Ndingathatha iShawa kunye nosana lwam?

Umxholo

• Angasihlamba nini umntwana wakho?
• Ufanele ukuhlamba kangaphi nosana lwakho?
• Ngaba kukhuselekile ukuhlamba nosana lwakho?
• Iingcebiso zokuhlamba ukwenza amava akhuselekileyo
• Izinto zeshawa ekhuselekileyo
• Ezinye iindlela zokuhlamba nosana lwakho
• Ukuthatha

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ufundile ubugcisa bokwenza into engaphezulu kwesinye ngexesha elinye. Ukubopha isihlangu esinye ngelixa usebenzisa olunye unyawo ukugungqisa i-bassinet. Ukutya isandwich ngelixa ubambe encinci yakho kwenye ingalo kwaye ujike ibhotile ngesilevu sakho. Ukuqhuba iRoomba ngaloo "ngxolo imhlophe" usana lwakho olusanda kuzalwa luyakuthanda ukulala. (Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kukwenza imisebenzi emininzi-ukucoca kunye nokuthomalalisa!)

Iyavakala ke into yokuba usenokucinga ngokufumana umntwana ucocekile ngelixa ucocekile. Iintaka ezimbini, ilitye elinye (isaci kuphela, kunjalo). Kodwa ngaba kulungile ukuhlamba kunye nosana lwakho?

Ngamafutshane, oku kulungile xa uthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko afanelekileyo- kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni. Ngaphezu koko, ungalindeli ukuba wena - okanye umntwana - uya kuthi ufumane konke okucocekileyo ngaphandle kokucwangciswa ngononophelo. Nazi izidlo.

Angasihlamba nini umntwana wakho?

Ufuna ukulumka malunga nokuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba umntwana wakho kwakamsinya. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa usizisa umqulu wakho omncinci wovuyo ekhaya uvela esibhedlele, kusafuneka ulinde ukuya kuthi ga kwiiveki ezi-2 ukuze "isiphunzi" sabo siwe.

Kulapho kulungile ukuba imizimba yabo emincinci ifakwe emanzini. (Sibala ishawa njengokuntywila, kuba kunokuba nzima ukulawula apho amanzi aya khona.)

Ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke oku, kungcono ukunamathela kwindawo yokuhlambela yesiponji okanye ukosula ilaphu ukuba umntwana wakho uyalifuna.

Idibeneyo: Ungalunikeza njani usana lwakho olusanda kuzalwa ibhafu

Ufanele ukuhlamba kangaphi nosana lwakho?

Wena unokuhlamba yonke imihla, kodwa usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa aludingi - ukuhlamba kanye okanye kabini ngeveki kulungile de baqale ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo. Ngelo xesha, ubomi buba nzima ngakumbi, kwaye unokufuna ukubahlamba rhoqo, nokuba kukugeza okanye ibhafu.

Inxulumene: Ufanele umhlamba kangaphi umntwana wakho?

Ngaba kukhuselekile ukuhlamba nosana lwakho?

Ngaphandle kwezixhobo ezifanelekileyo, ayisiyiyo eyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo, kwaye nazi izizathu zokuba:

Uyatyibilika. Umtyibilizi wosana. Umgangatho uyatyibilika. Ngamanye amagama, kukho umngcipheko omkhulu wokuwa kwishawari.

Kuxhomekeka kuxinzelelo lwamanzi, ishawa inokumangalisa. Amanzi abetha umzimba wosana kunokubangela umzabalazo, ayisiyiyo le uyifunayo ngomngcipheko wokuwa okwandileyo.

Iijeli zokuhlamba eziqhelekileyo kunye neeshampu ozisebenzisayo zinokulimaza amehlo abukhali wosana okanye ulusu olubuthathaka.

Kwaye ukusebenzisa nje ezi zinto kwindawo yokuqala - ngaphandle kokucwangcisa ngaphambi kwexesha ukusebenzisa isilingi okanye enye into ephethe umntwana - kufuna ukubanjwa komntwana ngesandla esinye, esingakhuselekanga, nokuba.

Iingcebiso zokuhlamba ukwenza amava akhuselekileyo

Ukuba uthatha umntwana wakho kwisitya esilungiselelwe kakuhle, unokukwenza ukuba ukhuseleke-kwaye kumnandi ngakumbi! - amava eninawo nobabini. Gcina nje oku engqondweni ukusuka ekuhambeni: ngekhe ucoceke ngendlela othanda ngayo. Okulindelweyo kunokubeka isinciphisi kumava, ke ugcine 'usezantsi.

Okokuqala off, qiniseka ukuba ne-grippy mat ebekwe ngokukhuselekileyo kumgangatho wakho wokuhlamba. Oku kunceda ukuthintela ukutyibilika kunye nokuwa kwaye kukunike unyawo olukhuselekileyo xa uhlamba nomncinci.

Ukuqhubekeka nokusingatha (akukho pun ijongiweyo) iimeko ezinokutyibilika, abanye abazali bakhetha ukusebenzisa iiglavu zokuhlamba kunokuba babambe izandla xa bebambe usana lwabo eshaweni. Ezi glavu zivumela ukubambelela ngokuqinileyo.

Isilingisi samanzi sinokubonelela ngeendlela ezikhuselekileyo zokubamba umntwana wakho eshaweni, ngakumbi ukuba uyabahlamba ngamanzi afudumeleyo- okusoloko kulungele usana olungekatyi ukutya okuqinileyo okanye ukukhasa ujikeleze, ukufumana emdaka.

