Isikhokelo saBaqalayo kwi-Hypnosis yesondo

Umxholo

• Yintoni?
• Ke ayisiyiyo into efanayo ne-erotic hypnosis?
• Kuthekani ngonyango ngesondo?
• Ngubani onokuzuza?
• Ingaba isebenza kanjani?
• Kwenziwa njani?
• Ngaba kuphandiwe konke konke?
• Ngaba bukhona ubungozi okanye iingxaki ekufuneka uzazi?
• Ufumana njani umboneleli okhuselekileyo?
• Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

I-Viagra, ukutya okune-aphrodisiac, unyango, kunye ne-lube zezinye zezona zilungiso ziyaziwa kakhulu kukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo njengokungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, i-anorgasmia, kunye ne-ejaculation ngaphambi kwexesha.

Kodwa kukho enye indlela enokuthi, nangona kunokwenzeka isandi I-woo-woo encinci, inokusebenza: i-hypnosis yesondo.

"I-Hypnosis isenokungabi yeyona ndlela iphambili yokunyanga imiba yezesondo namhlanje, [kodwa] i-hypnosis isetyenziselwe ukunyanga iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokungaziphathi kakuhle ngokwesondo ishumi leminyaka," utshilo uSara Melancon, PhD, ugqirha wezentlalontle kunye noochwephesha kwezokwabelana ngesondo ngeSex Toy Collective.

Kodwa yintoni i-hypnosis yesondo, ngokuchanekileyo? Ngaba iyasebenza? Skrolela ezantsi ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.

Yintoni?

Ikwabizwa ngokuba lunyango lokunyanga ngesondo, i-hypnosis yesondo inokunceda abantu basebenze ngemicimbi yezesondo eqhubekayo ephazamisa i-solo yabo okanye ubomi bobabelana ngesondo.

Umzekelo:

• libido ephantsi
• mzantsi
• Ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile
• Ukuchama ngaphambi kwexesha
• lobufazi
• iintlobano zesini ezibuhlungu
• iintloni malunga nesondo okanye isini

Ke ayisiyiyo into efanayo ne-erotic hypnosis?

Hayi. Ngelixa amagama ahlala esetyenziswa ngokungafaniyo, kukho umahluko ocacileyo.

Injongo ye-erotic hypnosis kukuhlekisa, ukuzonwabisa, kunye nolonwabo, ucacisa uKaz Riley, ugqirha wezonyango ojolise ekusebenzeni nabantu abahlangabezana nokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo.

"Isetyenziswa ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ukuphucula ukonwaba okanye ukukhuthaza i-orgasm, okanye kwindawo ye-BDSM njengenxalenye yolawulo," ucacisa uRiley.

I-hypnosis yesondo, kwelinye icala, inokunceda umntu asebenze ngomcimbi ongaphantsi wesondo ukuze baqhubeke nokonwaba ngakumbi kubomi babo bodwa okanye kubomi besini esahlulekileyo.

Impendulo emfutshane? I-hypnosis e-erotic imalunga nolonwabo ngoku. I-hypnosis yesondo imalunga nokwandisa uyolo lwakho emva iseshoni, xa sele ulungele ixesha elithile "kum" okanye umdlalo odibeneyo.

Kuthekani ngonyango ngesondo?

I-Hypnosis inokuba njalo kubizwe Unyango. Kodwa i-hypnotherapy - unyango lwengqondo.

Endaweni yoko, i-hypnosis isetyenziswa nokuba sisongezo kunyango okanye ngabantu abangakhange bafumane mpumelelo kunyango lwengqondo.

Iseshoni yokunyanga ngokwesini ijongeka ngokungafaniyo ngendlela eyahlukileyo kuneseshoni ene-hypnotherapist egxile kwezesondo kunye nokungasebenzi ngokwesondo, ucacisa uEli Bliliuos, umongameli kunye nomseki weZiko le-Hypnosis le-NYC.

"Ngexesha leseshoni yonyango ngesondo, wena kunye nonyango nithetha ngemicimbi yakho," utsho uBliliuos. "Ngexesha leseshoni yokulalisa ngomlingo, umntu olalisa ngomlingo uyakunceda ukuba uphinde usebenze ngengqondo."

