Kutheni kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi nokuba ucinga ukuba yinkohliso

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Ndihlala ndicinga ukuba ukuba utata wam ebengayazi itshathi yakhe yokuzalwa, ngekhe ndibelapha namhlanje. Ngokukrakra. Kwii-70s zakudala, utata wam wabuyela kowabo emva kwesikolo segrad exhobile kungekuphela isidanga sakhe seMasters kodwa nolwazi lwetshati yakhe yokuzalwa kweenkwenkwezi, awayephefumlelwe ukuba azifundise ngaye emva kotyelelo olufutshane kwikomkhulu lehippie. Wakhawuleza wabaleka waya kumhlobo wosapho owayezimisele ukummisa kunye ne-BFF yakhe, ababekrokrela ukuba ingangumdlalo ogqibeleleyo katata -yinxalenye enkulu ngenxa yomqondiso wakhe welanga, owathi wafana nomqondiso wenyanga katata wam. Kwintlanganiso yabo yokuqala, utata wafunda itshati kamama. Kwaye kulapho waqonda ukuba kunokuba "kukho into ekhethekileyo" phakathi kwabo. Kwiminyaka emithandathu kamva, babopha iqhina.

Ngoku, njengesazi ngeenkwenkwezi ngokwam, eli lelinye lamabali ambalwa endithanda ukuwathetha ukuba ndingachazi nje kuphela iingcambu zam zeenkwenkwezi kodwa ndibonise ukuba ulwazi olunamandla lwetshathi yakho yokuzalwa lunokuba njani. Yenye endiya kuhlala ndabelana ngayo nabantu esele beyiintloko yentloko yolwimi lwesibhakabhaka kwaye bafuna ukufunda ngakumbi. Kodwa ndiza kwabelana ngayo nabantu abangenamdla wokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi.

Ezi skeptics ngokubanzi ziwela kwelinye lamacandelo amabini. Iqela lokuqala liyakugatya ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi ngenxa yokuba alizange libe nayo ingeniso esemthethweni kuyo - ukuvezwa kwabo kunokuba kuthintelwe ngokubanzi, i-horoscopes ebhaliweyo. Okwesibini ziintshaba ezizaliswe ngokupheleleyo zihogele esihogweni ngokungathi ziluncedo njengecookie yeligi okanye uMlingo 8-Ibhola- kwaye ngandlela thile bacatshukiswa bubukho bayo nje.

Eyokuqala yeyona nto ndiyithandayo ukuthetha nayo kuba ukuba banengqondo evulekileyo kancinane, kusenokubakho ukuqalisa incoko malunga nokuba kuninzi kangakanani na ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kunehoroscope yakho yemihla ngemihla. Ndisenokuchaza ukuba awufani njani na wonke umntu ozelwe phantsi kophawu olufanayo lwelanga. Esi sisiqwenga sepuzzle enkulu- okanye, njengoko ndithanda ukuyibiza, yi-DNA yakho yeenkwenkwezi. Ngokuthatha umhla wakho wokuzalwa, unyaka, ixesha, kunye nendawo, ungaphosa itshathi yokuzalwa, eyona nto ithatha umfanekiso wesibhakabhaka xa wawuzalwa. Oku kwenza ukuba ujonge kude kunelanga. Naphi na apho inyanga, iMercury, iVenus, iMars, njl. , kunye nokuninzi.

Kodwa abo bamva- abazonda isihogo- ngabantu abathandabuzayo endihlala ndihamba ukuba ndingabi nosizi. Ngaso nasiphi na isizathu (esihlala sityekele ekucingeni okumnyama namhlophe okudityaniswe nokungakhathali kuzo zonke izinto zokomoya kunye / okanye ezendalo), baye bazivalela ekujongeni ngaphantsi komhlaba - kwaye, ndihlala ndikrokrela, ukujonga. ngokwabo.

