Ngaba ukusebenzisa iVibrator Amaxesha amaninzi kuya kuyicekisa iClitoris yam?

Umxholo

• Impendulo? Hayi, i-vibe yakho ayizukuphazamisa i-V yakho
• Ukuba undindisholo, i-vice ayisiyo vibe yakho
• Ngaba akunako ukwenza i-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo?
• Ukuthatha

Ndingumbhali wesini ovavanya-ukuqhuba aze abhale malunga neethoyi zesondo.

Ke, xa igama "isifo sangasese esifileyo" laliphoswa kwi-intanethi ukuchaza isidlidlizi esibangelwa sisiphithiphithi somhlaba, ndazibuza: Ngaba ndiyayidinga ikhomputha yabasebenzi? Ngaba ndifanele ndiyinciphise i-buzz?

Nditsalele umnxeba kwiingcali zam zesini kunye neengcali ze-vulva ukuba zincedise ekuphenduleni lo mbuzo ubaluleke kakhulu: Ngaba ixesha elininzi lisemgangathweni kunye ne-vibrators ngokwenene Ngaba ufuna i-clit okanye ukungcola kwam naliphi na elinye ilungu lobufazi bam?

Impendulo? Hayi, i-vibe yakho ayizukuphazamisa i-V yakho

Ngokwengcali yezesondo u-Jill McDevitt, PhD, ene-CalExotic, "i-vagina syndrome efileyo" ligama elinganyangiyo, nelisoyikisayo elenziwe ngabantu abangakuqondi kakuhle ukuphulula amalungu esini, i-orgasms, uyolo, okanye ubufazi kunye ne-vagomy anatomy.

Abantu abavuma oku kuxilongwa okungeyonyani kunokuba kubi ngakumbi kunabo bathi "abakholelwa kwi-lube" (cue eye roll).

"Uluntu luziva kwaye lufundise abantu basetyhini ukuba bazive bengonwabanga ngombono wokuba abantu basetyhini bonwabele ukonwaba kunye nokuzikhupha," utshilo uMcDevitt. Ngenxa yoko, "abantu abane-vulvas baxelelwa ukuba i-vibrator iya 'kubonakalisa' ngesondo kunye kwaye abanakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngenye indlela," uyongezelela. Kodwa eli libala, ayithethi isayensi, ukuthetha.

UCarolyn DeLucia, i-FACOG, ozinze eHillsborough, eNew Jersey uthi: Kwaye ngokufanayo nge-vibes ene-vroom engaphezulu kunesixhobo sokucheba ingca (ndithembe, ndiyazi ukuba ezinye zezo seto zamandla zinamandla ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga).

"Akufuneki kubekho ngxaki okanye ukuba ndindisholo kubaxhuzuli abasebenza kwipateni ye-vibrator ephezulu kakhulu okanye ngamandla," utshilo uDeLucia. Ngokusisiseko, i-wand yeHitachi yamkelwe ngugqirha. Ungayisebenzisa yonke into oyifunayo-ngaphandle kokuba ibuhlungu ngokusemthethweni okanye awonwabanga ngaso nasiphi na isizathu, ewe.

Kwakukho nesifundo esincinci esapapashwa kwiJenali yoNyango lwezeSondo esafumanisa ukuba izidlidliza azinampembelelo indindayo. Uninzi lwabasebenzisi be-vibrator baxele i-zip, zilch, zero kunye neempawu ezimbi kwizitho zabo zangasese njengesiphumo.

Ngapha koko, ngokuchasene neenkolelo zee-alarms zentshukumo, bekukho ubungqina obuninzi bokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-vibrator kube negalelo kwiziphumo ezilungileyo. Oku kubandakanya:

• okanye
• ukwanda ukuthambisa ajikeleze
• ukunciphisa iintlungu
• amathuba amakhulu okufuna ukuhlolwa kwe-gynecological

Ke vibe kude, abantu.

UMcDevitt uyacacisa ukuba kolu phononongo, “Apho babenjalo abambalwa abachaze ukuba bandindisholo, [kodwa] bathi olovakalelo luye lwaphela kungaphelanga usuku. ”

Ugqirha wezesondo wezonyango u-Megan Stubbs, Ed.D, uthelekisa ukungonwabi okwethutyana emva kokusetyenziswa kwesidlidlizeli kufutshane nengalo onokuba nayo emva kokusika ingca okanye ukubamba iTherragun. “Ayihlali ngonaphakade. Ngalo naluphi na uhlobo lokukhuthaza okukhulu, umzimba wakho ufuna nje ixesha elithile ukuze uphinde uphinde ubuye, ”utshilo. Kuyafana nokulala ngesondo. Iindaba ezimnandi zabathandi be-vibrator.