Ngubani onokuzuza?

Ukuba ufumana ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo, umntu olalisayo akalilo inyathelo lakho lokuqala - ngugqirha.

Ngoba? Kuba ukungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo kunokuba luphawu lwemeko yomzimba engaphantsi.

Ukubiza nje ezimbalwa, oku kubandakanya:

• isifo sentliziyo
• cholesterol ephezulu
• isifo metabolic
• endometriosis
• isifo sentloko

Oko kwathiwa, usenokuthatha isigqibo sokubandakanya i-hypnotist kwisicwangciso sakho sokuphilisa, nokuba ugqirha wakho ufumanisa ukuba imeko yezempilo isemva kweempawu zakho.

"Apho ingqondo iya khona umzimba uyalandela," utsho uRiley.

Uqhubeka echaza ukuba ukuba uyakholelwa okanye woyika ukuba ukwabelana ngesondo kuya kuba buhlungu, okanye awuzukukwazi ukufumana kunye nokugcina ulwakhiwo, kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba oko kuya kuqhubeka kuyinyani nasemva kokuba kuthe kwalungiswa imbonakalo yomzimba.

URiley uthi: "I-hypnotist inokunceda ukuba iphinde isebenzise i-subconscious ukuba iyeke ezo ndlela zokucinga ziphazamise ulonwabo kwikamva ngokuziphinda engqondweni," utshilo uRiley. Izinto ezinamandla!

Ingaba isebenza kanjani?

Eyona ndlela ilandelayo ilandelwa li-hypnotist iya kwahluka ngokusekwe kukungasebenzi kakuhle. Kodwa isicwangciso somsebenzi ngokubanzi silandela ifomathi efanayo.

"Okokuqala, siza kuqala ngemfundo malunga nokuba isondo kufuneka libukeke njani," utshilo uRiley. "I-Hypnosis inokulungisa i-glitch kwinkqubo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba siqale sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba baqhuba inkqubo efanelekileyo."

Umzekelo, ukuba ukhathazekile kuba ubomi bakho bezesondo abufani noko ukubonayo kwi-porn, into oyifunayo ayisiyi-hypnosis kodwa yimfundo malunga nokuba yintoni iphonografi (ukuzonwabisa) kwaye ayisiyo (efundisayo).

Emva koko, umntu olalisa ngomlingo uya kuthetha nawe malunga neenjongo zakho ngqo. Baza kuphinda babuze malunga naluphi na umothuko odlulileyo wokuchonga amagama okanye imixholo enokubangela.

Okokugqibela, uya kungena kwicandelo le-hypnosis yeseshoni.

Kwenziwa njani?

Uninzi lweeseshoni zehipnosis ziqala ngokuphumla kunye nokuzilolonga ukuphefumla okunceda ukuthoba umzimba wakho. (Cinga: Phefumlela phezulu ubala isi-3, emva koko uphume ubala isi-3.)

Emva koko, i-hypnotist iya kukukhokelela kwimeko ye-hypnotic.

UBliliuos uthi: "I-hypnotist inokusebenzisa indlela ebonakalayo yokujula iwotshi ngapha nangapha." "Kodwa ngesiqhelo, umntu olalisa ngomlingo uyakukukhokelela kwisimo esifana nengqondo esebenzisa indibaniselwano yomyalelo womlomo kunye neendlela zokuphefumla."

Ukucaca gca: Kukho zero (0!) Ukuchukumisa okubandakanyekayo.

"Ngaphakathi kwe-hypnosis yesondo sijongana nemixholo yokuvuselela inkanuko yesini, kodwa akukho nto yenzekayo kwiseshoni," utshilo uRiley.

Nje ukuba ukule trance-state, i-hypnotist iyakukunceda uchonge indawo yengqondo yakho engacacanga leyo "ngumda," kwaye usebenzise imiyalelo ekhokelwa lilizwi ukukunceda ukuba uyihlele kwakhona.

URiley uthi: "Ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha iseshoni enye yeyure ezimbini ukuyenza, ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha iiseshoni zeeyure ezininzi."

Ngaba kuphandiwe konke konke?