Ukuba uhamba nalolu khetho, kungcono ukuba ungakhuphi usana lwakho kwisilingi xa useshaweni.

Qiniseka ukuba unendlela elula yokuhambisa nayiphi na imveliso yeshawa ngelixa ulapho, ugcine engqondweni ukuba ngekhe ukwazi ukuthatha ibhotile ye-shampoo ngesandla esinye kwaye ucinezele imveliso kwenye. Iibhotile zempompo okanye izixhobo zokuhambisa ezingenazandla zilungile.

Kwaye ngeli xesha ulapho, khumbula ukuba uzalisa ntoni kwezi bhotile okanye kwimizi yokuhambisa xa kufikwa emntwaneni.

I-shampoo yakho yesiqhelo okanye ukuhlamba umzimba kusenokungabi lukhetho olufanelekileyo lolusu lwakho oluncinci, olunokuthi lome ngokulula. Cinga ukusebenzisa ii-shampoo ezikhethekileyo zentsana kunye nabahlambululi endaweni yoko. Sukuba nexhala - baya kwenza nolusu lwakho luthambe, nalo!

Sebenzisa amanzi adikidiki - ungatshisi kangako uphembele isitya sangasese ngokukhawuleza- kwaye uphephe ukutshizwa kobuso bosana lwakho.

Ukuba ukhetha iishawa zakho kwicala elishushu, qiniseka ukunciphisa ixesha umntwana wakho aseshaweni nawe kwimizuzu nje embalwa okanye njalo.

Ukuba uneqabane ekhaya, bafune bancede. Oku kunokuba luncedo ngakumbi kwimveku. Ngaba iqabane lakho liza kukunika umntwana okanye ulithathe kuwe (itawuli ilungile) xa ugqibile.

Olunye ukhetho? Ishawa yentsapho. Oku kukuvumela wena neqabane lakho ukuba (ngononophelo) nidlulise usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa phakathi kwenu njengoko nitshintshana ngokucoceka.

Okokugqibela, ukuba usana lwakho luyangxama, ungadinga ukuphosa itawuli. Okanye ubuncinci banciphise ixesha labo lokuhlamba kwimizuzu nje embalwa ukuze bahlambe ngokukhawuleza. Ngokubanzi, uya kufuna ukwenza ukuhlamba kunye nokuhlamba njengamava amahle kangangoko!

Izinto zeshawa ekhuselekileyo

Ezi mveliso zinokuqinisekisa ukuba wena nosana ninamava akhuselekileyo, nethiyori amnandi ngakumbi. Thenga kubo kwi-Intanethi:

• ishawa
• iiglavu zebhafu
• isilingi yamanzi
• iibhotile zempompo okanye izixhobo zemveliso ezingenazandla
• iisepha zokuhlamba iintsana kunye neeshampu

Ezinye iindlela zokuhlamba nosana lwakho

Okokuqala, abazali abaninzi abatsha bayasokola ukufumana ixesha lokuthatha iishawa zabo, ngakumbi xa inguwe nosana ekhaya kuphela. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nokuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ekhaya, ungazihlamba ngokwakho!

Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, ixesha lokuhlamba kwakho wedwa xa belele ukuba kunokwenzeka.

Yizisa i-bassinet okanye i-bouncer yomntwana ngaphakathi kwamehlo eshawari kwaye uvumele izandi ezihlaziyayo zeshawari zisebenze endaweni yakho-xa umntwana wakho ondlisiwe, egcwatyiwe, kwaye elele, ngekhe bavuke ngelixa uqala i-suds yakho.

Kwelinye icala, ngamanye amaxesha ukuhlamba nosana ayisiyonto imnandi, kanye -kodwa okwexeshana- kunokuziva kuyinto eyimfuneko ukuba uhlala kwigumbi okanye kwenye indawo yokuhlala ngaphandle kwebhafu.

Kodwa unokufuna ukuzama ezinye izisombululo zokuhlamba umntwana ezingadingi ukuba ubambe usana lwakho ezandleni zakho. Oku kubandakanya:

• usebenzisa ibhafu yomntwana kumgangatho weshawari ngelixa uguqe ngamadolo ngaphandle kweshawa
• usebenzisa isinki
• ukugcwalisa isitya esizimeleyo sentsana ngamanzi amancinci kwaye unike umntwana ishawa yakhe enomtsalane kunye nentloko yeshawa (yithenge kwi-intanethi apha)

Kwaye ukuba unayo ibhafu epheleleyo, ukuhlamba nosana lwakho lukhetho.

Kungcono ukwenza oku xa sele befumene ulawulo lwentloko kwaye banokuhlala ebhafini kunye nawe, kodwa kusenziwa imigaqo-sikhokelo efanayo-yiba ne-grippy tub mat kwaye ugcine ukubamba okukhuselekileyo kusana ngelixa usebenzisa amanzi adikidiki kunye neemveliso ezikhuselekileyo zabantwana.

Ukuthatha

Ukuhlambela nosana lwakho, ukuba kwenziwe ngokukhuselekileyo, kunokuba yinto emnandi kuni nobabini. Qiniseka nje ukuba uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo okhuseleko kwaye ugcine ulindelo lokucoceka kwakho kwicala elisezantsi, kwaye uyakulunga.