Ukukhusela amandla akho ngelixa usilwa nobuhlanga

Umxholo

• Amaqhinga okuhlala womelele
• Yakha iqhinga lakho
• Cwangcisa ixesha lokutshaja
• Beka imida
• Tsalela umnxeba ukuqiniswa
• Khumbula impumelelo yakho
• Bambelela eluvuyweni lwakho
• Into yokuqala ebalulekileyo kuwe

Lo msebenzi awukho mhle okanye ukhululekile. Ingakophula ukuba uyayiyeka.

Ngomtshangatshangiso wamapolisa wamva nje wabantu bam abaMnyama, khange ndilale kakuhle. Ingqondo yam ibaleka yonke imizuzu yemihla ngemihla ngexhala kunye neengcinga eziqhutywa zizenzo:

Ndizakuyilwa njani lento?

Ukuba ndiyaqhankqalaza, ziziphi iziphumo ezinokwenzeka kum njengowasetyhini omnyama onesikhumba esimnyama?

Loluphi uhlobo lokhuseleko endinalo?

Ngaba ndinikele ngokwaneleyo?

Ngaba ndiphendule kuyo yonke imiyalezo yokungena evela kubahlobo bam?

Ngaba ndilithumele inqaku lenqaku kubahlobo abangaMnyama abafuna ukuvala ubumnyama?

Ndityile namhlanje?

Akumangalisi ukuba ndivuke ndinentloko yonke imihla yovukelo.

Bendihleli ndibambe kancinci ngexesha lobhubhane ophazamise ubomi njengoko sibazi. Intsholongwane ibulele uluntu lwam ngezinga elingapheliyo, kwaye utata wam uyachacha kwi-COVID-19.

Emva kokubulawa ngokungenabuntu kwabantu abaMnyama abangenatyala bengaxhobanga kwaye bamsulwa, emva kwezizukulwana zoqhankqalazo oluchasene nobunqolobi basekhaya obuchasene nabantsundu, umhlaba ubonakala uvulekile kwinto yokuba ubomi babantsundu bunexabiso.

Liliphi ixesha lokuphila.

Nangona ndiyenzile injongo yam yobungcali kunye neyam yobuqu ukulwela ubulungisa kunye nokuxhotyiswa kwabantu abaNtsundu kunye nolunye uluntu olunebala, ndiyasokola ukuzikhawulezisa ndifumane ukulingana. Nangona ndiyazi ukuba andifanelanga, ndihlala ndizibuza ukuba ndenza ngokwaneleyo.

Kwangelo xesha, ngamanye amaxesha ndinemixholo eyahlukeneyo ngomsebenzi wam.

Isicwangciso-qhinga, umdlalo omde wokulwa ubuhlanga unokuziva uzingca kwaye unelungelo xa ndibona abantu abaMnyama bebulawa yonke imihla.

Imbali indixelela ukuba iinzame zobumbano ezivela kwabo bazibiza ngokuba "ngamadlelane" iya kuba ngumjikelo wokungakholelwa kwabo, ingqumbo, izithuba zemithombo yeendaba ezingenanto, ukunikela ngexesha elinye kwimibutho yabantsundu, kunye nokudinwa okungaginyisi mathe.

Okwangoku, ndiyazi ukuba ukuncothula ubuNtsundu kunye nezinye iindlela zobuhlanga zifuna sonke. Ndiyasokola noko njengoko ndizama ukunyamekela impilo yam yengqondo. Ngelixa ndinqwenela ukuthi ndingathi ndiphumelele ngokungagungqiyo ekukhuseleni amandla am kulo mlo, ndiyazi ukuba andinguye.

Amaqhinga okuhlala womelele

Kwimizuzu yam engcono, ndifumene ezi ndlela zilandelayo ziluncedo kakhulu. Ndibanikela kuye nawuphina umntu ofuna ngenene ukuzinikezela ekupheliseni ubuhlanga ubomi babo bonke.

Yakha iqhinga lakho

Ukuqhawula ubuNtsundu kunye nezinye iindlela zobuhlanga kuthetha ukuba ucela umngeni ngabom kwaye ungafundi yonke imiyalezo eyingxaki oyifumene kwiifilimu, ezincwadini, kwimfundo, nakwiincoko ezingaqhelekanga kunye nabahlobo, usapho kunye namaqabane.

Kuthetha ukuba uyakucinga nzulu malunga nento okholelwa kuyo malunga nohlanga lwakho kunye neentlanga zabanye ekungqineni onamandla kumaziko ethu kwaye ongenalo.

Lo msebenzi awukho mhle okanye ukhululekile. Ingakophula ukuba uyayiyeka.

Thatha ixesha lokucinga ngamandla akho kunye nendlela ahambelana ngayo nesicwangciso sakho esifutshane okanye sexesha elide. Abaququzeleli, amatshantliziyo, abafundisi-ntsapho, kunye nabantu abanomdla wokunceda abantu bonke badlala indima yabo. Ukuba amandla akho ayimali, yenza ngokwakho iminikelo yakho kwimibutho echasene nobuhlanga.

Ukuba ulitshantliziyo, cinga ngezithuba zokucela umngeni ngokuchasene nobuhlanga obuMnyama, nokuba kukwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo, emsebenzini wakho, okanye kumbutho wabazali nootitshala. Qhubeka uvakalise imiba engathandekiyo.

Cwangcisa ixesha lokutshaja

Oku mhlawumbi yenye yezibophelelo ezinzima emsebenzini wokulwa nobuhlanga, kodwa kunyanzelekile.

