Ukuhlalutya njani ukuFumana iMifanekiso ePhambili kwi-Intanethi: Ngubani uMgcini?

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Xa usenza isifundo sobudlelwane umsebenzi wakho njengoko ndenzayo, ugqiba ukuthetha kakhulu ngokumanyumnyezi malunga ukuthandana . So akhonto iphumayo iqhelekile xa kwafika iclient yase female in her 20s izondibona kuba wayekhe wabethwa ngumoya waviswa ubuhlungu ngumfana amthanda kakhulu.

"Ndabona imifanekiso yakhe, kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba bekufanele ukuba ndibone iiflegi ezibomvu," watsho kalusizi xa wayedlala nge-zipper kwi-hoodie yakhe epinki. Umthengi wam, endizakuthi nguAbby, wayezibetha ngoba wayengaboni kwasekuqaleni ukuba lo mfo wayephume naye kabini "wayengumdlali". U-Abby waqhubeka endibonisa eminye imifanekiso yakhe embalwa.

"Yima umzuzu!" Ndiye ndaqhanqalaza xa etyhila isibini esasiyingxaki. Ndijolise kumfanekiso womntu onomtsalane oneenwele ezimnyama kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kunye nefoto esondelwe kwimisipha yakhe ye-bicep njengoko esenza i-curl. Ukusuka apho (yikes), saskrolela kwelandelayo, eyayingenamntu kwaphela kuyo—iMercedes entsha nje epakwe phambi kwegaraji engaziwa mntu. Yonke iseshoni yohlobo lokubaleka ngokwayo, unokucinga.

Akunakuphikwa ukuba unokufunda okuninzi kwiifoto zomntu othumele kwi-Intanethi. Elona candelo le-craziest kukuba isini asibonakali ngathi asinamsebenzi, kuba amadoda kunye nabasetyhini ngokufanayo bathumela imifanekiso ethumela imiyalezo engeyiyo ukuba eyona njongo yabo kukufumana iqabane elilungileyo.

Guys, Nicinga Ntoni?

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndiyingcali yengqondo, kodwa ndingumntu. Ndiyakuqonda ukufuna ukubeka umfanekiso onomdla ngaphandle phaya ukutsala eyona mihla inokubakho. Ubukrelekrele, umtsalane, kunye nempumelelo yobuchwephesha zizinto eziguqukayo jikelele, ngoko kububulumko ukuvuleleka malunga namandla akho. Ukuqhayisa, nangona kunjalo, lelinye ibali ngokupheleleyo.

Injongo ngeefoto zakho kufuneka ibe kukubonisa abantu ubuntu bakho. Ngaba ungumntwana wasendle okanye ngaphezulu kokungenisa? Umntu othanda imidlalo okanye, mhlawumbi, i-car aficionado? Ithini into yakho? Umzekelo, ukuthumela iifoto zakho uqubha, udlala amanqindi, okanye uphakamisa iintsimbi kuxelela ihlabathi ukuba uyawuthanda owona mdlalo wezemidlalo kwaye mhlawumbi unomzimba omhle- kwaye uxhalabele impilo ngokunjalo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuthumela imifanekiso yakho yokufumana ibhaso okanye ukuqhayisa malunga ne-biceps yakho ixelela ihlabathi ukuba uyayixabisa imiqondiso ecacileyo yamandla kunye nendumiso. (Andazi ngawe, kodwa umntu wokuqala uvakala ngathi unengxaki encinci kum.)

Manene, Nani!

Ndinqwenela ukuba ndityhole isigwebo esibi sothando kwisini esinye, kuba oko kuya kuthetha ukuba bambalwa abantu phaya abenza izigqibo ezithandekayo zokuthandana. Ukanti abasetyhini, nabo, bahlala bethumela iifoto zabo eziyingxaki kakhulu. Uyazi kakuhle into endiyithethayo: intombazana enjengokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo, intombazana njengengxowankulu yasendle, njalo njalo.

Ngenxa yokuba amajelo osasazo azele yimifanekiso emininzi ephazamisayo yabantu ababhinqileyo, abafazi kufuneka balumke bathumele umfanekiso olungileyo kwi-Intanethi njengabahlakaniphileyo, abanokwazi, nabomeleleyo. Ngaphezulu, uninzi lwamadoda lufumana abafazi abanjalo beshushu kakhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ke ukuba unomzimba omkhulu, kuyothusa. Faka ifoto yakho kunye nomhlobo elunxwemeni, kodwa ungayithumeli kwindawo ekuma kuyo ezesondo esifubeni sakho kwaye ukhuphe ubuso bomhlobo wakho!

Yintoni ekhuthaza abantu ukuba bathumele iifoto ezingafanelekanga?

Ukuba awungomntu othanda, i-e-v-e-r-post pics ekwenza ubukeke uziphatha kakubi, unxilile, okanye ukha phezulu, mhlawumbi unethiyori malunga nokuba kutheni umntu enokwenza into enjalo. Ukuba uqikelele "ukungazithembi," ding, ding! Uya kuba ulungile. Ukuba une-ego esempilweni ngokwenyani, oko kuthetha ukuba uzithanda ngokwaneleyo kwaye awunangxaki yokuhlala uzilungele wena okanye abanye, ngekhe ufune ukubonisa amandla akho. Ukuzithemba okunjalo, uyikhathalele kakhulu into ocinga ngayo ngawe kunaye nabani na omnye umntu ayicingayo ngawe, kwaye loo nto itsalela umdla wabaninzi!

Ekupheleni kosuku, kulungile ukuba uthumele imifanekiso yakho ekuphosayo ekukhanyeni okukhangayo, okunomdla kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba zeziphi iimpawu onokuzinyusa kwiifoto zakho ezikwi-Intanethi, jonga kwinto ekwenza wahluke kubo bonke abantu abakungqongileyo. Nokuba yeyiphi kuwe-mhlawumbi loo nto yokuhlekisa okanye ukuthanda kwakho izinto ngokwenyani kumabonakude-leyo yinxalenye yokuba ungubani, kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba uyicacise okanye uyithethelele.

Xa kuziwa ekuthumeleni imifanekiso, imfihlo ayizami nzima kakhulu. Sukuba nexhala malunga nokutsalela nabani na kwangoko xa beqala ukuya kwiprofayile yakho. Umhlaba uzele ngamadoda nabafazi aboyikekayo, kwaye lowo uza kugqiba naye uya kukukhetha ngenxa yokuba ungubani na njengephakheji- hayi ngenxa yefoto yobudenge.

Ekugqibeleni, ubuntu bakho kufuneka ibe yeyona ndawo ithengisa kakhulu, ke yibambe ngokuqinisekileyo kwimifanekiso yakho. Okokugqibela, nceda usindise umhlaba weefoto zeemoto zakho ezikhanyayo, amalungu omzimba kunye neeakhawunti zebhanki!

Isazi ngengqondo uSeth Meyers uye wafumana uqeqesho olubanzi ekuqhubeni unyango lwezibini kwaye ungumbhali we Ugqirha ka-Seth woNyango: Yoyisa ubudlelwane bokuphindaphinda isifo kwaye ufumane uthando olufanele.

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