Andikwazi ukuzibuza ukuba ngaba aba bantu bayala ezinye iindlela zokuzibonakalisa, zokuhlola ngaphakathi, ezinje ngonyango lwe-psychoanalytic, olujolise ekuziseni iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo ezingqondweni ezinganyangekiyo ukuphilisa amanxeba amadala kunye neemvakalelo ezinzima. Ukwenza olo hlobo lonyango kunokuba yinto engathandekiyo, kwaye unokuhlala uzibuza ukuba, "Ingenzeka njani into yokuba umhlaba unganikezeli ngotshintsho nge-imeyile nomphathi wam unento yokwenza nobuntwana bam?" Kodwa ngokuthatha nje ixesha lokuzijonga, utyekelo lwakho, iipateni zakho, kunye nokudibanisa amachaphaza kunye nonyango lwakho ngokuhamba kwexesha kunokukhokelela ekuzaziseni ngokuzithemba, okunokuba luncedo ngokumangalisayo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, nokuba kukukhomba okubangela iimvakalelo okanye Ukuchonga iinkalo zobomi apho wazigcina khona.

Ngokukwanjalo, ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kunika eyayo ilensi yokuqonda iingcingo zakho zangaphakathi, ubumoya kunye nolangazelelo lwakho. Ngokudibanisa utoliko lwetshathi yakho yonke - hayi nje uphawu lwakho lwelanga - ngoncedo lwenzululwazi ngeenkwenkwezi kunye / okanye ngokuzifundisa ngokwakho, unokuziqonda ngcono, indlela onxibelelana ngayo nabanye abantu, kwanokuba kutheni jikelele Amandla alo naluphi na usuku anokukubeka emgceni okanye akwenze uzive unesisa kwaye wonwabile.

Kukho isizathu sokuba abantu abafuna iinjongo zabo batsaleleke ngokukodwa kwizenzo ze-metaphysical ezinje ngeenkwenkwezi. Inokunika ulwazi oluxabisekileyo kwaye isebenze njengesikhokelo esifundisayo. Mhlawumbi uya kujonga kwi-node yakho yasemantla-indawo apho ukujikeleza kwenyanga kunqumla indlela yelanga ngaphezulu koMhlaba-njengoko oko kubonisa indawo yobomi ekufanele ukuba usebenzele kuyo ukuze ufezekise ukukhula karmic kobu bomi. Okanye uziva ngathi ufike kade kwisebe lezothando, kodwa uya kuqaphela kwitshathi yakho yemvelo ukuba uVenus, iplanethi yothando, ubuhle kunye nemali, yabuyiselwa emva kokuzalwa kwakho. Kwimeko apho, ukuthanda wena kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kuwe, kodwa ukungena ngaphakathi kuyo kunokukunceda uhambise ibhola phambili kubudlelwane obuhlulelanayo. (Idibeneyo: Ngaba ukunyanga kweCrystal kungakwenza ukuba uzive ungcono?)

Kodwa akunyanzelekanga ukuba ungabi nazicacele ukuze uzuze kwiinkcukacha zetshathi yakho yendalo okanye okunye ufundo lweenkwenkwezi. Sonke sinokusebenzisa ukungqinisisa okuncinci kunye nenkxaso xa kusiziwa ekutshateni ikhosi yenkqubela yethu yobuqu okanye yobungcali.

Umzekelo, itshathi yokubuyela elangeni, ethatha izinto ezenzeka kwiplanethi ngalo mzuzu xa ilanga libuyela kwindawo yalo yokuzalwa aka eyona ndawo isibhakabhaka sasikuyo xa wawuzalwa- eyenzeka ngokubanzi emva kosuku okanye usuku lwakho lokuzalwa yonke imihla unyaka-unokubonelela ngombono wemixholo onokuyilindela kulo nyaka uzayo, ukuze uzive unamandla okuqalisa elo shishini okanye ungene ne-SO yakho.