Ukuba undindisholo, i-vice ayisiyo vibe yakho

Ukuba ungumsebenzisi we-vibrator oqhelekileyo kwaye uqaphela ilahleko kubuntununtunu, uStubbs uthi kungenzeka ukuba yenye into kwaye ayisiyiyo i-buzzer yakho ephathwayo yokubeka ityala.

Nokuba unexhala lokuba i-vibrator yakho iza kuphazamisa amandla akho okonwabela isini esahlulelweyo sokwabelana ngesondo unakho yiba yintoni ekuthintelayo ukuba ungehli.

"Kubantu abane-vulvas, uninzi lwe-orgasm luvela kwingqondo, kwaye uxinzelelo malunga ne-orgasming yeyona ndlela iphambili," utshilo uMcDevitt. Ewe, kunokuba sisiprofeto esizalisekisayo.

Okwangoku, u-DeLucia ucebisa ukubhukisha i-aphoyintimenti kunye ne-OB-GYN yakho ukuba uhlangabezana nobundindisholo besiqu, somntu obhinqileyo, okanye elinye ilungu lobufazi. Izinto ezinje ngoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, amayeza, okanye enye imeko yezempilo enokubangela uvakalelo lwakho, ke kubalulekile ukuba ufumane ukuba yintoni na ekunciphisayo ezantsi.

Ngaba akunako ukwenza i-orgasm ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo?

Okokuqala, phefumla. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Akuthethi kuthi akukho nto iphosakeleyo.

UDeLucia uthi: "Ngama-10 eepesenti kuphela abasetyhini abafikelela kuvuthondaba ngokulula. "Kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini alunakho ukufikelela kuvuthondaba kunye / ukusuka kwisini sokungena sodwa kwaye badinga ukuvuselelwa ngokuthe ngqo kwimbalasane." Ke, ngamanye amaxesha vibrators zisebenza ngakumbi kuba zibonelela ngovuselelo kunye nezinye.

UDeLucia uthi yiyo loo nto abanye abantu basetyhini bekwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngento yokudlala kodwa hayi iqabane. Ayisiyo ukuchukumisa kuphazamisa u-O, ngokuchanekileyo; yiyo indawo Yochukumiso, utshilo.

Ke, ukuba i-clit yakho ikhatywa ibekwe ecaleni ngexesha lomdlalo (isini esinqwenelekayo sesini), zisa olo sana ekulondolozeni.

Oko kunokuthetha ukusebenzisa isandla sakho okanye ukucela iqabane lakho ukuba lisebenzise isandla. Kodwa kusenokuthetha ukuzisa i-buzzy boo yakho kumxube, nayo. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, qiniseka ukuba i-clitoris yakho ithathelwa ingqalelo ukuze uhle.

"Ndiyazi ukuba akukho mntu ukhupha i-vibrator ngaphandle ngexesha lesini somdlalo bhanyabhanya, kodwa isini somdlalo bhanyabhanya ayisiyonto yokwenyani!" Utshilo uStubbs. “Abafazi abaninzi yenza bafuna i-vibe ukuba ihambe namaqabane abo, kwaye akukho mntu unokuze, akuhlaze ngaloo nto. ”

Vibe shame? Hayi endlini yam.

Ukuthatha

Iindaba ezimnandi kukuba awudingi ukuba nexhala malunga nokuncipha okubangelwa kukudlidliza.

Iindaba ezimbi? "Ngokuqhelekileyo umba awukho malunga nokuba ndindisholo okanye ukungafuneki. Umcimbi kukungonwabi kwabantu ngolonwabo lwabasetyhini kunye nokungaqondani kwe-anatomy, utshilo uMcDevitt. Ibala lolonwabo lwabasetyhini lunokuncipha, kodwa sinezindlela zokuhamba.

Ke hlala phantsi, uphumle, kwaye uyonwabele loo vibrator ixesha elide (okanye ii-orgasms ezininzi) njengoko ufuna.

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