Okokuqala, yamkela ukuba awunakulwa naliphi na idabi elingenanto. Kukungasebenzi kakuhle kuwe nakwabanye. Ikwalicebo lokulahleka.

Unelungelo lokusebenzisa iintsuku zakho zempilo yengqondo, iintsuku zokugula, okanye iintsuku zeholide ukuphinda uzilungiselele nangona ubona kufanelekile. Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba kolo hambo ubusoloko uluyeka, bingelela iNetflix, pheka isidlo esimnandi, okanye usizi nje, thatha ixesha lakho.

Kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba awuqhelanga ukuzikhathalela ngabom ngale ndlela, yenze umkhwa rhoqo. Cwangcisa ixesha kwikhalenda yakho, kwaye uzame ukunamathela kuyo kangangoko unakho.

Beka imida

Kubalulekile ukuba ucace ukuba yintoni kwaye ayikufanelanga ixesha lakho namandla njengoko uzinikezela ngakumbi ekuchaseni ubuhlanga. Oko kuthetha ukuziqhelanisa nokuthi hayi ebantwini, oonobangela, kunye nemisebenzi ethatha ixesha kude nomsebenzi wokulwa nobuhlanga.

Ungafunda ukuthi hayi kwaye uphinde uqondise abo bafuna ukuba ukhuphe izinto abazifumene kutshanje zobuhlanga obuchasene noMnyama kunye nezinye iindlela zengcinezelo. Unokufunda ukuthi hayi kwiitrola zemithombo yeendaba zentlalo ezifuna ukukuhenda kwingxoxo yokulahleka.

Unokude ucime ii -apps zakho zosasazo lwasentlalweni zizonke, okanye ubuncinci uhambe kuzo kude ixesha elide. Kulungile ukuthatha ikhefu.

Tsalela umnxeba ukuqiniswa

Esinye seziphumo ezininzi zobuhlanga kukuba abantu bebala bashiyeke indima edinisayo yokufundisa abantu abamhlophe.

Xa usongeza anti-Blackness kunye colorism kumxube, abantu abaninzi abaMnyama banyanzeliswa kwindima yokuba ngutitshala (phakathi koxinzelelo lobuhlanga) ngelixa abantu abamhlophe bekhutshiwe kuphando lwabo, ukubonakalisa, kunye nokwenza.

Tsalela umnxeba ukuqiniswa! Ukuba kukho abahlobo obaziyo, oogxa bakho, okanye abantu osebenza nabo abazibiza ngokuba bangamadlelane ngokobuhlanga, bacele ukuba banciphise ixesha elizayo xa uzifumana usisithethi okanye utitshala. Phambili kubo ii-imeyile ozifumeneyo ngezixhobo ezongezelelweyo ezichasene nobuhlanga.

Thumela izimemo zamahlakani akho ukuba ziye kukhonza kwiikomiti zokulingana ngokobuhlanga ezikudlisileyo. Chaza ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni ukhokelela ebantwini.

Khumbula impumelelo yakho

Ubuhlanga buphothiwe kubomi baseMelika kangangokuba nakuphi na uloyiso ngokuchasene nalo, nokuba kungapasiswa umthetho, kususwa imifanekiso eqingqiweyo yeConfederate, okanye ekugqibeleni ukufumana inkampani yakho iqeqeshelwe indlela yokuxoxa ngobuhlanga, inokuziva ngathi ithontsi kwibhakethi.

Kwindlela yakho yeqhinga lokusebenza oluzinzileyo lokulwa ubuhlanga, qiniseka ukuba ugcina umkhondo wempumelelo yakho. Akukho mpumelelo incinci kakhulu ukuba ingaqaqanjiswa, kwaye nganye nganye ibalulekile ekwakheni amandla akho.

Impumelelo yakho ibalulekile, njengawo wonke umsebenzi owenzayo.

Bambelela eluvuyweni lwakho

Thatha umzuzwana ucinge ngabantu, iindawo, okanye amava akunika ulonwabo, nokuba zithini iimeko. Isenokuba lilungu losapho okanye umhlobo othandekayo, ukudanisa, ukuntywila emanzini, ukupheka, okanye ukuba kwindalo.

Vala amehlo akho kwaye uzithumele kwimemori yakho evuyisayo yaloo mava ukuba awukwazi ukuhlala khona. Hlala apho ixesha elide ufuna ukuziva usemhlabeni. Vumela uvuyo lwakho ukuba lukugcwalise kwaye likusete ekuqhubekeni ngokuchasene nobuhlanga.

Into yokuqala ebalulekileyo kuwe

Kulula ukudinwa njengoko sisoyisa enye incopho size sifumane enye esilindileyo kwelinye icala. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuthatha ikhefu ukutshaja kwaye sizikhathalele. Yiyo kuphela indlela esinokuhlangabezana ngayo nomqobo olandelayo ngamandla ethu apheleleyo kunye nokuzinikela.

Khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukugalela ikomityi engenanto, kwaye wenza owona msebenzi mhle xa sele uphumelele.

Ukuzinika inkathalo oyifunayo kwaye uyifanele isenzo sokuguqula ngokwakho.

UZahida Sherman ukwahluka kunye nokubandakanywa kwengcali ebhala malunga nenkcubeko, ubuhlanga, isini kunye nokuba mdala. Uyimbali ye-nerd kunye ne-rookie surfer. Mlandele phambili I-Instagram kwaye Twitter.