Ukujonga indlela ihambo yangoku (funda: iintshukumo zeplanethi) ezinxibelelana netshathi yakho yendalo inokucacisa ukuba kutheni usenokuhamba ixesha elinzima, elinzima, okanye elinemvakalelo. Ngokomzekelo, mhlawumbi uyazibetha ngenxa yokuba ubufanele ukuba uyenzile i-XYZ ngelixa uneminyaka engama-40, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uphefumlelwe ukuba uguqule iinkalo eziphambili zobomi bakho. Oku kunokuba ngumbulelo kwinkcaso yakho ye-Uranus-ixesha apho iplanethi yotshintsho ichasa i-Uranus yakho yokuzalwa, iphawula "ingxaki ephakathi yobomi."

Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokunxibelelana ngcono neqabane lakho, uqonde ngcono izifundo zobudlelwane obudlulileyo, okanye ufunde okungakumbi ngonxibelelwano lwakho nomntakwenu okanye umzali, unokufumana inzuzo ngokujonga kwisynastry- isifundo sendlela iitshathi ezimbini zendalo sebenzisana omnye nomnye.

Leyo yimizekelo nje yeendlela ezininzi zokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi ezinokubonelela ngexabiso elibalulekileyo lokuziva kwakho, ubudlelwane kunye neenjongo. Xa kuziwa kuzo zonke ezo zinto zinkulu, ezinobunzima bokwakha ubomi, bendihlala ndizibuza-ngubani ongafuni ulwazi ngakumbi?

Kodwa, kulungile, yithi ubuchwephesha benzululwazi, kwaye awunakho nokuqala ukusonga intloko ujikeleze umbono wokuba iiplanethi zichaphazela ubomi bakho kunye nobuntu bakho. Konke kulungile kuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba ube ngumfundi ozinikeleyo ngeenkwenkwezi ukuze ufumane izibonelelo zako. Kusenokufana nokufunda ulwimi lwasemzini kuba akuyomfuneko ukuba ube lutyibiliko ukuze ufumane inkcazelo eluncedo uze ufumane imbono entsha. Nokuba unomdla, ukubamba, ukuzama, nokubuza imibuzo kungangqina ngokuvula amehlo, kukunike ithuba lokuzibandakanya ngokwakho ekuziboniseni malunga neenkolelo zakho, amaxabiso kunye nendlela yakho-njengonyango okanye ijenali.

Kodwa ukuba uchasene ngokungagungqiyo, abo kuthi abafumana itoni- okanye nentwana-yokufaneleka kuyo baya kukuvuyela ukufumana indlela yokurhweba ukugxekwa ngovelwano kunye nokuqonda malunga nendlela ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi okuchaphazela ngayo amava omntu. Njengezinye iinkqubo zeenkolelo kunye nezifundo zokomoya, ulwimi lwesibhakabhaka luncede abantu bazive ngakumbi, benethemba, kwaye bezazi ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-2 000. Ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi akuthabathel’ indawo ihlabathi eliphilayo, eliphefumlayo, nelichukumisayo elisingqongileyo, kunye nenzululwazi ehamba nalo. Kunoko, ingumphelelisi.

Cinga ngale ndlela: Xa kufikwa kubuncinci bokuhlala uvulekile engqondweni malunga nokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi, kuninzi kakhulu onokukufumana kwaye akukho nto ilahlekileyo.

Ekugqibeleni, enye yezona zinto zinkulu zokuthandabuza zibonakala ngathi zivela kukungaqondi kakuhle ukuba ukuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi kukwazi ngcono kunokwazi malunga nendlela yakho. Ayinakudlula kwinyani. Endaweni yoko, ifana netotshi, imephu yendlela, inkqubo ye-GPS enokunika iinkcukacha ezithile, iingcebiso, izikhanyiso eziza kwenza ukuba indlela ihle kancinci, nokuba ukhetha ulwalathiso luni. Kwaye njengoko ndifundile kubazali bam, abatshatileyo phantse iminyaka engama-45, inyathelo lokuqala kunokuba lula njengokufunda uphawu lwenyanga.

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