Nceda uncede ukuyeka ubuhlungu ekuchitheni ubomi bam besini

Intlungu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ayamkelekanga kwaphela.

Uyilo ngu-Alexis Lira

Umbuzo: Ukwabelana ngesondo kubuhlungu kum, nokuba ndithe ndadlula kwi-lubricant. Ngaphezulu koko, ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ndirhawuzelela ezantsi phaya. Lonke olu hlobo lwamabhodlo yonke into malunga nezesondo, kuba andikwazi nje ukufumana iipesenti ezili-100 zikhululekile. Nceda, ndingenza ntoni?

Hayi, ayamkelekanga kwaphela le nto - {textend} kwaye ayamkelekanga, ndiyathetha ukuba awufanelanga ukuba ulindele ukuba isondo lonzakalise kwaye kufuneka ubambe amazinyo kwaye uwuthwale. Ukungonwabi malunga neyona nto inokwenzeka ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokoyika.

Izinto zokuqala kuqala. Thetha phezulu, nokuba uziva usoyika okanye uneentloni. Nguwe wedwa onoxanduva lwentlungu. Okwesibini, jongana nogqirha wakho okanye umguli womzimba wethambo lomzimba ukuqinisekisa ukuba awunayo imeko embi yosulelo lwegwele okanye ukungqubana kwelungu lobufazi. Nje ukuba ufumane ukukhanya okuluhlaza ukuba yonke into icace gca, yile nto ndifuna ukuba ugxile kuyo: ukuqala ngokutsha uhambo lwakho lwesondo kunye nokuchaza kwakhona ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukufumana ulonwabo kunye nokuzonwabisa- {textend} ngokwakho.

Ndifumanisa ukuba abantu bayabanjwa ngenene ngenkcazo emxinwa yesini (ubukhulu becala ubundlobongela besini, kuba awudingi ukungena kwi-orgasm). Kodwa wonke umntu wahlukile, ke phosa ezo zinto uzilindeleyo ngefestile. Ukufumana intuthuzelo, kufuneka uzimisele ukuzama, ukulawula, kunye nokuqinisekisa ubunyani bakho.

Thatha ikhalenda yakho kwaye ugcine nokuqeshwa qho ngeveki nawe. Yiba ngumntu ovulekileyo, onomdla, nongoyikiyo. Ngenxa yolonwabo lwakho, fumana ukuba loluphi uhlobo lweemvakalelo ozonwabileyo, kwaye ufunde konke onokukwenza ngomzimba wakho. Yazi ukuba yintoni ekufuneka ibekhona ukuze uzive usekhaya emzimbeni wakho kwaye kamnandi.

Yintoni oyifunayo ukuze uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhuselekile? Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukuzihlola ngokwakho kuyothusa okanye kusisiyilo ekuqaleni, zamkele ezo ngcinga emva koko uziyeke zihambe. Phinda oku kuwe: NDILUNGILE, ndingumntu wenyama, kwaye kulungile ukuba uzive wonwabile.

Njengoko ukuzithemba kwakho kusanda, unokumema iqabane lakho langoku ukuba liphonononge kunye nawe. Gcina imizuzu engama-30 ngeveki (ubuncinci) ekwabelaneni ngayo ngeminqweno yenyama kunye nokuthanjiswa okungafunekiyo. Tshintshanani, ngemizuzu eli-15 nganye yokunikwa nokwamkelwa kwebala, ukuqala kuqala ngokungachukumisi. Olu thumo luthambileyo lunokukhokelela ekulalaneni, ukuba ukhetha.

Kodwa khumbula, oku malunga nokuhlola okucocekileyo, ukwandisa ukuqonda komzimba, kunye nokuqaphela ukuzonwabisa. Akukho njongo kwi-orgasm. Ukuba ufuna uncedo olungakumbi ukuze uqalise, ngamanye amaxesha ishawa eshushu, amakhandlela e-aromatherapy, okanye umculo opholileyo unokunceda ukukhulula uxinzelelo. Ngokubanzi, ndincoma ukuthatha ikhefu kude nomsebenzi wesondo oqhubeka ubangela iintlungu kuba, ekuhambeni kwexesha, amava anokukhokelela kumonakalo ongaphezulu.

Ukuba uvula malunga nolu tshintsho kwi-SO yakho, sukuthetha ngayo kwigumbi lokulala ngelixa uzama ukuyifumana. Kungcono ukuba ube nale ncoko kwisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye uhambe. Inqaku apha kukudala imeko apho u-erotic uzive wamkelekile, unganyanzelwa ukuba wenze okanye uhlale kwenye inkcazo yokuba yintoni isini.

Ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci kwingqondo yakho malunga nendlela ojonga ngayo ukonwaba kunye nendlela ojonga ngayo ukuyeka emzimbeni wakho kunokukunceda ukonwabele ukulala ngesondo kwakhona.

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