrasound ivumela ugqirha wakho ukuba alinganise ubude be-rump (CRL) okanye umgama ukusuka kwelinye icala lomntwana ukuya kwelinye.

Ngexesha lekota yakho yokuqala le milinganiselo yeCRL inokunika olona qikelelo luchanekileyo lweminyaka yosana, kuba bonke abantwana bakhula ngesantya esifanayo ngelo xesha.

Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lesibini kunye neyesithathu itrimesters abantwana bakhula ngezantya ezahlukeneyo, ke obu buchule bokuqikelela ngokuchanekileyo ubudala obusekwe kubungakanani bomntwana buyancipha.

Yintoni ebangela ukuba umntwana azalwe kamva?

Kutheni usana lwakho luthatha isigqibo sokuba luthathe ixesha elide ukuba luzalwe? Ezinye zezizathu eziqhelekileyo zibandakanya:

• Lo ngumntwana wakho wokuqala.
• Unembali yokuzala emva kwexesha abantwana.
• Usapho lwakho lunembali yokuzala emva kwexesha abantwana.
• Unokutyeba kakhulu.
• Usana lwakho yinkwenkwe.
• Umhla obekiweyo ubalwe ngendlela engeyiyo.

Yeyiphi imingcipheko yosana olugqithileyo?

Xa umsebenzi udlulela ngaphaya kweeveki ezingama-41 (emva kwexesha) nangaphaya kweeveki ezingama-42 (emva kwexesha) kukho umngcipheko owandileyo weengxaki ezithile zempilo. Eminye yemingcipheko exhaphakileyo enxulunyaniswa nexesha lokugqibela lomntwana yile:

• Kuza kwenzeka ntoni ukuba umntwana wakho ugqithile?

  Ukuba umhla wakho omiselweyo ufikile wadlula, unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuqhubeka ufumana unyango. Ngapha koko, uya kuba nokutyelelwa okungakumbi veki nganye kunye nombelekisi wakho okanye i-OB-GYN kunangaphambili!

  Kwisithuba ngasinye sokuqeshwa kwakho, ungalindela ukuba ugqirha wakho uza kujonga ubungakanani bosana lwakho, ajonge ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana, ajonge indawo yokuma komntwana, kwaye abuze ngokuhamba kosana.

  Ugqirha wakho unokucebisa ngokujonga okongeziweyo kunye novavanyo lonyango ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho usempilweni. (Oogqirha abaninzi baya kuqala ukucebisa oku malunga neeveki ezingama-40 okanye ezingama-41.)

  Bayakukucela ukuba uqaphele ngakumbi xa usenza ukubala kokukhaba, iirekhodi zokuhamba kosana lwakho.

  Ukuvavanywa kunokwenzeka kanye okanye kabini ngeveki kwaye kunokubandakanya:

  • Yise kude

    Uninzi lweentsana luzalwa ngaphakathi kweeveki ezimbalwa zomhla wokumiselwa. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba usondela esiphelweni somhla wokuqikelelwa kwefestile yomhla ngaphandle kwempawu zomsebenzi, kunokubakho amanyathelo onokuwathatha ukukunceda ukoyikisa umntwana wakho emhlabeni.

    Ngaphambi kokuba wenze njalo, kuya kufuneka unxibelelane nogqirha wakho okanye umbelekisi. Banokuxoxa ngezibonelelo kunye nomngcipheko kwimeko yakho ethile yezempilo kwaye banikeze isikhokelo ngeendlela ezikhuselekileyo zokunceda umntwana wakho afike ezingalweni zakho.

    Ngelixa kunokuba nzima ukulinda, kukho izibonelelo zokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba abe nexesha elininzi lokukhula ngaphambi kokungena emhlabeni. Xa kufika ixesha lokuba umngcipheko wokugcina umntwana wakho ngaphakathi ungaphezulu kwezi zibonelelo, ugqirha wakho okanye umbelekisi uya kuba lapho ukukuxhasa ekumiseleni isicwangciso sokuzala esikhuselekileyo.