Ukuzenzakalisa

Umxholo

• Isishwankathelo
• Yintoni ukuzenzakalisa?
• Kutheni abantu bezenzakalisa?
• Ngubani osemngciphekweni wokuzenzakalisa?
• Zithini iimpawu zokuzenzakalisa?
• Ndingamnceda njani umntu ozenzakalisayo?
• Zeziphi iindlela zonyango zokuzenzakalisa?

Isishwankathelo

Yintoni ukuzenzakalisa?

Ukuzenzakalisa, okanye ukuzenzakalisa, kuxa umntu enzakalisa umzimba wakhe ngabom. Ukulimala kunokuba kuncinci, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima. Banokushiya iziva ezingapheliyo okanye babangele iingxaki zempilo. Eminye imizekelo yile

• Ukuzisika (njengokusebenzisa i-blade blade, imela, okanye enye into ebukhali ukusika ulusu lwakho)
• Ukuzibetha okanye ukubetha izinto (njengodonga)
• Ukuzitshisa ngemidiza, imatshisi, okanye amakhandlela
• Ukukhupha iinwele zakho
• Ukupheka izinto ngokuvula umzimba
• Ukophula amathambo akho okanye ukuzityumza

Ukuzenzakalisa ayisiyiyo ingxaki yengqondo. Yindlela yokuziphatha-indlela engenampilo yokujongana neemvakalelo ezinamandla. Nangona kunjalo, abanye babantu abazenzakalisayo banengxaki yokuphazamiseka engqondweni.

Abantu abazenzakalisayo abadli ngokuzama ukuzibulala. Kodwa basemngciphekweni omkhulu wokuzama ukuzibulala ukuba abalufumani uncedo.

Kutheni abantu bezenzakalisa?

Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba abantu bazenzakalise. Rhoqo, banengxaki yokujongana neemvakalelo zabo. Bazenzakalisa ukuzama ukuzama

• Benze bazive benento, xa beziva belambatha okanye bebindindisholo ngaphakathi
• Vimba iinkumbulo eziphazamisayo
• Babonise ukuba bafuna uncedo
• Khupha iimvakalelo ezinamandla ezibagqogqayo, ezinjengomsindo, isizungu, okanye ukungabi nathemba
• Bazohlwaya ngokwabo
• Ndiva nolawulo

Ngubani osemngciphekweni wokuzenzakalisa?

Kukho abantu bayo yonke iminyaka abazenzakalisayo, kodwa ihlala iqala kwinqanaba lokufikisa okanye kwiminyaka yokufikisa. Ukuzenzakalisa kuxhaphake kakhulu ebantwini abathi

• Babephethwe gadalala okanye benzakala xa babesebancinci
• Unengxaki yokuphazamiseka engqondweni, njenge
  • Uxinzelelo
  • Ukuphazamiseka kwindlela yokutya
  • Uxinzelelo lwasemva koxinzelelo
  • Ukuphazamiseka okuthile kubuntu
• Sebenzisa iziyobisi gwenxa okanye utywala
• Yiba nabahlobo abazenzakalisayo
• Yiba nokuzithemba okuphantsi

Zithini iimpawu zokuzenzakalisa?

Iimpawu zokuba umntu angazenzakalisa zibandakanya

• Ukusikwa rhoqo, imivumbo, okanye amanxeba
• Ukunxiba imikhono emide okanye iblukhwe kwimozulu eshushu
• Ukwenza izizathu malunga nokwenzakala
• Ukuba nezinto ezibukhali macala onke ngaphandle kwesizathu

Ndingamnceda njani umntu ozenzakalisayo?

Ukuba umntu omaziyo uyazenzakalisa, kubalulekile ukuba ungagwebi. Yazise loo mntu ukuba ufuna ukunceda. Ukuba loo mntu ngumntwana okanye ukwishumi elivisayo, mcele ukuba athethe nomntu omdala omthembileyo. Ukuba akazukuyenza loo nto, thetha nomntu omdala omthembileyo ngokwakho. Ukuba umntu ozenzakalisayo mdala, cebisa ngengcebiso yezempilo yengqondo.

Zeziphi iindlela zonyango zokuzenzakalisa?

Akukho machiza ukunyanga indlela oziphethe ngayo. Kodwa akhona amayeza okunyanga nakuphi na ukuphazamiseka engqondweni umntu asenokuba nako, anje ngoxinzelelo noxinzelelo. Ukunyanga ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunokwenza buthathaka umnqweno wokuzenzakalisa.

Ingcebiso yezempilo yengqondo okanye unyango kunganceda ngokufundisa umntu

• Izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki
• Iindlela ezintsha zokuhlangabezana neemvakalelo ezinamandla
• Ulwalamano olungcono lwezakhono
• Iindlela zokomeleza ukuzithemba

Ukuba ingxaki inzima, umntu unokufuna unyango olunzulu ngakumbi kwisibhedlele sabagula ngengqondo okanye kwinkqubo yosuku lwempilo yengqondo.