"I-Hypnosis inebala elihle eliqhotyoshelwe kuyo, kwaye uninzi lwezenzululwazi luthatha ukuba yinto nje yeqhinga lomkhosi," utshilo uMelancon. "Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye izifundo ezincinci ezibonisa ukuba kukho isibonelelo, kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo abantu abaninzi bakufumanise kuluncedo ekuhambeni ngesondo."

Olunye uphononongo luka-1988 olupapashwe kwiphephancwadi i-Sexology lagqiba kwelokuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-hypnosis yokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo kuyathembisa.

Kwaye uphononongo luka-2005 olupapashwe kwiAmerican Journal of Clinical Hypnosis luqukumbela ngelithi: "[I-hypnosis yesondo] inika abaguli ulwazi olutsha lwangaphakathi olubenza bakwazi ukulawula isini sabo ngaphakathi, ngokwendalo nangaphandle kwemizamo egqithileyo, ngokuzikhethela okukhulu kunye nenkululeko kunangaphambili."

Ngaba ezi zifundo zenziwe umhla? Ngokuqinisekileyo! Ngaba uphando olongezelelweyo luyafuneka? Uyabheja!

Kodwa ngokuthathela ingqalelo ukuba i-hypnosis yesondo itshata izihloko ezibini- i-hypnosis kunye nezokwabelana ngesondo- eziphantse zibe nzima ukufumana inkxaso-mali, inyani ebuhlungu yeyokuba ayinakwenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha kungekudala. Ncwina.

Ngaba bukhona ubungozi okanye iingxaki ekufuneka uzazi?

I-Hypnosis ngokwayo ayinabungozi.

URiley uyachaza: "Awulahlekelwa yindlela oziphethe ngayo xa uphantsi kwehipnosis. "Awungekhe wenze into ngelixa ulaliswe ukuba umntu wakho ongalaliswanga akavumeli."

Okwangoku, kufuneka yenziwe ngugqirha oqeqeshiweyo kunye nokuziphatha!

Unyango unako ube yingozi xa uqhutywa ngumntu olalisa ngomlingo into engekho mthethweni. (Ewe kunjalo, kunokutshiwo okufanayo malunga noochwephesha bengqondo kunye nabasebenzi bezonyango.)

Ufumana njani umboneleli okhuselekileyo?

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhangela "i-hypnosis yesondo" kuGoogle kuya kuzisa izigidi zeziphumo. Ke ucinga njani ukuba ngubani osemthethweni (kwaye okhuselekileyo!) Xa kuthelekiswa nabangekhoyo?

UBliliuos uthi zimbini izinto ekufuneka ujonge kuzo kumboneleli:

1. ukwamkelwa, ngakumbi kwi-National Guild of Hypnotists okanye uMbutho waMazwe ngaMazwe waBacebisi kunye nabaNyanga
2. amava

Nje ukuba ufumane umntu onezo zinto zimbini, uninzi lweengcali ziya kunika umnxeba wokubonisana ukumisela ukuba ulungile na.

Kule fowuni ufuna ukufunda:

• Wenza ntoni lo mntu ulalisa ngomlingo? Ngaba banamava okusebenza nabantu ngokungasebenzi kwam ngokwesondo?
• Ngaba ndiziva ndikhululekile xa ndikunye nale ngcali? Ngaba ndiziva ndikhuselekile?

Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Ijelo likaRiley likaYouTube, "Ukurhweba kwiiSpredishithi," yindawo entle ukuba uqale.

Ngapha koko, unesiqendu esinye esithi, "The Big O," apho unokujonga khona isikhokelo somntu one-anorgasmia ukuya kwi-orgasm ukuze ufumane eyona nto ibandakanya iseshoni.

Ezinye izixhobo zibandakanya:

• "Ukusombulula ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo: Unyango olujolise kwisisombululo kunye ne-Ericksonian Hypnosis yaBantu abaDala abaDala" nguYvonne Dolan
• "Ukuzilawula ngokuzikhokelayo: Yoyisa iVaginismus" ngu-Anna Thompson
• "Jonga Amehlo Am am: Uyisebenzisa kanjani i-Hypnosis ukukhupha eyona nto intle kubomi bakho bobulili" nguPeter Masters

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