URosie Huntington-Whiteley uthi ukuzama ukuthoba umzimba emva kokumitha yayingu "Thobekile"

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Ukubeleka ngamava avula amehlo ngeendlela ezininzi. KuRosie Huntington-Whiteley, ukuzama ukunciphisa umzimba emva kokukhulelwa yinto enye engakhange ihambe njengoko bekulindelwe. (Eyeleleneyo: URosie Huntington-Whiteley Wabelane ngeeMveliso zobuhle aziThandayo ukuba azithenge kwiAmazon)

U-Huntington-Whiteley kutshanje uye wahlala phantsi no-Ashley Graham ngesiqendu sepodcast kaGraham, Intsebenzo entle enkulu. UGraham, okhulelweyo okwangoku, ukhulise indlela umzimba wakhe otshintsha ngayo, okhokelele kwincoko malunga nokukhulelwa kukaHuntington-Whiteley kunye nokuba ngumama. U-Huntington-Whiteley uthe wafumana iiponti ezingama-55 ngexa lokukhulelwa kwakhe kwaye waziva enamandla emzimbeni wakhe.

Emva kokubeleka, nangona kunjalo, wathi ufuna ukunciphisa umzimba wakhe wokukhulelwa kwaye wafumanisa ukuba ukwenza oko kunzima kunokuba wayelindele. Ngaphandle kokuya ejimini rhoqo, uHuntington-Whiteley uthe akayiboni inkqubela phambili ayilindeleyo. "Kwandithoba kakhulu kum," ukhumbule.

Ukuzabalaza ukunciphisa umzimba kwenza u-Huntington-Whiteley ukuba aqikelele okwesibini ukuba wayelisebenzise njani icebiso lokomelela ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kwakhe, uxelele uGraham ngodliwano-ndlebe lwabo. "Abantu bahlala bendibuza ngomzimba wam kunye nokuzilolonga kwam, kwaye uzive usithi," Uyazi, sebenza kathathu ngeveki, "utshilo.

Kodwa ngoku, uHuntington-Whiteley uthe ugqibile ukunika naliphi na icebiso ngengubo. “Ndaziva ngathi, ‘Hayi, andikwazi ukuxelela abantu ukuba bazive njani ngemizimba yabo, kuba wonke umntu unamava awohlukileyo,’ uxelele uGraham. "Kwaye ndiza kuthetha ukusebenza kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kwaye ndijonge emva kwam kwaye ndizive ngathi sh * t, ndandifana, 'Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba abanye abantu bafike kwindawo yokuzivocavoca.' U-Huntington-Whiteley wabelane naye rhoqo ngeNdlela yokuNakekela ulusu)

Elinye icandelo lobomi emva kokukhulelwa awathi uHuntington-Whiteley akazange axele kwangaphambili? Amagqabantshintshi amabi ngomzimba wakhe. Kwiinyanga emva kokubeleka, waba inkwenkwezi kumgca wakhe wokuqubha. UPaparazzi babekhona kwaye ukudubula kwathathwa zii-tabloids. “Ndandimangaliswe ngamanye amagqabaza abenawo abantu,” uHuntington-Whiteley uxelele uGraham. Uthe wayecaphuke kakhulu "yingxelo ejikeleze indlela abasetyhini 'ekufanele ukuba bajonge ngayo." (Idibeneyo: UCassey Ho Wenze iTimeline ye "Iindidi zoMzimba eziPhambili" ukubonisa ukuhlekwa kweMigangatho yobuhle)

"Yayothusa nje into yokubona umntu ebhala, 'Omnye umzimba wonakele emva kosana.' Ufana, 'Yintoni i-f*ck?'" waqhubeka uHuntington-Whiteley. "Nyani, sisekule ndawo apho kufuneka sibe noxinzelelo lokubuyela emva komntwana?"

Okulusizi kukuba uxinzelelo lukhona njengakuqala, nditsho nakwabasetyhini ekungafuneki ukuba bajongane nemizimba yabo ethathwa bucala kumaphepha-ndaba. Kodwa njengoko uHuntington-Whiteley waxelela uGraham, ukubonakala komzimba wakho emva kokubeleka — singasathethi ke ngezimvo zabanye abantu ezingacelwanga ngawo — akubalulekanga kangako njengempilo-ntle yakho, singasathethi ke ngomntwana wakho. "Ndifuna wonke umama agxile kuye, ekugqibeleni, kodwa kunye nexesha nomntwana wakhe, utshilo kwi-podcast.

Wonke umntu ubuyela kwindawo apho aziva elungile kwakhona, utshilo uHuntington-Whiteley. "Ndiziva ndingcono ngoku, kwaye ndiziva ndihloniphekile ngomzimba wam kunangaphambili."

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